Brief biography of Abdulov's wife Yulia Miloslavskaya. Mom Abdulova: My son will not marry Yulia! Fight for a happy life

Bear from "An Ordinary Miracle", Ivan Pukhov from "The Wizards", Mitya from the movie "Don't part with your loved ones", star performances in "Lenkom" - on the account of the beloved artist a lot bright roles... Alexander Abdulov died on January 3, 2008. He was 54 years old - the peak of his career, new turn in personal life. Shortly before the death of the actor, the wife of Alexander Gavrilovich Julia gave birth to a daughter, Zhenya. When the artist was buried, his baby was only 10 months old ...

On the eve of the anniversary of the death of the idol, "KP" phoned his widow Yulia Abdulova.

And on January 3, on the 10th anniversary of Sasha's death, we will gather with our friends, ”Yulia Abdulova told KP. - Every year we gather on this day with loved ones, with those who remember Sasha. Meet me at Vagankovsky cemetery, and then we'll go to a restaurant. We never remember him, we always clink glasses when we talk about him, gathering at the table. Sasha was a holiday man, he brought so much joy to all of us, so we always talk about him as if he were alive.

"Daughter - a copy of Alexander Gavrilovich"

According to relatives, Alexander Abdulov dreamed of a child in recent years.

My eldest daughter The artist loved Ksenia as a native and never advertised that he adopted the girl after the wedding with Irina Alferova. The fact that Xenia's father is Irina Alferova's first husband, the Bulgarian Boyko Gyurov, became known not so long ago.

The artist was happy when he was born youngest daughter Zhenya. As Abdulov's widow Yulia says, 10-year-old Evgenia is very similar to her father and to his mother Lyudmila Aleksandrovna, who passed away last year.

Zhenya is a copy of Sasha. And her character went to her father. Temperament is not mine, I am a calm person. There is endless movement, conversations, - says Yulia Abdulova.

The artist's widow does not exclude that her daughter will continue acting dynasty Abdulovs.

Zhenya goes to film school and plays football. Why did you take a great interest in football? It's hard to say ... I'm not an athlete, probably, my daughter went to her father, Sasha was a fan of Spartak, - Yulia Abdulova shares with Komsomolskaya Pravda. - Zhenya wanted to go to fencing, but I thought that this hobby was not suitable for a girl.

Child from student romance

Meanwhile, Abdulov's friend, actor Georgy Martirosyan, said: Alexander Gavrilovich confessed to him that Zhenya was not his only child. Like, during his student days, he had an affair, as a result of which the actor had a son. True, according to Martirosyan, Abdulov's relationship with the child's mother did not work out, the boy was raised by another man.

When Abdulov's son grew up, ex-lover the actor called him, said that the boy did not develop a relationship with her husband. Alexander Gavrilovich met with his former lady of the heart and her son. According to the actor, the guy was very similar to Abdulov. However, after this meeting, Alexander Gavrilovich's communication with the boy and his mother stopped. Like, he was young, afraid of responsibility.

Now, as Martirosyan says, the illegitimate son of Abdulov is a little over forty, the man has not yet contacted his father's family and his friends.

Classmates of Alexander Gavrilovich did not hear anything about his illegitimate child, but did not deny that in his student years the artist was very amorous.

After the romance ended, Sasha was terribly worried. He was an emotional person, every time he sincerely thought that he had met his one and only, - recalls Abdulov's classmate at GITIS Yuri Konoplyannikov. - I remember that Sasha was very beautiful girl, nurse Tatiana. Sasha sometimes skipped classes, but all the time he brought information: they say, the reason is good, he was ill. The reason for absenteeism at Abdulov's was really good: he was at Mosfilm all the time, went to auditions, really wanted to act. But once the teacher carefully studied the certificate that Sasha once again showed him. There was the seal of the maternity hospital in which Sasha's girlfriend Tanya worked as a nurse. Abdulov was then almost expelled from GITIS. I don’t know why Sasha broke up with Tanya later, he didn’t tell us about it, but he was worried about parting with his beloved, as always, emotionally.

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"Sasha didn't tell me anything"

We asked his widow Yulia about the illegitimate son of Alexander Abdulov.

It is better to address this question to Georgy Martirosyan. I don’t know anything about this, Sasha didn’t tell me anything, ”Yulia Abdulova told us. - Yes, Georgy Martirosyan tells everyone about it. Considering the story with Spartak Mishulin (the late actor's illegitimate son recently appeared, whose existence his family did not know. - Ed.), I am not surprised at such conversations.

I do not mind, Sasha's sons will show up - great. My child is very fond of brothers and sisters. Zhenya communicates with everyone like family. My daughter is open, kind, sociable. For example, I have wonderful communication with eldest daughter Sasha Ksyusha Alferova. So, if someone else appears at Sasha's place, then it's good.

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The best roles of Alexander Abdulov. January 3, exactly 10 years since the beloved actor - Alexander Abdulov

Julia Meshina was born in November 1975 in the Ukrainian city of Nikolaev. Yulia's family was sufficiently wealthy, so from childhood the girl got used to living in abundance.

Julia's father, Nikolai Veniaminovich, was the manager of a profitable hotel located in the capital of France, Paris. The girl was pampered by his own uncle, who at that time worked as the director of a large plant, which was located in the city of Nikolaev. All of Yulia's childhood and adolescence were carefree. Yulia's family was very friendly.

