1. He never says "Thank you."

When you do something good for him, he doesn't show that he appreciates it. He acts like he expects you to. As if you should behave this way, and he deserves it.

2. He allows himself stinging jokes.

He "jokes" about how awful you cook, how you put on weight, or how he has a mistress. He acts like he's just teasing you, but you feel angry in his jokes.

3. He makes excuses when he hurts you.

He never takes responsibility for his actions. Even if he says "I'm sorry", then he makes excuses that he was just drunk, or that it was by accident, and in general that it was you yourself who were to blame for everything and provoked him.

4. He breaks down over trifles.

Maybe you hung up the towel “wrong” or left the dishes in the sink, but he's already rolling up a scandal. He makes you feel like nothing, simply because you made a small mistake or something that he didn't like.

5. He tries to control you.

He tells you until what time you can walk with your colleagues. He tries to control which of your friends you can communicate with. Where can you go. You have to ask him for permission before agreeing to anything, because he has taken over your independence.

6. He doesn't respect your personal belongings in the least.

When he is angry, he can break your phone. He kicks your clothes out of the closet to make room for himself. He's ready to eat your lunch without asking. But if you touch any of his things, he will make a scandal.

7. He belittles your interests.

If you tell him about your hobbies and hobbies, dreams, he doesn't even want to hear about it. He changes the topic of conversation or laughs in your face, saying that he does not understand why you are wasting time on this nonsense.

8. He criticizes your appearance.

He speaks unceremoniously when you gain extra pounds, or when it's time for you to paint over your gray hair. He makes an order for you in a restaurant so that you don't eat extra calories. He tells you to change before going out because he doesn't want to be seen with you like that.

9. He doesn't let you be happy.

Even when you are happy and share some good news with him, he always tries to find some minus to criticize and upset you. He doesn't like to see you happy.

10. He envies your success.

He doesn't want you to earn more than he does. He doesn't want you to have fun without him. He doesn't want you to have a reason to live other than that you are dating him.

11. He's too protective of you.

He can check your messages and mail. He can start a fight with anyone who looks at you the wrong way. He considers you his property.

Not all meetings and acquaintances develop into something more. Sometimes a serious relationship is impossible due to the fact that a man does not suit you in some way, but in some cases you may not suit a man. There is nothing wrong with that, because you must admit that love is a complex feeling, and often it arises for reasons beyond our control. In this situation, it would be logical for the man to simply break off the relationship, inviting you to remain friends. But it turns out that not all representatives of the stronger sex find the courage to explain. Some men find it much easier to lie by inventing non-existent reasons why you can't be together. Sometimes these excuses look pretty ridiculous, but if you fell head over heels in love, you will most likely be ready to believe in any fable, just to continue to indulge in vain illusions.

Here are 7 of the most common excuses that, after hearing that, you should understand that a man just wants to get rid of you.

1. You are too good for me

Not a single normal person will give up what he really likes, considering himself unworthy of happiness. If a man tells you that you are too good / beautiful / smart for him, know that he just wants to look like a gentleman in your eyes and is afraid of offending you. No one leaves a partner if they think they are perfect, because that sounds silly to say the least.

2. I still love my ex

This may be partly true. It is possible that a man really has affection for his ex-girlfriend, but if he is interested in you and hopes for the continuation of the romance, he will never admit his sincere feelings. With this phrase, the man makes it clear that there will be no romance between you, but not because his heart is not free, but for some other reason.

3. I'm too busy

When a person is in love, or at least feels sincere sympathy, he will find time for a relationship with the object of his passion, regardless of the workload, study or other important matters. If a man excuses himself by his busyness and lack of free time, this means that he simply does not know how to tell you about his dislike. The man hopes that you yourself will guess the true reason for this excuse.

4. I lost your phone number and did not know how to find you

This phrase claims to be the stupidest male excuse. Let's say a man really lost your phone number, but there are dozens of other ways to find the right person. If a man really wants to find the girl he likes, do not doubt that he will figure out how to do it. He will be on duty under your house, find you on social networks, find your place of work or study, where he will meet your friends. This excuse may sound plausible only in one case, if you met, for example, on the subway, managed to exchange phone numbers and names, and then dispersed in different directions. And then, in the presence of real interest, a man will show ingenuity and find you, because this will become his "fix" idea.

