Subconscious ideals of women and men.

Everyone understands differently what it means to be perfect woman or the perfect man. Some strive for perfect forms, others seek perfection in "content". Some fall in love with bitches, others marry a good mistress. It turns out that male and female ideals have their own exact archetypes and parameters, trying to match which any person will definitely find his true love.

Why are some people loved so much more than others? Why do some people love for years and decades? And why, on the contrary, with others it turns out that some fleeting passion meets, flares up and fades away. And the very evolution of love that they talk about does not happen?

According to Carl Gustav Jung, an archetype is a kind of prototype that lives in each of us. And each of us has these archetypes, like each of us has two arms, two legs, one head. In exactly the same way, in each of us, in a man and in a woman, lives the Quaternary archetype of a genuine woman and the Quaternary archetype of a genuine man.

For women, love is based on four pillars - the so-called four archetypes of a true woman. If you can embody all these four archetypes in yourself, and if you timely and appropriately demonstrate the four hypostases or four facets of your feminine essence to a man who needs it, then there are definitely no barriers for you, you are able to fall in love with anyone, because it is element, it is invincibility.

Archetype of Eve - the earthly beginning

Everything starts, everything starts not with emotions, not with love. It all starts with what Jung called the archetype of Eve, or an earthly woman who is able to give birth, raise, who is able to support her husband, fulfill homework and so on. Maybe it's boring and prosaic. But you probably know such reliable, earthly, surprisingly comfortable women, to whom men who are fed up with puppet beauties then willingly leave. It is these women who are married, although not always passionate relationships are established with them. Therefore, the first thing you must find in yourself is some kind of earthly beginning that will allow a man to see support and hope in you, to see something that will actually allow him to really exist in this world that is not very convenient for survival.

Archetype of Elena - pronounced eroticism

The second hypostasis, which received the name "Elena" from the very famous Greek beauty, because of which the Trojan War began. Elena is passion, Elena is sensuality, Elena is pronounced eroticism. Elena is sex, but sex is not physiological, but unrestrained in its beginning. This is really the ability to love, enchant with your love, drive you crazy, and even take you away often with true path. Unfortunately, with the image of Elena, we are now increasingly beginning to associate the image of a certain bitch. Elena is not a bitch. Elena is a really sensual, almost volcanic beginning. And the bitch is a manipulator who uses her Elena's abilities in order to somehow control other people.

There is a principle: if what you do, you do for the benefit of another, it is help. If you do this without taking into account the opinion of another and for your own sake, this is manipulation. They live with bitches, they fall in love with bitches, but they rarely marry bitches, because no one wants to have a snake in bed for a long time. And so the bitch in itself can even be an attractive object. But, alas, it creates such monstrous situations around you that you are unlikely to be able to withstand it for a long time. Nevertheless, she is often set as the standard of a woman.

Archetype of Mary - morality and reliability

The next level of development of the feminine is called "Mary". This is morality and this is reliability. Morality is not in the sense that it will be submissive and faithful to you, and will endure, endure bullying. No, on the contrary, she will very clearly put you in the right place, on the right path, if necessary, she will take up arms and protect your family. These are the same Marys who, together with their husbands, endured the most terrible journey through the country filled with Indians, moving to the wild west. The ones that built the settlements. The very ones that really could be not just an earthly support, not just an emotional volcano of passions, but the other half, on which you can rely, with which you can live. And if you discover this in yourself along with the first two, in this case you are already a very serious contender for the attention of men and long-term love.

Archetype of Sophia - Wisdom

For the past few centuries, we have been living with too pronounced male logic, forgetting about female wisdom, female intuitionism, that it is a woman who is capable, without reading books, without doing any research, to intuitively comprehend the essence of what is happening. And it is no coincidence that they said that any most stupid woman, without particularly trying, is able to become a worthy friend of a genius. If you discover this wisdom in yourself, if you get rid of the stupidity that only logic can explain this illogical world ... by the way, the world is irrational. I wonder how you're going to get to know him in a rational way? It's like measuring the area of ​​a ball with a hard ruler, something like this. So in this case, you really will have no obstacles in realizing yourself as a delightful, dazzlingly beautiful woman who gives happiness to others and creates happiness for herself in this world.

Four ideals of a real man

In any normal woman, there are also four standards, four ideals of a true man. If a man combines them in himself, then he becomes really surprisingly attractive to any woman and is able to arouse the love of any woman. These four archetypes can be expressed in four models.

The first ideal is an athlete

Why are women so greedy for muscles? Why is actually the most erogenous male organ for a woman, it is often not the one that you just thought about, but, oddly enough, muscular male buttocks - this is according to a study by sexologists. Why does a normal man still try to somehow take care of himself? Yes, because intuitively any woman will appreciate him in terms of potential masculinity. the main task women are to continue the family on earth. And therefore, any woman intuitively assesses how worthy this person is in terms of this first function - procreation.

The second ideal is a hero

Previously, a man really had to achieve a woman, fame, success, and so on, because he achieved something. There was a model of the hero's journey, people left to do something, to achieve something and prove to themselves and others that they are worthy, including perpetuation in posterity. And now all this has degenerated, unfortunately, at present the place of the hero has been replaced by idols - those same pop boys (and sometimes it’s not even clear whether they are boys, who cause increased attention from girls (with whom it’s also not clear whether they are girls) and who are the object of mass worship.These idols, unlike heroes, are disgusting life partners, spoiled by female attention and not capable of genuine reliability and fidelity.