In the early 90s, during the collapse Soviet Union, family well-being collapsed in an instant. Uncle Julia was arrested by the police. Nikolai Veniaminovich was forced to leave the country, having previously annulled his marriage with his wife. Yulia's father was charged with embezzling more than $ 37 million, and for such a crime the prison term was quite long. According to Yulia, she does not like to remember that time.

Years passed, the girl graduated from school and entered the Odessa institute. She really liked studying, it helped her to escape from memories. At that time, Yulia was 17 years old. But at such a young age, the girl has already begun a serious relationship with her first love. The feelings were so strong that Julia married her chosen one the same year. At the time of the wedding, Julia's husband was 18 years old.

With the help of her parents, Julia's husband at that time had his own business, which brought a good income. The guy's family was also quite wealthy and had many business connections.

This marriage lasted a very a short time... Julia really wanted to give birth to a child, there was a moment when the girl even became pregnant. But the husband had his own plans for the future life, in which there was no place for children. Having a constant high income, which was much different from the income of ordinary children, he wanted to walk and have fun. Such adventures led to constant casual relationships.

Julia is a person who is not able to forgive betrayal. Constant worries and tears weighed heavily on her, and she left for the capital.

In Moscow, Julia immediately found herself. She was distinguished by expressive female beauty, and therefore she had plenty of fans. The girl had many friends and lovers. It was pretty famous people, for example Igor Markov, who has produced many projects, various businessmen such as Shabtai Kalmanovich, famous singers- Sergei Trofimov. But all these relationships had no foundation under them.

And now Julia meets Sasha Ignatenko, who was the director's son news agency ITAR-TASS. They were soon married. Julia's life got better again.

Various meetings, parties began, Julia met new people. And so, at one of the parties, she met Alexander Abdulov. Although the girl did not pay attention to other men, she immediately liked Alexander. Fate put them at the same table, where they immediately found a common language. Once again, love flashed in Julia's heart with renewed vigor.

The lovers carefully concealed their relationship, and only after Julia's official divorce did information appear about her relationship with Abdulov.

Alexander was not very eager to tie himself marriage ties, because, as he himself said, the only love of his life was Irina Alferova. However, feelings prevailed and they got married in 2006. The celebration was quiet, and a year later the couple had a daughter, who was named Zhenya. And everything would be fine, but Abdulov began to fade away rapidly - the cancer made itself felt.

And on a January day in 2008, Abdulov was gone. The wife still cannot come to her senses. The onset of depression even brought Julia to the point that she was already beginning to drink too much. Only faithful friends helped the woman and brought her back to life.

Today Julia is fond of astrology. According to her, astrology is a path that can lead a person to faith.

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Today Julia is fond of astrology. According to her, astrology is a path that can lead a person to faith.

Julia Meshina was born in November 1975 in the Ukrainian city of Nikolaev. Yulia's family was sufficiently wealthy, so from childhood the girl got used to living in abundance.

In the early 90s, during the collapse of the Soviet Union, family well-being collapsed in an instant. Uncle Julia was arrested by the police. Nikolai Veniaminovich was forced to leave the country, having previously annulled his marriage with his wife. Yulia's father was charged with embezzling more than $ 37 million, and for such a crime the prison term was quite long. According to Yulia, she does not like to remember that time.

With the help of her parents, Julia's husband at that time had his own business, which brought a good income. The guy's family was also quite wealthy and had many business connections.

This marriage lasted for a very short time. Julia really wanted to give birth to a child, there was a moment when the girl even became pregnant. But the husband had his own plans for the future life, in which there was no place for children. With a constant high income, which was much different from the income of ordinary children, he wanted to go out and have fun. Such adventures led to constant casual relationships.

Julia is a person who is not able to forgive betrayal. Constant worries and tears weighed heavily on her, and she left for the capital.

In Moscow, Julia immediately found herself. She was distinguished by expressive female beauty, and therefore she had plenty of fans. The girl had many friends and lovers. These were quite famous people, for example Igor Markov, who produced many projects, various businessmen such as Shabtai Kalmanovich, famous singers - Sergei Trofimov. But all these relationships had no foundation under them.

And now Julia meets Sasha Ignatenko, who was the son of the director of the ITAR-TASS news agency. They were soon married. Julia's life got better again.

The lovers carefully concealed their relationship, and only after Julia's official divorce did information appear about her relationship with Abdulov.

Alexander was not very eager to tie himself by marriage, because, as he himself said, the only love of his life was Irina Alferova. However, feelings prevailed and they got married in 2006. The celebration was quiet, and a year later the couple had a daughter, who was named Zhenya. And everything would be fine, but Abdulov began to fade away rapidly - the cancer made itself felt.

Today Julia is fond of astrology. According to her, astrology is a path that can lead a person to faith.