5. It's not about you, it's about me

Hearing a similar phrase, a girl in love will become even more mired in her feelings. After all, it sounds so mysterious and suggests that there are some serious problems in a man's life, but he does not want to bother you with them. The mind clouded by falling in love will come up with a logical explanation for any excuse, but if you are used to looking at the world soberly, do not even hesitate - a man is just looking for a reason to break off relations with you. And, as if taking the blame on himself, he tries to get away from frank conversation.

6. I'm not ready for a serious relationship now.

A man may really not be ready for a serious relationship, however, he never admits this to a girl he likes. Having fallen in love, a young man, on the contrary, will do everything possible to show the seriousness of his intentions, even if this is not true. This phrase is a common excuse that, on the one hand, protects you from being too blunt, but on the other hand, it makes it clear that there is no future between you.

7. I am not worthy of you

Modesty is not the most common male trait. You can be sure that this man is not worthy of you, because he did not have the courage to openly declare his plans, and he chose an easier, but less honest path. If a man says that he is not good enough to be close to you, it means that he did not initially plan anything serious, however, he does not want to admit it.

Feeling rejected is not the most pleasant emotion in life. However, when you hear a variation of one of the above phrases, don't let yourself get depressed or depressed. If love has not happened, this does not mean that you are not worthy of it. It's just that this particular man is not the hero of your novel, but very soon you will meet the person who will become him.

But there were also other men who behave in an absolutely opposite way, but for some reason think that they are not good enough for their lovely ladies. And therefore, such men simply leave, leaving the women who love them in complete confusion. What to do if your boyfriend thinks that he is not worthy of you, and you are completely sure of the opposite?

Causes

First, it is necessary to understand why the young person had such thoughts. This is most likely due to bad previous experience or your own behavior. For example, if your young man is really kind, honest, noble, loyal and loves you very much, then this behavior may be caused by the fact that he sees shortcomings in himself and considers them too serious. Many men of this type are not romantic enough and withdrawn in feelings. They say “I love you” almost once in their life, and they express all their love by actions, not words. For girls who, as we all know, love with their ears, this is not enough, and they begin to systematically arrange scandals and tantrums about the fact that the guy will never say a word, and does not love her at all. Thus, you just want to get tenderness from him, and the young man accumulates a feeling that he constantly disappoints and hurts you, so in the end the man simply decides not to torment his beloved one and leaves.

Another reason a guy might decide he's not worthy of you is financially. If a man sees that you have rich parents or you yourself earn a lot, and for some reason he cannot give you so much money, the young man simply develops a complex. Looking how you buy expensive clothes, he begins to think that he has never will be able to afford such purchases and in such quantities. Thus, a man, like a breadwinner, begins to develop a complex and he decides that he is not financially reliable enough for you. As a result, the man, disappointed in himself, leaves. In fact, he does not want to ruin your life, believing that someone else will be able to give you everything that they are used to, and he will make you endure those living conditions that are unacceptable for you.

These two reasons are the main reasons for a man to consider himself unworthy. As a rule, really good guys come to this idea, who really do not notice all their positive qualities. And if they drive something into their heads, then it becomes extremely difficult to dissuade them, but it is still possible.

So, we ourselves often become the reason for making such decisions. Let's look at one situation from the perspective of a man and a woman, for example, a girl has a birthday. The guy brings her an armful of roses and hands her, but since for some reason he himself is not in the mood, his congratulations sound rather dry. The girl, seeing this, throws a tantrum about the fact that he does not love her, that he cannot say anything good, word for word, everything passes on to the person and can even go so far that the girl starts shouting something totype “I hate you, you you always hurt me. " What do we get in the end? For a woman, it was just a surge of emotions. She does not hate anyone and values ​​her man very much, just in this way she wanted to make it clear that she needed more romance, without which she felt bad. And what does a man see? He sees that no matter how he tries to show his love, instead he just hurts her. That his own feelings and emotions ruin her life. And if such situations are methodically repeated, then in the end, the guy simply concludes that he really only brings pain and disappointment. And leaves.