Ideal third - professor

Wisdom, of course, is a little earlier than holiness (although the woman had the opposite), because, probably, all women are tired of hopelessly stupid men who, at best, recite those slogans that they read on the Internet. Yes, in general, this is the stupidity of the world, when even our communication is reduced to two phrases on Twitter, Facebook, when the maximum we can notify others about is that I woke up today, the birds were singing, and the mood was good. This mind, which is becoming so rare, is really an amazing beginning, which sometimes can even atone for the absence of the first two. Because you know an interesting study by Harvard psychologists: nerds, offended by female inattention, turned to psychologists with a request to find out why women pay so little attention to them. Psychologists have proven that women love intellect very much, but, unfortunately, three or four sexual signs are enough for an ordinary man to pay attention to a woman - a look, a sigh, pressing, holding a hand in his hand, and so on. And many highly intelligent men react to the eighth or ninth, by which time the woman is already tired of demonstrating that she is actually interested in him. As one of the women said: well, what should I do, raise my skirt in front of him so that he understands that I really want to be with him?

The fourth ideal is holy

AND last start- morality. We all need loyalty, reliability in this windy world. Morality, which really allows you to go hand in hand, solve problems and really help each other on this long journey of life. When a woman, as a result of an acquaintance, becomes not a toy, not a housewife, not just some kind of bodyguard in a skirt that protects from life's adversities, but which becomes a true life partner, with whom you want to live, with whom you want to wake up together, and when you feel great happiness the fact that after many years this person still remains with you, because he is here - the one that you and only you need.

Harmony of the four principles

If you learn to manifest all these four principles in yourself, if you are appropriate in the manifestation of these four principles, you will be loved and you will love. The conditions for you to be able to love are your four principles. And the conditions for being loved are their appropriate manifestation. Because it's no secret: many women who are too keen on the status of Elena, their husband, who needs advice from the wise Sophia, slip only their body and passionate emotions. Conversely, the person who wants tenderness finds out that he is actually met by a housewife with her hands in washing powder and who has just been rummaging through the washing machine.

An archetype (archaic remnant) is a prototype that is based on certain symbols from mythology and dream plots. In his pioneering work, the German anthropologist Adolf Bastian first coined the term "elementary idea".

Subsequently, the Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung changed the voiced wording, giving it the name "archetype". It was he who began to assert that the so-called archaic remnant is a block that is built on the basis of the subconscious and unconscious mind.

If we decipher this statement, then any individual already at birth has a certain model of “search”, “mentor” or “hero” at the subconscious level.

How to determine the archetype of a man

When familiarizing yourself with the voiced question, first of all, you should pay attention to the research of Carl Jung. It was on the example of the work of this psychiatrist that other famous psychiatrists developed their concepts.

Archetypes according to the theory of Carl Jung


Based on the concept of "animus" (the life principle in a man), a specialist from Switzerland created next system archetype definitions for the strong half of humanity:
  • Innocent. A man with a similar archetype is a weak person who is not able to independently coordinate his own life. Comfort, stability and maximum peace are the credo of such representatives of the stronger sex.
  • Orphan. Glorious fellow - the second name of the voiced male archetype. To have such a friend means to acquire support from him at any moment. Such people do not like to sit in one place and strive to learn everything new. Respect for others, lack of desire to assert themselves at the expense of others, and worldly wisdom make these men decent citizens of society.
  • Warrior. The very name of this archetype suggests that it implies that its representatives have willpower, heroism and some ambitions. Male warriors have been distinguished by leadership qualities since childhood. At the same time, they direct their energy in a positive direction, wanting to help literally everyone and everyone. They grow up into wonderful family men who become reliable protection for their loved ones.
  • The keeper. This archetype is the personification of compassion and altruism. Such men put personal needs in the last place, devoting all their time to helping others and all of humanity in general.
  • Wanderer. Rebellious souls belong to this archetype of men. The constant search for oneself and a change of scenery is a distinctive pattern of the Wanderer's behavior. In addition, he has an irrepressible thirst to reach new heights, without being afraid of any experiments.
  • Rebel. Men with this archetype will always go against the established way of life. They usually do not agree with the world order in general, so they can safely be called revolutionaries. In some cases, such spiritual impulses border on aggressiveness, but with this lack of rebellions, they are excellent candidates for successful businessmen.
  • Lover. Male ladies' men can act both openly and go to the goal in secret ways. For them, the main thing is the achievement of sensual pleasures, which does not at all characterize them as bad people. Usually, having reached adulthood, they completely devote all their free time to the family and are faithful to their soulmate.
  • Creator. Creativity and originality are the basis of the behavior of such men in society. In any field of activity - art, construction or business - they will show themselves as extraordinary personalities. Creators are able not only to become innovators, but also, if they wish, they are able to make this world a better place.
  • Ruler. The brightest historical figures belong to this archetype. Such men are born in order to coordinate not only their lives, but also to decide the fate of entire nations. Such an influence on the masses can occur both in a positive and negative way.
  • Mage. The analogy of this archetype is the manifestation of the feminine principle in the form of the Sorceress. The magician is able to feel the laws of the universe, therefore he has a well-developed intuition. It is not uncommon to find men with this archetype among spiritual mentors.
  • Jester. People with a voiced behavior model have a large number of friends, because they are very easy to communicate and do not impose their opinion on anyone. Sometimes they can even be called lazy persons, but they are not unequivocally fools. The jester is never in a hurry to get anywhere, and it is impossible to force him to do what he is not predisposed to.
  • Philosopher. This archetype of men lives in the name of knowing the truth, and not for the improvement of their own lives. The main occupation of the Philosopher is contemplation, therefore there are many ascetics among such people. He can also be called an intellectual and to some extent even a psychologist, because he knows how to listen to his interlocutor.
The decision to rank the archetypes of men according to Jung as a 100% characteristic of a person will be clearly erroneous. Each voiced aspect has its own advantages, and its obvious shortcomings of people.

