The former adopted son of actress Evdokia Germanova, Nikolai Erokhin, first gave candid interview. 15-year-old Nikolai in Andrey Malakhov's program “Let them talk” talked about how he lived all these years, betrayed by his foster mother, and why he ended up in an orphanage. The actress assured that the boy is schizophrenic. Kolya himself refutes his diagnosis and says that it was more convenient for the actress to refuse it.

This story began in 2001. At 41, the actress took a 1.5-year-old boy Kolya from the orphanage. However, after 8 years, the child was again in the orphanage. He still lives in an orphanage on the outskirts of Moscow. But he got here after spending a year in a children's psychiatric hospital, where Evdokia sent him.

The family idyll lasted about 7 years. When the boy went to school, the actress began to complain that she could not cope with Kolya, referring to the fact that he had become aggressive, uncontrollable and was repeatedly caught stealing. In addition, according to the actress, he began to behave inappropriately at school - he hit his head against the walls if the teachers scolded him. Germanova said that then she found out that he was her adopted son was born from drug-addicted parents. According to her, Kolya was not taken horse doses of psychotropic drugs. And then the actress announced the boy's diagnosis: schizophrenia with a manic attraction to theft and edged weapons.

A representative of Evdokia Germanova, who was present at the studio, said that the actress sent the boy to psychiatrists for a reason. The fact is that then Nikolai inflicted serious bodily injury on a classmate, practically gouging out the eyes of a child with scissors. And then the question arose about sending him to serve either in a children's colony, or for treatment in a psychiatric hospital. “And Evdokia turned to me with a request to help so that Nikolai would not be sent to a children's colony,” her representative said. Moreover, he spoke about something that had not been mentioned before - he emphasized that Evdokia herself was attacked by Nikolai with a knife. The actress hushed up this incident, because she believed that there was a part of her guilt in this, that she was raising her wrong.

15-year-old Nikolai, in turn, notes that he does not remember attacks on a classmate and foster mother, and in general stories with stabbing objects.

“I believe that I was not difficult. Well, the child had a fight at school, well, he got a deuce. Well, what's wrong with that? No, well, it's clear that it's bad, but not that bad. I don't think she's a good mother. I never even remember when I hugged my mother, that is, Evdokia. Yes, we had good flat, but ... there were a lot of toys, everything, but ... as they say, he received little affection. Well, you came home, you're alone, you did your homework, you have nothing to do, went to bed and that's it. She left at three, came at 12 o'clock in the morning. Even when I came to the theater with her, she went about her business, I went for a walk, ”said Nikolai.

Alexey Alekseevich, the brother of Evdokia Germanova, turned out to be one of those who supported the boy at that difficult moment for him when the actress refused him. Alexey came to Kolya, visited him in the hospital, talked with him. When Germanova refused him, Alexey issued partial guardianship over Kolya. The boy spent a whole summer with him, so Alexei had the opportunity to assess whether he had schizophrenia or not. “Now he is a normal calm guy, you saw. Of course, at first after the hospital, he was very anxious and nimble. There is such a diagnosis, but it is not psychiatric, but behavioral - attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, ”said Alexei.

Nikolai said that he had recently removed his disability, annually going to the hospital for a month. “For these 8 years I could not understand why they refused me. As a person cuts off, well, she cut me off from herself, I cut her off from myself. And I made this decision consciously. I was offended, ”the teenager shared.

Kolya said that now his plans are to learn to be a cook and start a family by the age of 30. To the question of Andrei Malakhov, what he would do if Evdokia, having seen the program, wanted to ask for his forgiveness, he answered this way: “I will forgive. But I should not forgive, God will forgive ... Well, what can I say to her? 9 years have passed. I can't tell her anything."

The young man said that he was more ready to find his own eight brothers and sisters than to communicate with Germanova again. “I’m better off without her than with her,” Nikolai snapped.

year 2001. Evdokia Germanova and Kolya in the program "So far, everyone is at home" // Photo: Channel One

// Photo: ITAR-TASS / Rodionov Publishing House LLC / Natalia Lvova

Kolya Erokhin is 15. He was awarded a diploma for participating in a poetry evening, he loves football and is always hung with an orphanage kid who idolizes him. “Kind, active, sympathetic,” educators say about him. Kolya wants to become a chef and someday open his own restaurant, but he no longer dreams of a new mother. “I have been here for a long time, but getting used to a new house, people ... no,” the teenager says confidently and adds: “I want to stay in the orphanage until 18, and then leave with a calm soul.” Nicholas had two mothers. One - who gave birth to him and handed over to an orphanage, and the other - Evdokia Germanova. When one and a half year old Kolya was adopted by a famous actress, many were touched - a charming baby and a happy mother were nearby. “I got a 2-room apartment. And how can you give her forty-one? Just a girl! delighted fans rejoiced.