“When Sasha left, my life stopped,” says Yulia Abdulova, the actor's widow. - These five years without him, I didn’t seem to live, but watched a dream that never ended. As if all this - Sasha's illness, his departure, life without him - did not happen to me ... ”- Julia, we are meeting with you in a Moscow apartment. But you loved your dacha in Vnukovo so much, where everything is permeated with the spirit of Abdulov ... - Yes, all these years my daughter and I lived outside the city and only recently moved to Moscow. It's very good at our dacha - fresh air, Quiet And Comfortable, Near A Kindergarten - The Most Common, Village. For a child, you can’t think of it better. But in next year daughter will go to school. This is a very responsible and difficult period in a child's life. So that life in a large team does not become stress for my daughter, I prepare her in advance. I gave Zhenya to preparatory group- again, in an ordinary, municipal kindergarten ... By the way, my daughter categorically does not like city housing. Zhenya declares: “I don’t want to live here - it’s cramped here. Let's go back to the dacha. " And the apartment is normal, big. I have to explain that there are families where mom, dad and three children live in one room. But she hardly gets it. And in the store, like all children, Zhenya begins to whine: "Buy this, and this, and this." And I explain to her that she has a million toys and she doesn't need another bear. I suggest: "Stop at one thing: a bear, a doll or baby cosmetics ..." And she has tears in her eyes - after all, it is always difficult to make a choice. But I teach my daughter to do this. I do not want to indulge all her desires, because nowadays it is so easy to spoil a child.

- Zhenya understands that her father was famous actor? - Of course, she watches his films. And when she was two years old, she spent hours watching his film "The Bremen Town Musicians" in 2000. But for her, this person on the screen is primarily her dad, not a star. Sasha left when Zhenya was nine months old. But my daughter has some vague memories of him. For example, she remembers one of Sasha's shirt, in which he held her in his arms ... Zhenya is very similar to her father. The same leader and cheerleader, like Sasha. In the kindergarten, she protects the kids all the time, settles some situations so that everything is “fair”. At photo shoots, he constantly gushes with ideas. She is bored of just following someone's commands, and she directs herself, offers something of her own. And she is as hyperactive as Sasha was, always rushing somewhere. This year my friend Oksana Korostyshevskaya and her three daughters and I went on vacation to Turkey. So my heart skipped a beat when Zhenya jumped into the pool - "bomb", with wild screams. My daughter finds extreme everywhere, she is absolutely fearless - like Sasha ... In order to put Zhenka's ebullient energy on the right track, I take her to the choreography. Last year she enrolled her in the Loktevsky ensemble, but Zhenya did not like it there - either she was still small, or the discipline there was too tough. In general, they gave up. In this - we tried dancing again and ... the process began. In a white bathing suit, Zhenya is very funny. Especially against the background of other girls - slender, with thin legs. My little Thumbelina is big and tall. And this year, Zhenya began to study in a theater studio. - Do you dream that your daughter would become an actress?- Not at all, although she has both artistry and charisma. But I know too well what a hard life public people have. It is only on top that she is beautiful, shiny. So she goes to the studio and to the dances for overall development... Recently, Zhenya was invited to a troupe gathering at Lenkom - there was an idea to introduce her to one child role. Nice to see good relations to Zhenya Sasha's "second home", as my husband always called this theater ... When my daughter saw dozens of cameras and heard the clicking of cameras, she - always so lively - was frightened, almost burst into tears. After the words of Mark Anatolyevich Zakharov: “Evgeny Abdulova is present in the hall. Please stand up ”- the daughter grabbed the chair and categorically refused to rise. Zhenya was looking forward to this day so much, I prepared her, said that we would go to the theater where dad worked. And then I was confused ...

At Zhenya's christening: Alexander Abdulov with his daughter, mother Lyudmila Alexandrovna and Leonid Yarmolnik. July 2007 - What role was offered to Zhenya?- Small, in the play " Royal games". One rehearsal has already taken place. In the first "take" Zhenya did everything right. And the second time she suddenly refused to go on stage, stayed behind the scenes. It turned out that my daughter did not see me in the hall and was scared: “I was so hoping that you would support me, but you disappeared ...” But I left the hall so as not to interfere with her, not to embarrass her ... it will work out, I will not be upset. Everyone has their own way, and I don't want to push my daughter into acting. Although Sasha's mother would be very pleased if her granddaughter continued the family dynasty. Just recently, my grandmother looked around Zhenya and said: “I am very worried that the granddaughter will be big. Sasha was tall, you are rather big, so the child turned out like that. And with great growth it is very difficult for the actress to play in the theater. " - What is your relationship with your mother-in-law? The press wrote a lot about your conflict that you cannot divide houses and apartments ... - I have a wonderful relationship with Sasha's mother. Recently, Zhenechka and I and Sasha's niece Ira (this is the daughter of Sasha's middle brother, Volodya) visited her in Ivanovo for her birthday - Lyudmila Alexandrovna turned 92 years old. She was very much looking forward to the arrival of her granddaughter - they had not seen each other for a year, - did not let Zhenya leave her, she looked at her all the time, cried: "How she looks like Sasha ..." And I smile: "Yes, she looks like you. Both in appearance and character. With both of you, he is Nordic, firm, domineering ... ”As for the conflict, the situation was obvious, everyday. When only Robert remained alive of Lyudmila Alexandrovna's three sons, she, as a mother, first of all supported his interests. Which is understandable. And she chose to live with him, and not with us ... Now Robert is gone, the mother-in-law remained with her daughter-in-law Alya. And Zhenya and I come to visit her.