Archetypes according to the characteristics of Shinoda Bolen


Experts took into account the classification created by Carl Jung. Subsequently, the famous American psychiatrist Jean Shinoda Bohlen invited her colleagues to consider her own characterization of the main archetypes of men, using the galaxy of ancient Greek gods as a basis:
  1. Zeus. This archetype is very close to the Ruler described by Carl Jung. Zeus men have an imperious and sometimes difficult character. However, their desire to reveal aggression towards another person is often restrained by the wisdom that they fully possess. In family life, they can cheat on their soulmate, which was also characteristic of Zeus.
  2. Hermes. Such men cannot be confused with anyone, because they try to turn their lives into an endless holiday. They very often become adventurers and thrill-seekers. Women regularly pay attention to Hermes men because they radiate eternal youth and fun. However, it is very problematic to keep the womanizer next to him, because most of all they prefer freedom.
  3. Hephaestus. An honest hard worker and an exemplary family man is a man with a voiced archetype. There will never be any problems with such a son, spouse and father, because his whole life is an open book for close and dear people. He will never succumb to illusions, because he soberly evaluates his own and other people's actions.
  4. Dionysus. Such men are called eternal children because most of their actions are irrational. It is very difficult to take offense at them, because Dionysos are by nature completely friendly people. However, it is worth remembering the irascibility of such men, so when choosing them as life partners, you should seriously think about it. They will become faithful to their soulmate only if they meet the woman of their life.
  5. Apollo. Clarity of thought and precise knowledge of how to achieve your goal are the main aspects of the behavior of men with this archetype. Usually male Apollos are workaholics, which is inherent in businessmen, office workers and knowledge workers.
Jin Shinoda Bolen claims that any man can combine a combination of one archetype with another. If a representative of the strong half of humanity has a combination of Zeus + Hermes, then this usually leads to the most unexpected consequences. As a result, two principles will fight in a person in the form of a desire for freedom and purposefulness to achieve power. However, Shinoda Bolen insists that even in a calm Hephaestus, the vengeful Poseidon can occasionally wake up if someone dares to offend a member of his family.

Archetypes from the position of astrology


Fans of determining the character warehouse and behavior patterns according to the horoscope will be interested in the following classification of male archetypes:
  • Warrior. Astrologers believe that it is Aries that correspond to this type, because their element is Fire. In this case, we will talk about the Warriors born under this zodiac constellation, who have perseverance and exceptional strength. Sometimes they are able to act thoughtlessly, but at the same time they often become energetic entrepreneurs.
  • Shepherd. Astrologers usually refer to men who were born under the constellation Taurus to a similar archetype. By themselves, such men are balanced and good-natured individuals. In rare cases, they can show such qualities as idleness and lack of a sense of proportion. The Shepherd archetype excels as a true friend and as a service worker.
  • Researcher. Gemini is the most suitable for this male archetype. They are always on the lookout and full of new ideas. It is for this reason that Researchers prefer to work in information structures. However, they often become victims of internal conflicts and their own irresponsibility.
  • Poet. Astrologers attribute the qualities of impressionable Cancers to this archetype. Such men have a very rich inner world and fine mental organization. Perform well as social workers or in the arts.
  • King (ruler). The Leo man is a born leader, so from childhood he shows his organizational skills. Sometimes he is too self-confident, but for his beloved woman he will not regret anything. Since the Kings like to take everything from life, they are looking for an appropriate field of activity.
  • Scientist. The voiced male archetype is rightfully given to Virgo men. Usually they are realists and very reasonable people who know how to keep their word. Scientists carefully plan their lives, so they prefer professions with a scientific bias or a requirement for accuracy and concentration.
  • Artist. Libra men are usually referred to this archetype. They are often bohemian people, so they love to communicate with the party and are very confident in their creative abilities. At the same time, the Artists make good diplomats, designers and hairdressers.
  • Mage. Fearless Scorpios have rather expressive spiritual qualities and a penchant for risk. Many alchemists in ancient times were born under this sign of the zodiac. Magicians like to try their hand at those professions that border on the forbidden zone for men.
  • High priest. Some self-confidence of Sagittarius allows them to claim the voiced archetype. They are often prone to exaggeration, but at the same time quite generous and benevolent. They make excellent missionaries, judges, prosecutors, and salesmen.
  • Patriarch. Men with this worldview are in most cases very disciplined and are people of action. The type is most suitable for Capricorns, who show themselves best in politics and public service.
  • Humanist. It is Aquarius that astrologers and psychologists refer to this archetype of a man. Such representatives of the stronger sex are excellent friends, because they value both their freedom and the interests of the people around them. Professions where they study innovative technologies, are a field of activity for Humanists.
  • Predictor. Men with a similar archetype should first of all be sought among Pisces. It is they who are prone to mysticism and sometimes have the gift of a medium. Consequently, Predictors often find themselves in psychology and professions where one must make an impression.
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Trying to understand yourself, deciding how to determine the archetypes of men, you should be based on the scientific data of scientists. If you want to expand your knowledge in the sounded field of analytical psychology, it is recommended to directly familiarize yourself with the works of Carl Jung and Shinoda Bohlen.

TEST FOR DETERMINING THE DOMINANT ARCHETYPE OF A MALE

The world of relationships is infinitely large and boundless. For centuries, issues such as friendship, falling in love, passion, love remain significant for every person. The world of relations does not develop chaotically, but according to the laws by which Nature lives. It has strict rules and regulations. Therefore, a person, in order to be happy and successful in life, needs to know these laws.

In ancient times, there were no psychotherapists, no family relationship consultants, no dating sites. But there were myths about goddesses and gods that served as the "software" of human behavior. Same " software”leads people even now. Myths are metaphors of destinies, in their stories we recognize familiar life scenarios, myths show us our human relationships played out on the big stage of Olympus. The energy of mythological deities in the human psyche is called "archetypes". This energy is present in the psyche of every man and every woman. At different periods of life, one or another archetype prevails, serving as a driving force, directing our actions and behavior and influencing our choices.

For a woman, "fidelity to the goddess" is more connected with the biological (defloration, childbirth, extinction) and social: marriage activates Hera, admission to graduate school - Athena, returning home to her mother - Cora, love adventures - Aphrodite. Everyone can find a way to manifest a different goddess in themselves.