How to resolve the problem?

And after that we suddenly realize that we do not need niromancy, nor "I love you" every half hour, but just want him to be there. To get started, you just need to talk to him. Just remember that you no longer need to make any claims to him. The point is now that he can do whatever he wants, and you will close your eyes. It says that you will no longer demand from him those manifestations of feelings that are unnatural for him. Therefore, calling a man into a conversation, immediately let him understand the fact that you really love him and you feel good with him. Even with such a taciturn and withdrawn, you are fine. And maybe you want not quite the kind of romance he offers you, but this does not mean that you cannot live without it. In fact, your behavior is a woman's whims. And yes, you pursued the goal of changing something, because, as you know, women are great idealists and perfectionists, but now you understand that you can live without passionate declarations of love and a carpet of roses on the floor. But you can't live without your man.

If your boyfriend starts to speak some arguments and prove that you really will be better off without him - just kiss. Trust me, the kiss will make him forget what he was saying and will significantly reduce his desire to be noble and let you go. And then tell him that you love him, that you want to be only with him and you don’t give a damn about the fact that he will talk about love once a year, on your birthday, and that is not the fact that it will be. You must make the man believe you, so that he has no doubts that he is not bad, but that you are sometimes too capricious.

And the last thing that also needs to be remembered is the money issue. In this case, it is more difficult to persuade a man, because he loses confidence in himself, as in a breadwinner. Therefore, you need to show him that, firstly, it does not matter to you at all whether you bought a blouse at a second-hand or vboutika, and, secondly, to convince the man that money will never bring you happiness and he misunderstood you. Perhaps this situation arose because you believed that your boyfriend could achieve more in his career. And for some reason he did not. Talk to him and tell him that it is not important to you how much he earns, but it is important how he unleashes his potential, because he has a really huge one. But if he nevertheless does not want to do this for some reasoned reasons, you will not touch him anymore, and if he is just lazy, then perhaps you will, but this will never happen because you do not have enough material resources. You just have enough, you just love him so much that you want the best for him.

Most likely, after such a conversation, the man will return and all you have to do is not to put pressure on his pain points anymore and try to really accept him as he is.

26.07.2017 10:59:05

Today you will find out why some people get the best men, but you are unlucky. Why do you often settle for unhappy relationships?

How to become worthy of the best men? What do you need to KNOW AND BE ABLE for this?

And we will also talk about male infidelity, and you will understand why he cheats with someone who is stupider, older and not as beautiful as you.

So let's go ...

"I have a problem with a guy!"

"Hello Oksana, first I want to express my gratitude to you for your efforts. My name is Evgenia, I am a student. I want to take your course, I plan to make money over the summer and buy six months ...

A year ago I met a young man. Previously, he sought me out and called me in marriage, but now it is worth raising the question - he says, let's get to know each other better. It upsets me. As if I just need it ... But I see in him the future husband, the father of my children.

But when I just kicked him off, and he ran after me, I found out after a while that he had cheated on me. We are both to blame. He asked for forgiveness for a long time, and I forgave. And recently I found this madam in the lists of his phone. We had a scandal!

I am desperate ... I read your books, write a diary of gratitude ... But these suspicions in me ...

He does not introduce his parents, moreover, he never tells them if I am even near. How to react? I want to learn to be wise. And I understand that this is not a hobby ... In general, I have a very good one, only I understand: I do not have enough knowledge and wisdom to build relationships correctly.

I also look at her, at her face - she is not a fountain, but a cool figure. I, of course, not complete, but too much is present. It eats me from the inside.

I am very dependent on him, even when we quarrel - so worried. This is my first man in an intimate sense, and with regards to relationships.

Recently I asked him: "What did you find in her? She's scary!" And he said, "I don't look at it." She seemed smart to him. I'm confused! Help, Oksana, please. "

Eugene.