Julia, you are young beautiful woman... Almost five years have passed since the death of your spouse. Have you tried to arrange your personal life? - You are just like my daughter, who dreams of marrying me. (Laughs.) For Zhenya, this is the number one task, she constantly asks: “Well, when ?! I introduced you to one driver, then to another. And you don’t like anyone ... ”The fact is that she dreams of a brother or sister, so she is looking for a husband for her mother. He worries: “I’ll grow up soon, but no one will appear for me”. And I laugh it off: "We will wait and see ..." I did not take a vow of celibacy. It's just that now my whole life is subordinated to Zhenya, her interests. Besides, I have a very high standard. In my life, I have met a few real - absolute, one hundred percent - men. Sasha was so - absolutely reliable, who can solve everything. This is the standard of a man, in our time as rare as a fossil. This is why it is very difficult to find someone like that. And I'm not looking - I only communicate with close friends. Moreover, it is impossible to "organize" such a meeting. This is a matter of chance: either it will happen or it will not. So it was with Sasha ... - Before you met Alexander Gavrilovich, you were probably in love with the artist Abdulov - like thousands of girls in our country - But no. This is my friend Natasha was crazy about him ... Years passed, my friend stayed to live in Odessa, I moved to Moscow. We rarely spoke. And so I call her: "Natasha, I'm getting married." She was delighted: “Great! And for whom? " - “For Abdulov ...” There is silence on the phone, and then Natasha, with a joking resentment, says: “In fact, Abdulov was my topic ...” Yes, I myself did not expect this from myself. At that time I had a husband - intelligent, intelligent, educated, handsome. Wonderful person but ... not mine. Too cold or something, but I have always lived with feelings. I felt that our marriage was doomed - my soul was in disarray. Although outwardly everything was fine. When I met Abdulova (we crossed paths in the same company, it was in the Far East), I immediately felt that this is my man, hot, temperamental. We were at the same table side by side, I looked at him, and suddenly a picture flashed before my eyes: Sasha and I have a family, a child is a son. I thought and was surprised: "Some kind of nonsense." Because Sasha was a person of a completely different circle. And, by the way, he felt it - as if he was afraid of me. However, when after Of the Far East I went to Odessa, Sasha started calling me. I called to St. Petersburg, where I was filming at that moment. I was dumbfounded from such pressure, I said: “You need to - fly by yourself…” And then Sasha told his director Lena Chuprakova: “We are flying to Odessa - we have a day off just ahead”. Lena, with whom we became friends later, recalled: “Then I hated you. Who is she, this Julia, that the People's Artist is out of the picture because of her? " From Odessa I returned to Moscow, packed my things and told my husband that we would no longer live together ...

- How did your environment perceive your novel?- Many did not accept. For example, my parents. They were terribly worried: “An artist in our family ?! You are always drawn somewhere in the wrong direction ... ”Father did not even speak to me for several years. And Sasha's fans took me with hostility: “Half of the country ran after Abdulov, and he married this one. Yes, she is a witch - she bewitched him! .. ”And how they loved to reproach me for commercialism: they say, she coveted a position, an apartment, a dacha, the car of a popular artist. And I never dreamed of entering the artistic circle - all this "gloss" is alien to me. And to be honest, by the time we met, Sasha had a much more modest standard of living than me. My dad is a successful oil businessman, my stepfather is a well-known journalist, and my uncle is Vitaly Meshin. long years headed one of the largest enterprises in the country, the Nikolaev Alumina Refinery. So by the end of the law school in Odessa, I already had an apartment in Moscow, a car. Maybe that's why I wasn't looking for a man with a big pocket. One friend once said to me: “Why don't you find yourself an oligarch ?! When you have big money, everything else will stop worrying you ... "I answered:" Is it possible to kill life to make money? When to live? No, I need feelings, emotions, passion ... ”Sasha had all this in abundance, besides, he was smart - and this is the most erotic thing in a man. But there was no particular wealth. - But what about the famous dacha in Vnukovo?- The house, which haunts many, at the time of our meeting was a ruin, upholstered with clapboard. Sasha loved his dacha very much, was proud that he used to stand on this foundation small house, where Faina Ranevskaya lived. He was constantly expanding the building, completing it, but somehow chaotically. And to bring comfort in it, Sasha's hands did not reach. I remember when I got here for the first time, I was amazed that there was a terrible iron lampshade in the dining room, and the dining table was covered with an ordinary oilcloth in a flower! However, this did not stop at all the large companies of Sasha's friends from gathering at the dacha and having fun from the heart ... When I became pregnant with Zhenya, we urgently started at the dacha overhaul... The most surprising thing is that it was with the new nursery on the second floor that the facade became symmetrical, the house acquired a complete rectangular shape ... After Sasha's death, I decided to leave the dacha for Zhenya. Because this is her world - she grew up here. And here the spirit of her father was preserved.