In men, the change of the main archetypes occurs differently.. First, they are not so affected by the physiological cycle. Men don't change their leading archetype simply because they go to college or join the military, get married or get older. Family, the presence of a mistress, divorce, a second wife do not change the role-playing scenario of a man. They have to make certain efforts not only to move from the influence of one archetype to another, but also to develop within their “native” and most significant scenarios (Apollo-Dionysus, Apollo-Hades or Poseidon-Dionysus). And only some key events that are important for the inner world and self-awareness of a man can radically change his life scenario.

Thus, it must be remembered that a man unconsciously chooses his archetypes in childhood and follows them almost constantly, or consciously changes due to serious life crises. Transformation, movement towards maturity within the native archetype is more likely than change!

So, consider the male Pantheon

Archetypes acting in men are represented in the images of the gods - Olympians: Zeus, sky god, ruler of Olympus, Poseidon, sea ​​god, Hades , God underworld, Apollo, god of the sun and arts, patron of medicine and jurisprudence, Hermes, god of eloquence and commerce, ares, god of War, Hephaestus, god of forges and crafts, Dionysus , god of wine, winemaking and ecstasy.

Father archetypes- Zeus, Poseidon, Hades.

gods fathers Zeus, sky god, ruler of Olympus, Poseidon, sea ​​god, Hades , the god of the underworld, own the three parts of the universe: the sky, the sea and the underworld. They are self-sufficient in their own way and represent the "father" archetypes in the soul of a man. Usually Zeus and Poseidon develop if a person becomes a leader, leader or boss. Hades (Hades), although he is one of the "elder gods", did not give birth to children in mythology, and he can only be arbitrarily ranked among the paternal archetypes. Its history is separate and exceptional.

Archetype of Zeus- this is primarily the role of the Father and Leader. He is the one who stands at the top of a large or small hierarchical pyramid. It organizes the entire system and ensures its normal functioning. Power as a goal. Strategist. Craftsman to make alliances and maneuver. Unlike his brothers - Poseidon and Hades - the owner of legitimate power. Wife as part of the image. Constant love affairs on the side.

Archetype of Poseidon this is the role of the leader, leader, chieftain, charismatic leader. He is the one who is at the head of some community of people and pushes them to different ... things. His motivation is desire. He knows how to inspire. But Poseidon is the younger brother, and he has an eternal dislike complex, and he is distinguished from Zeus by extreme emotionality and often unreasonable motivation. Like a storm in the ocean - an element that sweeps everything around for no apparent reason, which cannot be resisted, with which it is impossible to agree.

Hades (Hades)- Zeus the Underground. This is the role of a closed hermit, a shadow figure and at the same time a secret ruler. He lives, as it were, in the other world and in reality treats those around him “flatly” and functionally. Ascetic by nature. Usually has no descendants or is not attached to them, does not carry parental functions. But, as a rule, he is faithful to a certain community - a family, an idea, loyalty to the Motherland. This is usually the feeling of being part of some big system. He is also the youngest with jealousy towards the elder Zeus, who got more possessions and power.

Archetypes of sons- Apollo, Hermes, Ares, Hephaestus, Dionysus. Apollo, god of the sun and arts, patron of medicine and jurisprudence, Hermes, god of eloquence and commerce, ares, god of War, Hephaestus, god of forges and crafts, Dionysus , god of wine, winemaking and ecstasy.

The gods-sons do not have their own kingdoms and possessions. For them, relationships with parental figures are even more important.

Apollo- Lawyer, athlete, artist. This is the eldest son in the Olympic family. He is the first-born and heir, from whom much is asked. He needs to be the best, and he constantly proves it. In sports or art. This is the image of a good and correct son, a favorite of his mother and an obedient performer in the eyes of his father. Apollo inherits the reliance on the laws and rationality of his parent. He even killed his sister's lover so as not to share the family's attention with him. This is a very popular, cultivated image of a positive young man, a successful young specialist, socially adequate and predictable. We see him as a role archetype for men and an Animus archetype for women. Once raised a rebellion against the father of Zeus, but was punished. After serving his sentence, Apollo became the most moderate and emotionally balanced god of Olympus.

Hermes-e then the role of an intermediary, a trickster, significantly ennobled in the Olympic family. Intermediary, joker, cunning, dodger. In Greek mythology, and the guide of souls to the realm of the dead. This is our inner trickster, "savior" or "provocateur. Inconstancy of rules and lack of clear guidelines in the family. The role of the youngest fool and prankster, often the presence of the older brother of the pronounced Apollo. Figaro. Truffaldino. Khlestakov. "Cool uncle" among young people. Immature Hermes - Piten Pan: "- Careful, lady. No one will be able to catch me and make a grown man out of me." Lack of a clear social status. Transformation and maturity - recognition of boundaries and rejection of carelessness. Hermes made an alliance with Apollo and Zeus himself confirms it. Connection from Apollo, Hermes receives a rod and staff of a guide, from Zeus - the ability to distinguish good from evil, learns responsibility and is recognized as an equal Olympic god.

Ares- god of War. fighter, soldier, rival. This role is associated with traditional macho maturation in a patriarchal society and in the military fraternity of many cultures (gang, squad). The little hooligan goes through the stage of teenage and youthful fights and massacres, and if he remains alive, he becomes at the service of society. Guard and protect it from enemies, attack enemies, make new warriors, return from war with a shield or on a shield. This is the image of "military, handsome, hefty."

Father's unloved son. In childhood or adolescence, a stepfather or "coming man" may appear who competes with him for the attention of "their" woman. The way to unite with maternal energy is resentment for mother Hera, unfairly pushed into the shadows by her father Zeus. Can take the baton of the "defender" from the departed father (the watch is inherited). It is easier to act than to think or worry. Courage and determination command the highest respect. Women are like a trophy. Warrior. Samurai. Aggression as a withdrawal from emotions. "But I don't hit you! In general, after the second divorce, I don’t drag women by the hair ... ”. The typical Ares is a tactician, but not a strategist. More far-sighted people play on their strength.