Evgenia, you write that you are keeping a Diary of gratitude on him. But in your situation, this will not help. By the way, in my books I have explained many times that you cannot solve problems with grooms the way we solve them with husbands - in these situations you need a different approach.

Understand one simple thought:
You met him a year ago. You have a great passion, and you write that he was running after you. It is natural. But after a while, his period of passion ended, and he began to stare at other ladies. A short period of passion and love occurs in men a la "Womanizer", tk. due to the frequent change of pleasures (and sex with a new partner is a pleasure for him) - this period is inevitably reduced. This is a scientific fact.

If a man cheated on you even during the period of passion and courtship, it means that he will continue to cheat. And this is also a fact. If you don’t believe, check: do it in such a way as to awaken passion in him, and marry him (I explained in detail how to do this in the article). I give a full guarantee - in six months you will write to me that he is cheating on you.

If a man already has a program "to have pleasure only with the help of other women", and the sublimation function works poorly for him, then this is a low-quality man. Do you need one?

What would I do in your case?

I would finish this gestalt. But I graduated competently in order to maintain my self-esteem at the proper level.

You need to agree to be with this man ONLY ON YOUR TERMS. If he does not go to them, you yourself will be disgusted to continue this relationship, and you can easily end it, and you will find yourself a better man.

If you continue this love burden, where he does not appreciate you, and you cling to him, you can get yourself a big neurosis.

Who needs a relationship?

"... Previously, he sought me out and invited me to marry, but now it's worth raising the question - he says, let's get to know each other better. It upsets me. As if I just need it ... But I see in him my future husband, father my children ... "

Let's look at the situation through his eyes (and he has a clearly neurotic outlook on things).

He already does not want you so passionately as at the beginning of courtship, therefore he additionally sleeps with another lady. It is pleasant to him, tk. each male likes to have more than one female at a time. Any baboon will have self-esteem as a result. It is only an adult and self-sufficient man who needs one, and the BEST woman. Baboons, on the other hand, breed a monkey harem. By the way, women with low self-esteem also like to have several men - this is a matter of personal development. And you don’t set any conditions for him - it’s convenient for him - so he keeps you by your side.

You want a serious relationship with him. But he is not. You play by his rules, so the situation does not change. If you play by your own rules, and kindle passion in him (even if not for long), then you can marry him.

But! You will also receive a 100% guarantee that he will cheat on you. Think you need it? Doesn't that humiliate you?

The comedian Mikhail Evdokimov had a wife and a couple of mistresses. After his death, they publicly and noisily divided his property. They, of course, understood that they were not the only ones with their beloved man, but they knew how to put up with it - after all, he is rich, witty, successful and famous - the "pluses" outweighed this "minus".

But your fiancé is not Evdokimov, and he has no such "pluses" ... Will you be able to tolerate his other women in the future? ..

What did he find in her?

"... Recently I asked him:" What did you find in her? She's scary! "And he said:" I don't look at this. "She seemed smart to him. I'm confused! .."

Let's unravel this.

A man can cheat even with an ugly one, even with a stupid one, and even with someone who is older than you. And why - it will never be admitted to you.

Do you know why? As one of my acquaintances, a sexologist, said: "Because the pipis combed it ..."

You see, all men want other women. Just like women want other men. This is physiological and normal. But not everyone has an inner moral brake, the ability to value relationships. Not everyone has moral principles. Not everyone knows how to sublimate their libidinal energy - and pursue a career, art or science. Many find it easier to fulfill their animal function, which we inherited from baboons. Scientists, unfortunately, have perfectly proven that we are still more animals than humans. And these are the realities of life.

If you contact a sexologist about the betrayal of your man, he will tell you exactly this.

Tell me, why am I worse than her?

Why are you asking him at all what he found in her?

Indeed, in essence, your question reads: "Tell me, why is she better than me than I am worse than her?"

A woman who values ​​and respects herself will not even think why he changed. "Well, the pussy is combed, and what? I am so beautiful and delightful that my man cannot even think that I am worse than someone." Therefore, she will not even be interested in anything like that.