TV interviews, photo shoots in magazines. Here, four-year-old Kolya helps his talented and fragile mother put on evening shoes, and here they are cheek to cheek. Then the boy went to school ... “He became aggressive, uncontrollable, was repeatedly caught stealing,” Germanova complained, and with a diagnosis of schizophrenia, which the actress announced publicly, Kolya was sent to a children's psychiatric hospital. “I was there for exactly a year. I don’t remember being treated: blood tests, brain checks,” he says, and suddenly asks: “Excuse me, but can you see that I’m mentally deranged? Here you can immediately understand what it was invented. I know, they found this ... hyperactivity, but this is not a disease.

Last meeting with foster mother Nicholas remembered very well. "It was in winter. She visited me in the hospital and said: “Today I came to you in last time, you will no longer go home with me ... ”She didn’t explain anything, left the gifts and left. I cried and never saw her again. Maybe she could not withstand the difficulties or did not want to, because until I went to school, none of this happened, - Kolya shares with me. And why does she write such nasty things? Afraid of the truth? Anyone can type in "Yandex": "Evdokia Germanova." I also once typed it, read it, and then closed it and never looked again ... Who did she put me up to? A thief, a psycho, almost a maniac?

Evdokia Germanova did not come to my studio, explaining her refusal to be interviewed in the interests of the child. The actress's lawyer tells in detail the story of how Kolya got into a fight with a classmate and the director called Germanova with a request to protect other children from him. On the question of whether it is a criminal offense that the boy's diagnosis was announced publicly, the minister of Themis is silent.

When Kolya was returned to the orphanage, Germanova's elder brother was the first to visit him. Despite the prohibitions of his sister, Alexei constantly visited the child, took him to summer holidays and even took custody. “I still have fun with him. Only he doesn’t come much anymore, he’s a sick person,” Nikolay says about Alexei, “but I don’t even ask to come, I talk on the phone. I understand that he has a job, his own worries. supported the boy civil husband actress Sergei German, who did not immediately learn of its existence.

- And if now, eight years later, Evdokia herself calls you?

- I would forgive her, but I did not communicate. And what can I ask: “Why did you refuse me?” Well, this is a childish question ...

By the age of 30, Kolya wants to create own family. “Nothing else can make a person happier,” he says. And Nikolai Erokhin dreams of finding his relatives. “I would no longer want to meet with my mother, but with brothers and sisters. Because there are no questions for mom.” He found out: in addition to him, seven more children were born in the Erokhin family.

“Everything with my adopted son Kolya was just wonderful. We felt absolutely happy ... And even in the worst dream, what happened next could not be imagined, ”Evdokia Germanova sighs heavily, the leading actress of Snuffbox, who has played more than three dozen roles in films and on television and has recently crossed half a century.

I don’t remember exactly what my arrival at the orphanage was, when they began to allow me to take Kolya for a walk.

It seems to be the fifth. Or sixth? No, I don't remember exactly. Yes, however, what's the difference ... In general, 2000, summer. Arrived ahead of schedule as usual. I sit, I wait. Finally, they bring out “mine” - a small one, in sandals, looks around, probably looking out for me. I saw it, it seems, I was even delighted. But he doesn't run. All the same, as before, he approaches cautiously, as if with caution. I take my hand, I feel - I'm wary again. Well, at least he doesn't mind. I ask: "Let's go for a walk?" Silently nods. It seems that he even smiled… That summer day was especially good: the sun was gentle, not scorching, there was a light breeze, the greenery was washed after the rain and this made it somehow especially bright…

We went to the nearest park. I say something incessantly - I compose all sorts of unthinkable stories about birds, about a dragonfly, about a sad tree, about a cheerful beetle. And I wonder at myself where it just came from! And Kolya listens attentively, occasionally asking questions. Involved, means, in communication. They began to play - hide and seek, catch up, blind man's buff. Finally, I see that the boy is exhausted, tired, no longer reacting to anything. Tiny, after all, just a year and a half. I take him in my arms, and suddenly ... He smiled and clung to me with his whole body. Straight strongly-very strongly clung. And then he fell asleep. On my hands! I look at this flushed cheek on my shoulder, at this sweet saliva and think: “After all, this trusting embrace contains the main thing - the little man unconditionally handed himself over to me.”

And for the thousandth time I scrolled through my head the whole story of our acquaintance ...

HAPPINESS

about the children for a long time didn't really think about it. Firstly, I didn’t even want to leave the profession for a while, and secondly, I was frightened by the very fact of entering this world of childhood with all its problems. Obviously, everything could fall into place if I gave birth. But… I didn’t meet the man from whom I was destined to give birth… I met the first and, perhaps, the only love of my life on the set of the film “Joke”. That period was generally very important in my life, because on those shootings for me a lot was for the first time. I smoked for the first time, I tried wine for the first time and...

Photo: Mark Steinbock

fell in love for the first time. And very seriously. This love filled me all and became literally limitless. And her object was a very worthy, but very mature person, and the situation was hopeless for me, because he had a family. But, despite this, I dare to hope, he reciprocated me. Our story lasted several years, and then I stopped it - I simply forbade myself to renew ... Then I had different relationships with men - both light hobbies and serious romances, lived and civil marriage. All these men were worthy people, and I am grateful to Fate for these meetings. But what to do - in my subconscious, that first all-consuming love was always present in me, and all other feelings could not be compared with it. Therefore, no matter how wonderful everything turned out, I still always left my beloved - the first.