Control over emotions, the ability to recognize and separate them is the main life task of a pronounced Ares. Mature Ares learns discipline, comes to understand “for what and for whom”, acquiring the meaning of service and self-sacrifice, the highest goal of protection.

Hephaestus- a simpleton, an inventor, an eccentric. Frail from birth. The only working god in the Greek pantheon. Lame and awkward in society, but a talented and skillful master of his craft, the god of blacksmithing, devotedly loving his Aphrodite. Often the son of a despotic father and a mother who despises and is ashamed of him from birth.

It happens to be a nice kind guy, whose help they willingly resort to, but are in no hurry to repay with gratitude. For those who do not know how to count money and are always ready to take off their last shirt, taking pity on their neighbor. He may not notice the betrayal of his wife and all his life obey the whims of his mother, taking her word for it. But for all this, he periodically answers with inventive quiet revenge and regular tantrums. This is a degenerate holy fool, a drinking good-natured person with oddities, a surgeon, a scientist "not of this world", a hermit-writer, polar explorers and meteorologists of distant stations. “Thirty-three misfortunes” is also about him. Or the only Ivan the Fool who manages to solve the riddle, complete the task and perform the necessary act.

Dionysus- guru, lover, drunkard. the embodiment of ecstasy, bringing "breaks to madness". At a later age, after a spiritual journey for the lost part of the soul, he healed himself and also healed madness with the help of an ecstatic dance.

Abandoned by his mother (syndrome of "dead", i.e., emotionally unavailable mother), rejected, but partially recognized as a result by his father (Zeus saved him from death in the womb). He took revenge on those who did not recognize him as the son of Zeus. After the journey, he achieved recognition of himself as a god among the Olympians.

Self-destructive. Inflicting pain on himself gives the feeling that he is alive. Going into altered states of consciousness gives the feeling that he is a part of something immeasurably greater. It seems to heal wounds for a while, fill a void in the soul, or simply distract from them. Vivid dreams. "Shamanic disease". A vivid symbol of the mother complex, teenage separation from the mother with the help of a drug riot. He forgave and brought his mother out of the underworld of the unconscious, separating her from the image with a real person, thereby being healed of madness.

The only one of the gods that is directly related to transformation. Orgies with crazy maenads (Bacchantes).

The only one of the gods who married the mortal earthly woman Ariadne. Ariadne, helping to find a way out of the labyrinth, was the first to arouse in him sympathy and love not for love, but for a specific woman. It is important for Dionysus to find Ariadne in himself.

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Wherever you look, there are only archetypes everywhere. What is an archetype? This is, first of all, a program of behavior, a universal innate mental structure. The author of the term (by the way, the word "Archetype" - compound, consisting of the Greek "Arche" - the beginning and "Typos" - the original image, the primary form) - Carl Gustav Jung. It was he who developed the concept of archetypes
. Today, knowledge of the archetype of a person helps him and those around him better navigate his mental life, better understand the motives of his actions.

Archetype - a symbol, a concept that combines instincts, images, body, psyche. Belonging to a certain archetype has a serious impact on the worldview, position and life scenario of any person. The dominant archetype in the psyche sets the type of thinking for a person and really becomes a model of behavior that determines the fate of its carrier.

Why dominant? Because a person can have up to 3 archetypes, each of which has its own scenarios, reflected in ancient Greek myths. Naturally, the archetypes themselves received the names of the gods of ancient Greece.

Male and female archetypes exist. For a woman, knowing the basic male archetypes can be very helpful. Yes, and men should get to know their god better.

Poseidon.

Poseidon also seeks to acquire his own kingdom. However, increased emotionality, quickly flaring up and fading interest, momentary and decisions made under the influence of feelings do not allow Poseidon to achieve much in life. Such is the payment for excessive sensitivity and a bright spiritual life.

Like the ruler of the underworld, the bearer of the Hades archetype is immersed in his own world and, as it were, is not interested in the world of people, is not present in it. Hades is an introvert. He is withdrawn and withdrawn.

Jung believed that people belonging to this archetype have an extremely developed intuition. They very subtly feel the background of any events around them, they feel the deep essence of people, although outwardly they do not betray their emotions in any way.

Apollo.

Men - Apollos - are pleasant interlocutors, they are harmonious and diplomatic. Adoring accuracy and order in everything, Apollo pays little attention to the emotional side of life. After all, he is extremely practical, and is guided in everything by logic, reason, and not by transient emotions and feelings. Even in relationships with women.

A lively, talented, agile, quick and clear-thinking man - Hermes embodies all the best and worst features of a fickle god. He wants everything, at once, and is ready to go for it all at once in several directions. And in all at the same time.

To charm, to lure in the net of his charm - Hermes does it superbly. Unfortunately, he himself does not feel anything and therefore is completely incapable of caring for the feelings of other people.

The eccentric passionate Ares lives only for today. His mind is instincts, his strategy is emotions and feelings. From birth, he is distinguished by emotionality, impulsiveness, aggressiveness, and later - vivid sexuality. With such qualities, it is not surprising that Ares cannot stand loneliness.

Introverts who are always worried about something, living in the power of emotions, creative subtle and vulnerable personalities, often artists with a capital letter - these are representatives of the archetype of god - the artisan of Hephaestus. Hephaestus never becomes a team player. He simply does not tolerate pressure from an authority or a group, and it is difficult for a man - Hephaestus - to communicate with people.

Contradictory emotional extrovert Dionysus, who dominates a man, makes his carrier always be a little "Too". Too attractive, too bright, too feminine, too provocative, too childish. Dionysus is restless and is always trying to change something.

Dionysus does not like male company. Yes, and men rarely take it "for their own." This cheerful god prefers the company of girlfriends - women - to the male team.

But why and why find out which of the ancient gods lives in a man, shuffles his life scenarios and behavior patterns? And to the fact that knowing the archetype of a man, the reasons for some of his actions, it is already much easier to understand and accept him as he is.

female archetypes.

Artemis.