- Julia, how did it happen that Abdulov's standard of living - People's Artist, superstars - was lower than yours ...- Yes, Sasha worked very hard, plowed for wear and tear. For two last years he only had two days off! But they started to pay decent money to the theater artists only recently. In addition, the husband took great pleasure in making all kinds of surprises for his friends. Everyone knew his generosity and scope ... Of course, sometimes the toad choked me: my husband works so much, wanders around the country, and does not bring the fee home. And Sasha kept laughing: "We need to make people a holiday!" - Did you spoil you with gifts?- Yes, he gave me all sorts of nice little things, and amazing jewelry, the cost of which exceeded his capabilities. But he could not otherwise. True, after the death of Sasha, I gradually sold all the jewelry. Zhenya and I had to live on something ... And what kind of holidays he arranged for me! Once we went with his entreprise to Sochi. The tour coincided with my birthday. Sasha made an agreement with his friend, the owner of the water park, and he closed it to visitors. For our company, tables were laid, candles and lanterns were lit, and we sat until the morning ... During the few years that we were together, there were a lot of such surprises. Sasha himself was a holiday man. - All the more unexpected for everyone was his rapid departure from life ...- Yes, even a year before his death, everything was fine. I was pregnant, but I felt great and therefore continued to travel with Sasha to the shooting, on tour. In the seventh month, right after the New Year, we flew to China, to the island of Hainan. There they showed Sasha an entreprise for Russian tourists, Larisa Dolina, Alexander Rosenbaum and Andrei Makarevich gave concerts. It was a very fun trip, we took a lot of pictures. In those photos, Sasha is so strong and handsome. No one could have thought that soon all this would end ... Eight months later (Zhenya was almost six months old), Sasha left for the Crimea to shoot. I went with him. At night, my husband became ill, and he was taken to the hospital ... The most complicated operation took almost six hours. The surgeon turned out to be a magician ... In memory of the day when Sasha was so successfully operated on, I kept the tear-off calendar. I thought that everything terrible was over, that Sasha drove to white stripe... After all, even the day of the operation fell on the 17th, which Sasha considered lucky for himself, along with the numbers 18 and 21 (by the way, our Zhenya was born on March 21 at 18.17). But everything turned out differently ... The surgeon who performed the operation advised Sasha to do an examination upon his return to Moscow: "I have a suspicion of oncology." We went to Israel. Our friends decided to support Sasha and also flew to Tel Aviv. Zhenya was just six months old. Celebrated right in the hotel room at the clinic, the table turned out to be original. Sasha suddenly really wanted stew and black chl :). And he asked Sasha Oleinikov to bring all this. He, fearing to run into endless inquiries from the Israeli customs, nevertheless complied with the request ... We set the table. The setting is surreal: Israel, a clinic, stewed pork. At some point, Sasha turned on the Russian channel. And on the screen are two football teams - Lokomotiv and Spartak - in T-shirts with portraits. Look closely - and Abdulov is on them! We were stunned, we do not understand anything. Maybe it was Oleinikov who recorded a certain plot and unnoticed for us put on the disc? And then we see: no, live broadcast! These are the players who support Abdulov in such a way: they say, we are with you. And at that moment Sasha had such a big tear flowing down his cheek ... Then they raised a toast to Zhenya's birthday, and Sasha suddenly looked at his watch: “Guys, it’s now 18.17. Zhenya was born at that time. " In general, sheer mysticism, miracles ... Sasha's last day, January 3, 2008, I remember as in a fog. Sasha was in the hospital, early in the morning he became ill. I called resuscitation. The doctors came and first of all attacked me: "Get out of the ward!" And they themselves were confused, running around Abdulov, fussing: "Alexander Gavrilovich, Alexander Gavrilovich ..." I look through the crack of the door, I see all this and shout: "What are you hysteria, do something!" Then everything calmed down, and the young doctor asks the elderly man: "There is a wife outside the door, what can I say to her?" And he answers so indifferently: “Well, what can I say to her? He died and died ... ”I will not forget this calm voice until the end of my life. I forgot the doctor's face, but I recognize the voice from a thousand. I went out into the corridor, called Orlov: "Lesha, that's it ... Call Sasha's mom - I can't ..." - Do you think your husband had a presentiment of his death?- I don’t know ... When Sasha found out that he would become a father, he had a fix idea: he wanted to move to a large apartment in the center, so that Lenkom and the school for Zhenya were nearby. The officials promised to help: Sasha rents out our old living space to the city and gets a new one with a small surcharge. He already felt completely bad, but he was all the same running about some people "to solve the problem." I said: "God is with her, with the apartment - you feel bad." But he got up and rode. Probably, he wanted to finish this topic to the end, so that his family was settled. But he didn't have time. Then I didn't call anyone. because new flat without Sasha - why do I need her ...

- After experiencing the unthinkable heartache, people get out of stress in different ways. Where did you find salvation?- Astrology saved me. When Sasha was gone and I did not understand why I should live further, I went to see an astrologer. We talked for a long time, and she advised me to find Master. And soon, by chance, I met Pavel Pavlovich Globa. Now I am studying at his institute. I don't know if astrology will become my profession. The main thing is that she helped me survive. - Did Abdulov's numerous friends support you?- Sasha's closest friends did not disappear even after his death. And I am very grateful to them for that. We meet at our dacha on January 3, the day of Sasha's death, and on May 29, his birthday. But these are already other gatherings. And the point is not that instead of two hundred people come thirty. Well, Sasha always said that friendship is a round-the-clock concept, that it is big job, which takes time and effort. The main thing is that Abdulov's spirit is gone. After all, Sasha was the center of our company, its battery. And now he is gone, and everything was "blown away", it became somehow insipid and boring ... Abdulov was not only a brilliant artist, but above all - an amazing person. Sasha united a wide variety of people, next to him everyone was comfortable and warm. And now we all miss him very much.