To leave no hope...

As a result, by the age of forty she was left alone. A terrible depression rolled over me - I was simply torn apart by the feeling that everything in my life is bad, I live meaninglessly, there is no future, no one needs me - neither in life nor in my profession. In general, my entire inner territory was seized by complete despair and hopelessness ... And in 2000, with a group of friends, I went to Turkey for the Millennium. On January 3, I decided to go to the famous ancient temple of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker - just on an excursion, with tourists. I remember going inside, and in my soul, as if something were turning over. Some kind of amazing, confessional state envelops me - I am overwhelmed with previously unknown feelings, thoughts, emotions.

Nikolai Erokhin, who was adopted and then abandoned by Evdokia Germanova, spoke about his life.

Former adopted son Nikolai Erokhin turned 18 years old. He became the hero of the show "Let them talk."

Nikolay is a college student and plans to become a chef technologist. In the studio of the “Let them talk” program, he spoke about his life.

Three years ago, the adopted son of Evdokia Germanova first shared his memories of how the actress adopted him, and seven years later returned to the orphanage. The artist refused him, accusing the boy of schizophrenia. She sent her son to school when he was five years old and was dissatisfied with his academic performance. The child spent a year in a psychiatric hospital.

As it turned out, throughout the entire treatment, only his uncle, the brother of the actress Alexei Germanov, visited him. The man took custody of the child to take him on weekends or holidays.

“He stayed mainly with a nanny, then in a manger, a fashionable garden, where he was kept and raised. He had good manners. Suddenly, at some point, he ended up in child psychiatry, I rush there, because if a person finds himself in such a situation, you need to help him. The psychiatrist said that the boy had behavioral features- Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. I went all the time, then they forbade me to visit him, but they allowed me to bring packages so that he would know - in open world he is remembered and his fate is not indifferent. The head physician said that Evdokia was from Kolya, now I can visit him, ”said Alexei Germanov.

Nikolai reported an interesting detail - after his adoption, the actress received housing. The state allocated a two-room apartment to the artist and her child. However, after Evdokia returned the boy, representatives orphanage abandoned the property on behalf of Kolya.

“We received this two-room apartment, as heterosexual, because I am a boy, and she is a woman,” Erokhin said.

The lawyer, who was in the studio, said that according to the law, after graduating from the orphanage, Nikolai is obliged to receive his own housing. Moreover, the servant of Themis was surprised why he did not receive alimony from the former adoptive parent.

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Nicholas' beloved Victoria appeared in the studio. As it turned out, the girl will soon become a mother. Nikolai's chosen one hopes to marry him.

“We have been together for about two years, met in an orphanage. Now we live together, there will be a child, a wedding at the end of the year, I hope, ”said Victoria.

The former common-law husband of Evdokia Sergey appeared in the studio. He was surprised by the pregnancy of Nikolai's chosen one. He thought Victoria had an abortion. Erokhin admitted that the man urged him to get rid of the unborn child.

“They just left the orphanage, it doesn’t add up with work, he is now unemployed. I have a small salary, I help as much as I can, I give some money all the time. I can't take over. Why am I against the birth of a child - they themselves did not get on their feet, ”admitted the former chosen one of Evdokia.

Nikolai did not hide the fact that he had to borrow money. According to him, he does not receive a scholarship, as he has not yet been expelled from the orphanage. Now he lives in the apartment of his chosen one. The former common-law spouse of Evdokia said that he decided to help the boy when the actress left him.

Evdokia herself in early interviews said that she gave the child a lot of love. She does not justify herself and is not ashamed of her act.

“I am responsible for what I have done. My conscience allows me to be happy and inspire others to exploits, so that people do not fear anything in this life, ”said Evdokia. - This is the part of life for which I am not ashamed. Kolka knows how much love was, knows and will not forget.

Erokhin does not deny that his adoptive mother loved him, though only in his preschool years. After he went to first grade at the age of five, she did not like his behavior.

Evdokia's friend Nikolai Sakharov appeared in the studio. He could not understand why the young man came to the program and brought the girl. He said that the boy was stealing things and money from the theater, although the guy denies this. Dmitry Borisov admitted that he did not expect such accusations from a teenager from an adult man.

Nikolai decided to meet with his former foster mother ten years later. He came to the apartment where he once lived.

- Do you recognize him?

- No. And who are you? Oh, you're on the show. You guys are completely crazy. I'm sorry, I don't know, - the actress answered and closed the door.

However, the young man did not stop there and called Evdokia to awaken at least some feelings in her.

“You understand, you are not doing the right thing. You muddied it and poking around in it, which I don’t want to have anything to do with, ”this is how Germanova ended the conversation.

However, experts at the studio accused Nikolai of not thanking fate for his help. wonderful people- brother Evdokia and his ex civil spouse. Nevertheless, Nikolai wants to get answers to questions from his mother.

“At least just explain why she did this to me. I don't require anything. Neither the apartment nor the money is of interest, ”concluded Erokhin.