The first on the list is Artemis, a goddess who demonstrates incredible fortitude. She, like a warrior, always strives for victory and never looks for ways back. Her determination, purposefulness and self-confidence went down in history. Such a woman in modern world, most likely, occupies a "Male" position, and has a number of masculine qualities.

For her there is no such word "I can not", everything is based on "I want and I will achieve". At the same time, she loves freedom very much and will never give it up. Therefore, love and family are not the goal of her life, although such may be present in her fate.

She perceives men as friends and business partners, perhaps as lovers. But to open up completely to someone, to trust - this is not at all characteristic of her.

Another strong representative of the weaker sex is Athena. Her character traits are similar to Artemis, but only in part. She also dislikes expressing her emotions, being sensitive and weak. In life, he prefers to reach heights and realize big dreams.

Her thinking is purely analytical, she is an excellent strategist and calculates everything in advance, so her level of intelligence is definitely above average. Thus, if necessary, she can make the man she is interested in approach her himself, without even knowing that the meeting was not accidental.

By the way, she is only interested in someone who himself was able to achieve a lot in his life, and romantics and dreamers are not suitable for Athena. By nature, she is a leader who manages her own life and is a very strong personality.

Gesta is an absolutely opposite image to the previous two. She is a real housewife. Her inner world and experiences are only hers. Such a girl will never share her feelings with others, she will be an excellent listener and a quiet mouse in the company.

But, despite this, she will not feel discomfort in her loneliness. Household chores and worries about her husband can turn into her small world where she will feel safe and secure.

The main thing for Hera is her husband. He is the purpose of her life and all existence. She instinctively looks for a strong and confident partner, whom she will take care of until the end of her days. If, before marriage, she communicates at least a little with her friends, then after that she generally forgets about them.

Often, she always thinks about the well-being of her spouse, and children will never become more important than him. Most likely, she will try to work with him so that she never loses sight of him. And if her husband cheats on her, the blame for everything, from her point of view, will be the second woman, but not her "Ideal".

She is very afraid of being alone, and therefore she can forgive a lot in order to save her marriage. Meanwhile, she is especially jealous and fickle.

Demeter is another overly caring woman. True, it is not so much her husband that becomes her fetish, but the whole family as a whole. To all this, she is capable of close friendship with women, especially if they also have a family and similar problems. As, attention, only children appear in her life, she is ready to completely dissolve in caring for them and turn them into the meaning of her existence.

Her husband can be a man with weak character, perhaps creative, who needs maternal affection. Demeter will perfectly cope with this task, and will pity him like a small child. True, in an effort to help everyone, she risks forgetting her own desires.

Persephone.

This archetype describes the moral weak personality who constantly listens to the opinions of others and does as someone told her. In appearance, she looks like a small child requiring guardianship, therefore she very often evokes maternal feelings in the women around her.

At heart, she will always remain young, and partly this will be reflected in her appearance. She is often very close to her mother and later to her husband. It is easy to command and command her, because she does not have her own opinion.

In relationships with men, she is shy and naive like a child, so her chosen one will have to teach her a lot and help her overcome her own modesty.

Aphrodite. She is a real treat.

An example of true femininity and beauty. Her charm is visible even through nondescript features. Such a girl constantly falls in love with someone, but does not become strongly attached. For other women, she is a real rival, but for some she can be a friend.

With regards to work, Aphrodite is pretty creative person and can be very able-bodied if she directs her indefatigable energy in this direction.

The Hebe girl is somewhat reminiscent of Persephone. She also has a gentle nature and loves to listen to the opinions of others. But her most important feature is that she wants to always remain young. This is clearly visible in her appearance and behavior. Hebe at any age will dress youthfully and brightly. Unfortunately, over the years, this will cause problems for her, as she simply does not want to recognize the influence of time on her appearance.

In addition, as a person, she is somewhat irresponsible, as she prefers someone to make responsible decisions instead of her.

quiet - very interesting person, strive to controltyche everyone and everything, be the center of attention and have the right to vote. At the same time, she is too emotional to lead a calm, measured life. So, she has many friends, but their number is influenced by her fleeting desire or mood. If someone doesn’t please her, that’s all, she will make sure that this person will no longer be in an environment close to her. And, on the contrary, as soon as she comes up with something for herself, the former enemy can again become the best friend.

The most striking thing about all this is that such a girl is not guided by objective reasons, but simply evaluates everything according to the "Like - don't like" type.

Also, this archetype is characterized by fearlessness. As a leader, a person with this character can take risky steps, but he will never be afraid of possible negative consequences.

In the family, at first, she behaves quietly, like any lady in love, and then, slowly, she begins to sort out the right to vote on her side. Her love of control is also manifested here, she tries to command her husband's life from all sides. It can even go so far that she will work with him at the same job, just not to let him out of sight.
In order to come to balance and harmony, it is quiet worth understanding that every person has the right to personal space and freedom of action.

Nemesis.

Many people know that Nemesis is the goddess of justice. And it’s not without reason that they say so about her, because she, in fact, lives according to the rules and norms all her life. Such a woman often judges the actions of each person (and her own too) by how true or correct they are. Unfortunately, often we are talking not about observance of the current law or norms of morality. Nemesis herself comes up with her own personal rules, that is, her individual perception of the world is too developed.

As for feelings, she is not too emotional, because where emotions wake up, the mind turns off, and it becomes impossible to adhere to any law. Accordingly, a girl with such an archetype cannot afford to love. Of course, there are relationships in her life, then there will be no deep love in them.

It's the same with friendships. She judges people by their actions, but does not include their feelings in the calculation. Despite such qualities, she is very principled, straightforward and responsible. In the event that he takes on some business, he brings it to the end.

Hekate is the most mysterious goddess of all described by the Swiss psychiatrist Gekata. She represents mystical world, and therefore a woman with such an archetype often loves everything related to magic and mysticism in general.