And if she is interested, it means that she herself programs the man in her own words: "I am worse than her!"

A woman who does not value herself asks a man what he finds in other ladies.

A woman who loves and appreciates herself constantly makes it clear to a man that she deserves only the best, which is why he considers her the best.

Is he really good?

"... In general, he is very good with me, only I understand: I do not have enough knowledge and wisdom to build relationships correctly ..."

"Good" is your illusion. They are all "good" as long as there is Passion and Fall in love. And when the Passion is over, everything will be twenty times worse. Therefore, I recommend solving the problem through parting, and on my own terms.

I am generally surprised by the girls who talk about what kind of "good guy" they have. I have already explained a hundred times - they are "good" only temporarily, and in 3-5 years they will treat you like an ordinary person. This is a scientific fact. Therefore, you should not put his "goodness" on the scales - it will not last long.

If the guy treats his parents well. If he is serious and responsible, makes a career, has wonderful hobbies in life, and fulfills your requests - these are real indicators.

But if he treats women like a pig (and he is cheating on both of you!) - this is a low-class man.

Women, don't be silly! Learn to think with your head. A man is "good" when he has a whole carriage and a small cart of wonderful real qualities and character traits. And if he is "good" only because he has a temporary clouding of his mind due to passionate sex with you, then this is guaranteed to end soon.

"... I also look at her, at her face - she is not a fountain, but a cool figure ... I, of course, not complete, but there is too much ... It eats me from the inside ..."

In terms of weight and its appearance, this is complete nonsense. Read the articles on our blog - work them out and the problem will go away. There are also a lot of useful methods developed over the years that have already helped thousands of women to solve problems with low self-esteem. I give everything for free - just do it!

"... I am highly dependent on him, even when we quarrel - I am so worried ... This is my first man in an intimate sense, and with regards to relationships ..."

Evgenia, you are now feeling sorry for yourself. But you need to pull yourself together and grow up. And solve the problem competently.

Having entered the course, the emphasis in your work will be on your self-esteem. Look for reasons: who and why did you underestimate it so much, why do you choose in life what hurts you? Why do you DO NOT LOVE and APPRECIATE yourself so much?

If you build and write down clear goals in life, create a voluminous Image of a relationship with a man that you really like - you can translate it into reality. Work, and you will succeed!

Why does someone get the best men, but you are unlucky?

"Oksana, good afternoon!
I discovered your wonderful project, now I receive a newsletter every day. I am thinking of enrolling in your course and describing what I have for today.

Until recently, it seemed to me that everything in my life is more or less good. I have been married for 7 years, the child is 3 years old, the apartment is on a mortgage, the job is good. But all this does not make me happy at all.

I got married without love, but rather in revenge for the Don Juan man who broke my heart - they say, that's how quickly I found a replacement. I don’t love my husband, and I couldn’t love him. Now in the process of divorce. I am trying to maintain friendly relations, for the sake of my daughter, she must have a father. I always looked at other men, saw worthy and interesting, but as if I thought that they were not for me.

A year ago I met a man, talked about interests, just like that. He is married. I was sure that we were just hobby friends. But in the spring he began to actively look after me, I am interested in him, and, in general, I gave up. But he doesn't want to change anything in his life, and I realized that I don't want to be a mistress. And yesterday she told him about it.

It's complicated, right? :) To enroll in your course, will it be useful? "

Regards, Nina.

"... I always looked at other men, saw worthy and interesting, but as if I thought that they were not for me ..."

It's important to understand one simple thing:
Women who are now married to the best men are NOT smarter, NOT prettier, and NOT at all better than you. They may even be older, dumber, and not as attractive as you.

But they have one advantage over you:
They just think they are WORTHY of the best man. And without reproaches and contradictions, they get what they want.

But how to acquire this Dignity?

You need to create the right INTENTION that, "Yes, I AM WORTHY of a better husband. And I WILL GET him!"

And this will already be the result of your work with our course. You need to germinate in your brain the necessary connections between neurons, and remove those that contradict this Intention. And this is practice, practice and practice again.