- They say that time heals. Have you finally dealt with the loss?- Hard to say. Almost five years have passed since that terrible day. All this time the world existed separately, and I - separately. I did not live, but quietly went crazy, plunged headlong into boundless, inescapable melancholy and despair. It was so hard for me that for the first two years I could not look at my daughter without tears. As I look, my heart breaks - Zhenya is very similar to dad. I had to delegate the care of her to a nanny, wonderful woman... And she herself was tormented by a sense of guilt in front of her daughter that I do not give her tenderness, love (and these thoughts still gnaw at me). I couldn't give them then, because I didn't want to live. I often thought about how to quickly end this unbearable mental suffering. After all, life without Sasha has lost its meaning ... Now I seem to have coped with the situation, but not completely - I still can't watch Sasha's films. We had such a strong bond with him that it did not break even after his death. If I have difficult situation, my strength is running out - after all, I have a lot of everyday worries - I mentally ask Sasha to help me. And somehow magically the problem is being solved ... Long time I dreamed of Sasha. These were often prophetic dreams. Once I see him surrounded by people, and nearby someone is digging the earth - a big hole. And Sasha says: "I am in charge here, I must prepare and decide everything." The dream is both strange and terrible. And three days later our friend Anar from Baku died unexpectedly ... But six months ago these dreams stopped. In that last time Sasha was with a huge bouquet of white roses. He smiled: “These flowers are for you. And I have to leave ... ”And since then I no longer dream, as if he let me go, calmed down. Maybe he sees that his "little mistress big house»Copes with everything. So he once called me ... It was six months before his death, we were going to celebrate Zhenya's christening. As always, many guests arrived, and large tables were set on the veranda. The weather is excellent - July is outside. And suddenly Sashka looked at me intently and somehow very seriously said: "You are the little mistress of a big house." I didn't understand what he was talking about ... And also that day Godfather Zhenechki, Sashin close friend Lesha Orlov, offered to celebrate in the chamber. Like, the holiday is intimate, family. And Sasha objected: “No, let everyone come. Maybe we will never get together in such a composition ”. Neither I nor Lesha understood what he was talking about. We decided: well, Sasha just loves to collect large companies at home. And six months later, when he was gone, we remembered these words, which turned out to be prophetic. Indeed, in that large, composition, we really gathered for the last time ... I have never been alone in my life. She easily got carried away, easily got married, just without hesitation, then she left. Everything that I had before Sasha was easy and simple for me. And with him - differently, for real. Once in my youth a friend asked me: "What is love?" Then I did not know the answer. Now, after Sasha's death, I know. Love is when you are ready to sacrifice your life in order for a person to be healthy and stay alive. If there was such an opportunity, I would not hesitate to give my life for Sasha ... It is about such a great love that I have always dreamed of. Not about career, publicity, money, but about love. Therefore, I can call myself absolutely happy man- I had it. Despite the fact that Sasha let me down a lot: he didn't like it, didn't live long ...

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Alexander Abdulov is a talented actor with an attractive appearance who did not live a very long life, but a bright and eventful one. The legend of theatrical Moscow, Alexander Gavrilovich was adored by women, for this reason his personal life has always been discussed by the whole country. For 17 years he lived with Irina Alferova. Although before and after marriage, Abdulov was credited with a large number of novels. But only six months before his death, he experienced a wonderful sense of fatherhood. Yulia Abdulova, last wife actor, became the only woman who gave birth to his daughter Eugene. The actor himself considers her the second daughter, the first he calls Ksenia Alferova (daughter of Irina Alferova), whom he accepted as his own.

Alexander was born in 1953 in the Tyumen region. The parents of the future People's Artist were directly related to the theater. His father was a director, and his mother was a make-up artist at a local drama theater. When Sasha was 3 years old, the family moved to Fergana. It was there that he earned his first fee for the first time, playing the role of a 5-year-old village boy. He was paid three rubles for the work.

Studying Abdulov was not particularly to his liking. He liked the football field and fencing. By the way, physical training, acquired in her youth, then helped the actor to act out roles in films without the use of stuntmen. The young man's dad wanted his son's profession to be associated with the theater. Therefore, Alexander went to enter the Shchepkin School. But in the 2nd examination round, the jury made the conclusion: "Inconsistency between appearance and internal character." The guy had to return home. But a year later, Abdulov became a student at GITIS, and after successfully passing the final exams, he was immediately invited by Mark Zakharov to the troupe of Lenkom.

Alexander Abdulov was not indifferent to the beautiful half of the population, as they were to him. The first feeling fell upon young man in his student years. He fell in love with the maternity hospital nurse Tatyana. However, in a relationship, he was not faithful. An imprudent step on the part of Sasha, marked by his betrayal, turned out to be sad for him. The girl, having learned about the act of her lover, reciprocated: she cheated on Sasha with his friend. After that, Abdulov opened his veins. Then everything worked out, the actor was even able to avoid closure in a mental hospital. By the way, Alexander performed such ambitious actions during his student days. This applied not only to his personal life, but also to his studies. They tried to expel him many times from the institute - the young man always suffered from discipline.

If Yulia Meshina, who became the second wife of Abdulov, was little known to the Russian audience, then everyone knew the first wife of the actor. Irina Alferova in 1976 was in the troupe of Lenkom, where Alexander Gavrilovich played. This meeting was marked by a 17-year marriage. They were called the most beautiful couple The USSR. And what a disappointment it was for the fans when they parted. According to Abdulov's wife, Irina, Alexander was a romantic hero for all women, and a calm family life did not correspond to his inner worldview.

After parting with Alferova, the actor met with the ballerina Galina Lobanova. Rumor has it that she insisted on formalization relations, however, Abdulov was against it. Moreover, he divorced his marriage with Alferova only when he met his last love, which turned out to be Yulia Abdulova. However, up to this point, Alexander managed to live with Larisa Steinman for 2 years. She was a journalist and they met when Larisa came to interview the people's artist. It is surprising that they developed a relationship, since Abdulov did not like media representatives.