Her strength lies in the fact that she reads people like open books, and her developed intuition helps her in this. Psychologically, it's very strong man with a rich inner world. Sometimes people are afraid of such abilities and consider her almost a witch. By the way, all witches and people prone to witchcraft will certainly have the archetype of Hecate.

In personal relationships, such a girl is also not going smoothly. She is more absorbed in the other world than the real one, and therefore love and everything connected with it is not for her. The ideal partner can only be the man who himself is interested in this topic.

Finally, it is worth noting that one person cannot have only one archetype. As a rule, two or three archetypes are always combined and one of them can be dominant. In order to be a harmonious personality, you need to try to somehow balance the features of different types in yourself. Almost every archetype has its shortcomings and must be combated by acquiring new character traits.

K. Jung's works to this day remain mysterious and not fully understood for many. The reason for this is the unusual style of his psychological theory, which is not so unambiguously perceived by the majority. Nevertheless, if we consider Jung's theory in terms of value, then it is invaluable.

So what is an archetype? This term quite common in mythology. In works with theoretical analysis it was first used by the Swiss psychiatrist C. Jung. However, he gave the term a different meaning from its specific translation. Archetypes in Jung's interpretation are nothing more than the initial schemes of various images that are reproduced at an unconscious level and activate our imagination. And only later all this is reflected in dreams and myths, in the fantasies and beliefs of a person, in art.

It is important to understand that archetypes are not images at all, but only schemes. They are also called opportunity and psychological premise.

For Jung, archetypes have formal characteristic. The first of them can manifest itself in the case when a certain image penetrates the consciousness and begins to be filled with life experience. Jung himself believed that a certain transformation takes place due to myth-making. It also contributes to the transformation of the concept into an image. Sometimes this happens with involuntary statements related to mental events and, as a rule, of an unconscious nature.

Despite the fact that the archetype is something empty, formal and generalized, it has certain properties. According to experts, based on the level of their emotional saturation and distinctness, such initial schemes can captivate and impress human nature. And only after that an artistic prototype is born, which is so necessary for creativity.

In addition, according to Jung, humanity inherits archetypes. In other words, archetypes represent a collective unconscious heritage.

An archetype can be viewed in terms of a concept or a symbol. At the same time, it combines the psyche, body, images and instincts. A person's belonging to one or another archetype has a significant impact on his worldview, life scenario and position. The prototype that dominates the psyche of the individual sets him a certain type of thinking, becoming the model of behavior that determines the future fate of the individual. Why are we talking about the dominant archetype? Yes, because in a person there can be not one, but two or three. At the same time, they are in constant competition with each other. The archetypes inherent in the individual govern their carrier. They determine the direction of its activities, areas of interest, as well as adherence to certain ideals.

In his theory, Jung gave a description of male and female archetypes. Knowing both of them is very useful for a person to study his inner "I", often hidden from us at a subconscious level. In this article, we will look at male archetypes.

An archetype (archaic remnant) is a prototype that is based on certain symbols from mythology and dream plots. In his pioneering work, the German anthropologist Adolf Bastian first voiced the term "elementary idea." Subsequently, the Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung changed the voiced wording, giving it the name "archetype." It was he who began to assert that the so-called archaic remnant is a block that is built on the basis of the subconscious and unconscious mind. If we decipher this statement, then any individual already at birth has a certain model of “search”, “mentor” or “hero” at the level subconscious.

Male Archetype Hermes

Hermes as an archetype Like the god-Hermes, the Hermes-archetype has both positive and negative potential. Inventiveness, talent for communication, mental alertness and the ability to act quickly - all these qualities can be used to creative achievements, and for

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To take the test for your leading archetype:

Answer each statement. Then calculate the total score for each individual block. Answer options can be - no (0), maybe (1) and yes (2). Where the score is greater, the influence of the archetype will be stronger. Find the answers below.

Female archetypes


-A-
  • I can set goals and achieve them.
  • I am independent.
  • I have many girlfriends. Friendship is a very important aspect for me.
  • I am ruthless to my enemies.
  • I am able to think clearly.
  • I am good at handling practical tasks.
  • I am not a bad strategist.
  • I do not think that sympathy is so necessary for people.
  • The rules of society are not interesting to me, I prefer my inner world.
  • I often enjoy being alone.
  • I prefer to see spiritual meaning in everything.
  • The house should be like a temple - clean and comfortable.
  • I am jealous and know how to take revenge on my rivals.
  • I can be faithful.
  • Marriage is the most important thing in life.
  • No matter how terrible the relationship in a married couple is, this is not a reason for parting.
  • I know very well what depression means. I am in this from time to time.
  • I have to do everything myself, because no one can do it better than me anyway.
  • I love to feed and take care of others. I like being needed by people.
  • I don't think abortions should be done. In any case, you need to give birth.
  • I never openly ask for something. Everything I need, people give me and so on.
  • I can feel people.
  • I often have prophetic and significant dreams.
  • I love to dream and dive into the imagination.
  • I can say that I had enough stormy romances in my life.
  • My love affairs usually very intense, but not prolonged.
  • For me, it does not matter what will happen in the future in a relationship with my lover. The main thing is "here and now".
  • I love to enjoy pleasure and beauty

Male archetypes


-A-
  • I am always determined and ruthless.
  • The main thing in work is fruitfulness.
  • I have a certain amount of power and manage it well.
  • Emotions are for the weak.
-IN-
  • Sometimes I have a hard time dealing with my emotions.
  • Everyone has to pay their bills. Tooth for tooth.
  • Family is my support.
  • I feel very good about people.
-WITH-
  • I know the taste of depression well.
  • Inner peace is more important to me.
  • I'm not attracted to interacting with people.
  • I can create create my rich images and live them.
-D-
  • I always strive for perfection in everything.
  • The main thing in life is the goal.
  • Everything in life can be calculated.
  • Career is more important than personal relationships
-E-
  • I can move mountains as long as I'm interested in what I'm doing.
  • I don't like to stay in one place for a long time. The world was created to be known.
  • I quickly grasp the ideas and essence of any knowledge.
  • I don't care about the opinion of others, the main thing is to have the desired result.
-F-
  • I often feel like a scapegoat.
  • I react very quickly to what is happening.
  • I prefer an active lifestyle. (Sports, dancing)
  • I like sexual passion.
  • I sometimes feel awkward in public.
  • I can perfectly cope with any male work.
  • I can feel and see beauty.
  • Work is the best healer of the soul.
  • I'm not at all like other people. Maybe that's why they don't understand me.
  • The main thing for me is nature. The world is already so artificial.
  • Sometimes I feel a passion for life.
  • A person should try everything in life.
ANSWERS