And write him a couple of psychologically well-written letters, explaining to yourself why you did it and think it is right (sending letters is not necessary). How to write letters, I explained in the article and in the discussion A. The Practice of Forgiveness from our course will help you completely complete this situation.

"... I got married without love, but rather in revenge for the Don Juan man who broke my heart, they say, that's how quickly I found a replacement ..."

You had a hysterical need to prove something to someone. But this, fortunately, can be treated. If you create the Image of your wonderful life, then over time you will understand that it is much more pleasant to BE, and not to APPEAR. And it's better to prove only to myself that I can and will achieve more - while others will manage (why waste my life and precious energy on everyone?)

To learn this - instill in yourself new habits. And the main one: to be able to love and value oneself without sacrificing oneself for the sake of some stupid principles.

Nina, you were able to conduct a competent analysis of your life. And this is already the first step to improve it. Keep up the good work, you will succeed!

"... I don’t love my husband and I couldn’t fall in love. Now I am in the process of divorce. I am trying to maintain friendly relations, for the sake of my daughter, she must have a father ..."

The goals and intentions are correct. And everything else is a matter of technology. I wrote in detail about how to maintain a relationship with a man in my book.

We also maintain friendly relations with the help and

How to learn to love your husband

"I don't love my husband!"- this is, in fact, a diagnosis.

Many naive ladies believe that you need to marry for love - then there will be happiness! But this is all nonsense. Because the period of passion does not last more than a year, and falling in love for 3-5 years. And then what?

If a woman does not have models of behavior to LOVE a loved one, she will not love him. But to be angry with him, to be offended, to scold and hate is as much as you like. And I give you a guarantee: if you married out of a huge and wild love for that Don Juan or someone else, in a few years you would hate him too ...

Because Love and True Intimacy with a person (here I am not talking about sexual intimacy, but about intellectual, spiritual) are certain patterns of behavior. If they are, everything will be fine. If not, you will live in full ... opera.

"I want my husband to go in for sports and start earning a lot! How can I influence him?"

Over the years of practice and helping 10,000+ women, I was faced with the fact that many students did not have an understanding of who a worthy man is.

Some identified him by external signs - he gives flowers and makes compliments, others laughed and said that the worthy ones had been dismantled. In this article, you will learn:

  • How to understand that there is a standing man in front of you
  • How to match and become a real woman yourself
  • Where to find a decent man

An article for girls who are temporarily without partners, have started a relationship or even have been in it for some time.

Before talking about the signs of a real man, let me dwell a little on what will happen if you choose the “wrong” one.

In a relationship with an unworthy manin addition to wasting time, you run the risk of:

  • Get into a codependent relationship. From the experience of my clients, I can say that unworthy men very often turn out to be dexterous manipulators. They impose their desires and needs on the woman they love and make them live only by their own interests.
  • Lose self-esteem.Constantly meeting the wrong men, many girls have forgotten how to believe in themselves and for a long time plunged into thoughts: "What is wrong with me, since there are not the same ones around?"
  • Completely disappointed in men. I also saw many cases of girls becoming disappointed in men and suffering from their loneliness for years.

If you don’t plan to spend a lot of time and energy meeting the wrong people, read below what signs distinguish a real man.

7 subtle signs of a decent man

Achieves goals, and does not play "terpily".A worthy man will not fantasize about: it would be nice to make a million, open a business, but he will go and realize his goals.

It doesn't matter what he does - works as an engineer in a factory or writes songs for celebrities - what matters is that with the help of his skills he knows how to make money and perfectly understands why he needs to get up half an hour earlier in the morning.

He does not play as a couch driver and does not freeze for years in search of himself / depression / hesitation from one job to another, but chooses a business that captivates, and becomes a pro there.

When something goes wrong, he does not blame the tyrant boss or the crisis in the country, but looks for what he has screwed up and corrects his mistakes. He will not demand money from a woman and whine that everything is bad in the country, therefore, he, the king, has nowhere to go.

Doesn't run away from responsibility. Covering you with a blanket and bringing coffee to bed is not about responsibility. And even the proposal for marriage does not apply here.