Another memorable event in the biography of the actor, before Abdulov's wife, Irina Alferova, was a meeting with the dancer Tatyana Leibel. She fell in love with him when he was not yet known, and Tatiana was already bathed in love with fans. The beautiful relationship ended when Leibel realized that Alexander had fallen deeply in love with another woman. She turned out to be a young actress I. Alferova. Until the last moment, Tatyana maintained friendly relations with Sasha even after emigrating to Canada. All the time, arriving in Moscow, she always called him up and met.

In 2005, an avid fisherman and hunter Alexander Gavrilovich went with friends to Kamchatka. On the same flight from Domodedovo, the spectacular brunette Julia went on a business trip. On a joint road, the couple meets thanks to mutual friends. Once on the peninsula, Abdulov and Yulia in the coming days end up in the same company.

“When we were sitting at the same table, I looked at Sasha and the thought flashed through me that he would become my husband and we would have a son. And then, delving into this vision, I realized that this could not be, ”says Yulia.

Alexander's friends immediately noticed a change in his behavior. He began to resemble a teenage boy in love. Later, when Yulia was asked in an interview the question: "What signs of attention did Abdulov give her?", She remembered the case. Having met her on the stairs, he took her hand and began to kiss from wrist to elbow. A wonderful feeling inspired their hearts, but they returned to Moscow separately.

Arriving from the Far East, Julia finally decided to divorce her former husband. He was well-known in high circles Alexey Ignatenko is a wealthy, intelligent man. She finished the divorce proceedings by the New Year and returned to her Odessa.

Meanwhile, Abdulov realizes that he wants to meet with an attractive brunette, the thoughts of which have not left the artist from the moment they met. He tells his director Elena Chuprakova to contact the girl and invite her to St. Petersburg. For what future spouse Abdulova, Julia, refuses. Like, if you want a meeting, then come to me yourself. The female saint Alexander Gavrilovich went to Odessa on the next weekend. And now the old one New Year the couple met together, after which they never parted, until the illness of the people's artist stood in the way of their happiness.

There is little information about Julia's childhood; she never spoke about herself and her parents in an interview. Even the date of birth of Yulia Abdulova (Meshina) is shrouded in mystery. A girl was born in Nikolaev in 1974 or 1975, the month of birth of the funds mass media sometimes called July, less often November. She received a law degree in Ukhta, where she moved with her mother when she divorced her father. The girl's own uncle, Vitaly, is an influential person in Nikolaev, for a long time he led an alumina refinery. Julia's dad, Nikolai, helped his brother manage the plant.

In 1998, the media reported on the initiation of a criminal case against Vitaly Meshin under several articles. But due to lack of evidence and the deteriorating health of the suspect, he was released. Either in order to avoid such punishment, or for some other reason, Nikolai Meshin at that moment divorced Yulia's mother and left Nikolaev.

In 2006, the couple legalized their relationship. Yulia Abdulova became the second and last wife People's Artist. Only close friends were invited to the wedding. The celebration was celebrated in the favorite restaurant of the Central House of Writers. There was no veil or wedding dress. Family celebration took place without a single photo of the paparazzi. When the couple first appeared in society, the age difference became the reason for gossip. The pretty brunette was accused of commercialism. Yulia Nikolaevna Abdulova herself never tried to get into the artistic circle.

In addition, at the time of their acquaintance, the girl financial position was much more stable than Alexander's. When the woman after Ukhta moved to Moscow, she worked for the Russian-Israeli businessman Shabtai Kalmanovich, she was familiar with the producer Igor Markov. In addition, she was married to the son of the director of ITAR-TASS. That is, an apartment, a car and other benefits were available to her. The relationship between Julia and Alexander was initially tempered. In addition to unpleasant rumors from the public, the girl was not supported by her parents. They were not particularly happy about their relationship, the age difference and the acting profession of the chosen one.

Alexander Gavrilovich did not have children of his own until the age of 54. He raised Ksenia Alferova - step daughter from his first marriage, however, he never considered her to be someone else's child. To everyone and always he introduced Xenia as his own daughter.

After the death of Abdulov, the girl and her husband, E. Beroev, filmed the picture "The Inventor", dedicated to the memory of Ksenia's beloved father. The closest friends of the actor starred in this family tape, and the main role performed by Ksenia Alexandrovna. She thanked fate and God for the fact that Alexander Abdulov was her dad. Ksenia Alferova even now feels his support in all her creative projects and in her personal life.

The name of the painting, "The Inventor", was given for a reason. Alexander Gavrilovich was remembered by friends and relatives as a man with a very big imagination. All his stories were based on some kind of fictional events, and he narrated about them so confidently that people around him involuntarily began to think that it was true. For this reason, in the heart of Xenia, he was remembered as an inventor, storyteller and wizard.

The documentary begins with Xenia's attempt to tell Duna and Eugene about her grandfather and father. It is noteworthy that the babies were born in one year with a difference of a month. In 2007, fate gave the artist both a granddaughter and a daughter. The last wife of Abdulov - Julia - the only woman who gave birth to a child to the actor.