Female archetypes

A - Artemis
B - Athena
C - Hestia
D - Hera
E - Demeter
F - Persephone
G - Aphrodite

Male archetypes

A - Zeus
B - Poseidon
C - Hades
D - Apollo
E - Hermes
F - Ares
G - Hephaestus
H - Dionysus

"The male archetype is an ancient model of male behavior; a way of male self-realization in society that has not changed over the centuries, outside world. Each archetype gives a man a specific Power and basic motivation.

We have identified seven main male archetypes - Warrior, Philosopher (teacher), Merchant (hunter), Peasant, Monarch, Monk, Slave (servant). Because in all societies, in all state systems, there have always been warriors, philosophers, merchants (entrepreneurs), peasants, monarchs (rulers, leaders), monks (hermits, holy fools, initiates) and slaves (servants, performers) among men.

Warrior - forms in a man a desire to fight and win, provoke a conflict and actively act in it, seize new territories. The main states of the Warrior are excitation and inhibition. Either he fights or actively relaxes (and women do not like the way he does it at all). The Warrior archetype is the main source of male aggression, anger, and rage. If a man does not have normal ways of reacting to the Warrior's aggression (sports, for example, quarrels with competitors, bosses or just fools), he will be unbearable in everyday life. A harmonious Warrior in a man enables a woman to feel protected - he will protect, protect and bring military trophies to her feet.

Philosopher - forms in a man the desire to know the truth and pass this knowledge on to others. Thanks to the Philosopher, a man seeks to get an education (and more than one!), create his own theory that explains the structure of the world and human relations, and also tell many people about it. The shadow side of the Philosopher is manifested in the orthodoxy of judgments, painful attachment to one's views, inflexibility of position. A harmonious Philosopher makes a man wise, tolerant, gives the gift of speech, the ability to observe and contemplate. The Harmonious Philosopher allows a man to be a wise father.

Merchant - forms in a man a craving for adventure, risk, adventures, gives excellent communication skills and creative thinking. The Merchant archetype helps a man to find an approach and a common language with different people, to manipulate them, to bring them to the decision that is necessary for himself. A strong Merchant archetype makes a man a Great Schemer. In his head, there are simultaneously many options for solving one problem. The shadow side of the Merchant is manifested in the desire to manipulate people, excessive craving for risk, gambling, extreme conditions. A harmonious Merchant forms an excellent Hunter in a man. In addition, a harmoniously developed Merchant archetype really attracts money to a man.

Peasant - forms in a man the desire for a stable, well-established life. It is the archetype of the Peasant in a man that says: “The main thing you have to do is build a house, plant a tree and raise a son. In this case, your life can be called successful. Do not grab the stars from the sky, be content with what you have, and do not miss the chance to multiply it! A peasant helps a man to stock up, take care of his offspring, be thrifty, pragmatic, far-sighted. The shadow side of the Peasant is manifested in greed, selfish pragmatism, attachment to material values. A harmonious Peasant helps a man to handle money wisely, plan income and expenses, and enhances his natural instinct.

Monarch - forms in a man the desire for power, primacy, dominance in everything. The shadow side of the Monarch can make a man despotic, authoritarian, cruel, narcissistic, uncritical. A harmonious Monarch gives a man the strength to take responsibility, make important decisions, patronize and take care of loved ones (as well as distant ones). The Monarch archetype is another source of male aggression. But in this case, it already has a different color than that of the Warrior. Monarch aggression does not arise by itself, but always as a reaction to disobedience, disobedience, disagreement of another, and also in cases where someone else, besides him, has the audacity to claim the role of leader. The monarch in a man is angry that things are not going the way he imagined; people act in their own way, which means they do not trust him, the most wise and perspicacious! The aggression of the Monarch is not easy to react in the gym. A man will be able to cope with this aggression after he beats someone. Only then will he be able to reflect, analyzing the reasons for disobedience and correcting his own shadow nature.

Monk - forms self-sufficiency in a man, the desire to live in solitude, the desire to serve a high beautiful Idea. The archetype of the Monk gives a man the power of self-restraint, abstinence. There are many legends about lone warriors. In those heroes, in addition to the archetype of the Warrior, the archetype of the Monk was strongly expressed. The shadow side of this archetype makes a man withdrawn, distrustful, unsociable, devaluing beautiful worthy ideas. A harmonious Monk gives a man inspiration to serve a lofty idea (the idea of ​​God, the common good, world peace, etc.), internal and external discipline, self-sufficiency.

Slave - forms in a man the desire and ability to serve someone else, obey the rules without discussing their expediency, tolerance for hardships and hardships. The shadow side of the Slave makes a man envious, insecure, anxious, irresponsible, dissatisfied with the established rules and his "masters" and at the same time desperately wanting to have all the blessings of the world for free and immediately. The harmoniously presented Slave gives the man the power to submit to necessity; the ability to adapt in the "pyramid" system, rigid hierarchy; the desire to clearly follow orders without discussing or criticizing them.

There is another interesting male archetype - this is the Jester. It was formed much later. However, today the Jester is present in almost every worthy man, endowing him with a sense of humor, an ironic attitude to life, the ability to provoke, paradoxical judgments and acting abilities.

Male Power is supported by the simultaneous work of all seven archetypes. But depending on the individuality of a man, his temperament, his heredity, the Male Power can manifest itself through two or three archetypes.