Let's take a look at what I mean by the concept of responsibility.

Alexey has his own business and team. If he does not act, then there will be nothing to pay people a salary. He bears financial responsibility for them.

Andrey works in a taxi and, except for his own car, is not responsible for anything. I have nothing against taxi drivers, I mean that the level of responsibility of a business owner is much higher than that of a driver.

A worthy man is not afraid to take risks, to expand the boundaries of his comfort, which, a priori, increases his area of ​​responsibility.

He can provide for his woman, if he cannot, then he does not start a family, but works to increase his income.

I would also like to say about marriage. The notorious stamp in the passport and a blessing from an aunt in a tapestry suit does not guarantee that a man will take responsibility in a relationship. I think you yourself have come across examples where, after the wedding, the husband sits on the sofa, and the woman is forced to work two jobs.

Doesn't live with parents.Your chosen one is not ready for a relationship if, after 25 years, he lives with his mother / grandmother or shares a room with his younger brother. He has not yet grown as a person, has not achieved independence.

Doesn't waste time on nonsense.He won't mindlessly stick on social media or call you every five minutes. Only loafers do this. People who do what they love and want to become a pro know how to prioritize.

Of course, a worthy man devotes time to his beloved, if a woman does not eat out his brain with a teaspoon and herself invests in relationships.

Does not live by the principle "And so it will come down."He understands that without constant development there will be degradation, so he always strives to be better than he was yesterday: to make more money, to become a good father, a professional employee, to look better physically. Self-development for him is a lifelong path.

He doesn't need all the money in the world out of greed, no. He works not only because of money, there is always an idea behind it to make this world a better place, to bring something valuable and important into it.

Doesn't criticize without feedback.“You are fat, the soup is not tasty, you didn’t iron your shirt! Ugh!" - you will never hear such phrases from a real man. Yes, if he doesn't like something, he can say about it, calmly, without getting personal.

And also offer a solution to the problem. For example, instead of the reply: "You are fat," say: "Honey, I care about your health, I see you recovered after giving birth, perhaps we should enroll you in the gym?"

Only an insecure person who wants to assert himself at your expense or instill a sense of guilt criticizes and calls names.

How to match and become a real woman yourself?

First, develop... When a girl says that she wants to vacation in Monaco, receive diamonds and fur coats as a gift, but at the same time, the last time she read a book last year, her requests are unrealistic.

A financially independent and intellectually developed man will look for a girl to match.

In 90% of cases, he will not want to build a relationship with someone who does not invest time and money in her development, is not addicted to anything and does not take care of herself.

You don't have to learn to make millions or be a tough businesswoman to meet a real man. However, it is important to pump up your femininity, find your favorite business and develop in it.

Secondly, get rid of negative attitudes towards life.If you constantly complain that everything is bad, there are no worthy ones around, then do not be surprised why there are only gigolos and alcoholics around you. What we broadcast to the world comes back to us.

Third, learn to be easy-going.Do not overload the man with your problems from the first date, listen more and talk less.

Decent men value gentleness and ease of communication, not attempts to please in an unnatural way or manipulate through sex. Just in this video I tell you that, in my understanding, a worthy woman:

Where to find a decent man?

Perhaps now you are expecting from me the coordinates of the location of the field or the place with worthy men and you will be a little disappointed that I will not give them to you. Well, please forgive me.

I have prepared more valuable information for you - a free course. Just from him you will learn:

  • What to do for a worthy man to find you on his own
  • How to be a decent woman for a decent man
  • How to build a harmonious serious relationship
  • How to be happy in a relationship without drama and manipulation

Just she will help to remove all doubts. Use the tips and don't waste your precious time on * blows. You deserve the best this life can give you!

conclusions

  • Worthy men have attributes. These are not mythical creatures, but quite real people.
  • To meet a real man, you need to match yourself: to develop, do what you love and be easy to communicate.
  • There are no definite coordinates where real men are "found". You can meet them anywhere. Be open and feminine, then a worthy man will find you himself.
  • I will help you with everything else in my free course.