Alexander seemed to feel that he would not live to see his daughter's first birthday, so he insisted on Eugene's early christening. The actor wanted to have time to protect his girl. In the family video from the christening appearance the actor was already unwell, and Alexander's mother, recalling that day, said that she felt the imminent death of her son.

“He never talked about his ailments, the only thing Gavrilovich could complain about was a cold. The medicine for him was condensed milk. Once, when he got sick, I went to the base, which supplied food to the canteens, and took 4.5 liters of condensed milk. Sasha ate it in a day and the next morning already felt completely healthy, "- told him about him good friend Leonid Yarmolnik.

In the fateful 2007, Yulia Abdulova found her husband's empty box of pills. This time he also did not tell anyone about his state of health. This took place in Balaklava, on the set of the film "The Hyperboloid of Engineer Garin". When she asked why he was using such a dose of pain medication, it turned out that Alexander had stomach problems. When he got to the Simferopol hospital, he heard a medical ruling - an ulcer. An operation was needed. The disease was so advanced that Yulia thought: he would not survive. Fortunately, the operation was carried out successfully, but the state of the People's Artist of the doctors was not happy. By that time he had started coughing with chest pain. He was recommended to be examined.

This time an ordinary miracle did not happen, he was diagnosed with cancer of the fourth degree. Julia, talking in an interview about this difficult period in their life, said:

“I didn’t sleep, but constantly listened to Sasha’s breathing. I was so hurt for him that in my mind I asked higher power pass on his affliction to me. If it was possible to take the illness and the subsequent death upon myself, then I would have done so. "

They fought to the last, seeking help not only from traditional doctors, but also from a Kyrgyz shaman. It is worth noting that the healer in Kyrgyzstan promised Alexander that he would cure him. In fact, after the shamanic sessions, Abdulov even went hunting with his friends. This was his last foray into nature, then a sharp deterioration in health began and the actor's endless stay in a hospital bed. The New Year 2008 was celebrated in the family circle of the Abdulovs at home. Alexander Gavrilovich again felt unwell. He went up to the nursery, took his Zhenya in his arms, kissed him, took a picture with his daughter and asked his wife to call “ ambulance". He died 3 days later. Julia was with him until her last breath.

Julia faced a difficult rehabilitation after the death of her husband. For some time she did not raise her daughter, sobbed and found solace in alcoholic beverages. Until her mother said that she needed to take up her mind and continue to live. After 4 years, giving her confession to the entire Russian audience, the woman, even after the lapse of time, could not hold back her tears. It was sincere love.

Currently, Yulia Nikolaevna is raising her daughter on her own and is engaged in astrology. The woman even studied predictive practice from P.P. Globa. Evgenia is very similar to her father, she is a leader. The girl is energetic, she is engaged in choreography.

9 months gave fate to Alexander Gavrilovich to play the main role in his life - the father of his own child. He left, leaving in the memory of the Russian audience over one hundred and fifty roles, and in the hearts of loved ones - the pain of loss and fond memories of his beloved inventor and dreamer!

The biography of Miloslavskaya's wife tells us about a beautiful and strong woman... Julia was born in November 1975 in the city of Nikolaev. Since childhood, the girl got used to a good life, lived in a wealthy family, which in Soviet times was very rare.

Biography of Abdulov's wife Yulia Miloslavskaya. Childhood and youth

The girl's parents tried to pamper and delight her. Julia's father was in charge of managing a hotel in France, his uncle was the director of a plant in Nikolaev. In a close-knit family there was no place for quarrels, scandals and sorrows until the 90s came. Then my uncle was arrested and convicted. The father was also charged with embezzlement of funds (more than $ 37 million). It so happened that due to circumstances, Nikolai Viniaminovich left the country and left his family.

The girl's youth was the same as that of most of her peers in the post-Soviet era. She graduated from high school, went to college, lived ordinary life... At the age of 17, she married a young man who was her first love. Yulia Miloslavskaya, whose biography at first glance is no different from the life story of any other woman, changed her fate much later.

Then, in the early 90s, a young family was engaged in business, had a good and stable income... The spouses did not know sorrows and troubles, but they did not have a happy life. They had no husband and no children. Having decided to leave her husband, Yulia also left Ukraine.

Biography of Abdulov's wife Yulia Miloslavskaya. Life in Moscow

After moving to the capital, a pretty girl began to communicate with such eminent people at that time as Shabtai Kalmanovich, Sergei Trofimov. Casual acquaintances with people from show business and helped the girl find her destiny. At one of the parties, she met Alexander Abdulov, who immediately attracted her attention.

At first, the lovers hid their relationship, but when it came to the wedding, there was no point in hiding the union. As Alexander himself said, his only love was Irina Alferova, but everything changed after meeting with Yulia. They got married in 2006. The biography of Abdulov's wife Yulia Miloslavskaya changed dramatically after the wedding. A year later, their daughter Eugene was born. They lived in happy marriage two years, but fate turned out so that in 2008 the actor died.

What now, after the death of her husband, does Yulia Miloslavskaya tell about herself to journalists and television workers? Abdulov's wife, whose biography did not turn into better side after the death of her husband, now she is carried away by astrology. The woman is raising her daughter and doing business. For several years there has been a struggle for the actor's inheritance. These litigations are often discussed in the media. The relatives of the deceased Abdulov cannot divide among themselves Vacation home, an apartment in the capital and other property of the actor. Julia says that now the meaning of her life is her daughter. She raises Eugene and thinks exclusively about her happy future.