Zavorotnyuk and daughter joint photo sessions. How they look like her! Anastasia Zavorotnyuk showed her adult son and daughter. What's new now

But when eldest daughter Anna entered the university and went to study in New York and London, Anastasia realized that she was not yet ready for such a separation from her daughter. Moreover, over the past few years, they have also become the closest friends who trust each other intimate secrets, go shopping together and visit beauty salons. Mom and daughter told OK about mutual trust, similarity in views and family life!

Anastasia Zavorotnyuk and her 19-year-old daughter Anna do not look like a mother and daughter, but rather like sisters. Now Anna is a real copy of her feminine, stylish mother. But a few years ago, the girl did not recognize any dresses, preferring ripped jeans and a gothic style. “When Anechka was little, I bought a huge number of dresses with ruffles, everything is so delicate, beautiful ... I called the store and asked to put aside all the dresses that fit her size. And these touching delicate fur coats, boots, shoes ... I wanted my daughter to be dressed like a girl, ”Anastasia recalls. But time has passed, Anya has matured and now she herself gives advice to her mother.

Do you have the same tastes now?

Anastasia: We have completely different tastes. Sometimes Anya just makes me buy something. She liked the leather dress. I say: "Why do I need it?" - "Take it immediately." She is funny. But then I wear it all with pleasure. I'm not a fan of shopping at all, I used to often buy some things that stylists brought to the shooting, but this fall, in New York, in addition to visiting museums, Anechka and I arranged shopping for ourselves.

Nastya, are you already sharing beauty secrets with your daughter, or is it too early for her to know them?

Anastasia: I feel completely at ease in the role of a mother and do not try to say that we are sisters. ( Laughs.) Nevertheless, I take my appearance seriously, because for me it is important. The longer I stay in shape, the more job opportunities I will have. For me, going to a beauty clinic is part of my job. For example, if my shooting is canceled, I immediately sign up for massage, restoration, hair procedures ... And all my relatives understand that this is important. If Anya has any problems, we go to the salon together. But it is too early for her to do serious procedures. Naturally, she understands and knows that self-care is an important part of our life, if you want to be blooming, beautiful woman... True, now, due to the fact that Anya is studying in New York, we do not often go to salons or shopping together.

How do you cope with such a long separation from each other?

Anastasia: To be honest, it seemed to me that I was more prepared for the fact that sooner or later my daughter would leave to study in another country. But when this happened, I realized that it was very difficult for me without Anya. I immediately had some urgent business in New York ... ( Smiling.) As a result, I spent the first session next to her.

Anna: I miss you very much too. Previously, my mother was always close, but now she is so far away ... After all, as the best friends, we always consult each other. I don’t trust anyone as much as my mother.

Anastasia: We can sit with her in the bedroom and chat midnight - and try to come to us! And we can talk about anything! Children are my closest friends. They are the only ones whom I trust absolutely everything: only they are guaranteed to understand me correctly.

Nastya, when did you realize that your daughter became an adult?

Anastasia: I didn't have any clear gradation - well, that's it, she grew up. She was always a sensible girl beyond her years.

Anna: I was probably born with a serious attitude towards life. ( Smiles.)

Anastasia: But on the other hand, no matter how adult she is, I look at her and understand that she is still a child. I don’t know, probably it’s like that for all mothers.

Wasn't it scary to let your child go to a foreign country?

Anastasia: When my daughter decided to leave, I was very worried: how could she start living there alone in a strange city? I told her: "Anechka, I understand how difficult it will be for you." I began to remember how I myself came to Moscow from Astrakhan. But Anya stopped my carefully prepared monologue and answered me very well: "Mom, please note that coming from Astrakhan to Moscow is not at all like coming from Moscow to New York." And I didn't even have anything to argue about.

Anna: Still, Moscow is also Big city, the same metropolis as New York.

Anastasia: It is worth saying that after Moscow in New York she was even bored. In fact, she tried for three years in a row to go to study abroad - first to England, and then to the United States. When she decided to go to London, I even sent her to choose a college. But she talked with Russian children, and they told her that they were sent to England only so that they would not interfere with their parents to live for their own pleasure. At that time, for her immature consciousness, this very controversial argument had a decisive influence, and all my attempts to convince her and prove that these were just a couple of special cases, failed. She took a walk around the city, took a picture in front of Big Ben and Kensington Palace and returned home. The subject of England was closed. After a while, America emerged. At this point, we prepared very thoroughly, passed all the necessary exams for admission to the university ... But when the confirmation came, she suddenly refused.

At the last moment?

Anastasia: Yes! I was filming in Minsk then and came home for just a few hours. And then one day, when I arrived home, I found that the child was very excited. I ask her: "Do you want to tell me anything?" She replies: "I cannot go to America." - "Why?" And she: “Mom, I'm still little, I'm scared ...” For three years she did not dare to go to study abroad.

Wasn't it scary to go now?

Anna: Also scary, but I decided to take a chance ...

Anya, who are you studying for?

Anna: The producer.

Anastasia: But there is acting, directing, scripting, producing and organizing production. That is, everything together. It was unusual for me, because we have a different training system, but, on the other hand, it seems to me that it is very interesting experience.

Anya, why didn't you want to concentrate only on acting?

Anna: I was not sure that this is what I would like to do all my life, so I did not even consider theatrical.

Nastya, did you want your daughter to become an actress?

Anastasia: I am a big fan of ballet and in my childhood I dreamed of doing it. When Anya was born, I decided that this was a chance to make my childhood dreams come true. Let her become a ballerina! All friends in one voice repeated: "Your girl is simply created for ballet!" Without waiting for my daughter to grow up to the age when they are taken to the ballet school, I sent her to gymnastics at the Olympic reserve school so that she would have a good stretch. For several years she worked in the gym four to five times a week. Despite the fact that she was very good at it, Anya kept repeating: "I don't want to."

Anna: Yes, I was four years old, and I really didn't like all these activities. As a result, we came to the conclusion that I am already an independent person and can make decisions myself.

Anastasia: All four years she studied with tears in her eyes and in the end one day she said: "Can't you really understand that your dreams are not my dreams!" At that moment I was taking her to class. She was eight years old. I stopped, turned the car around, and we drove home.

Serious thing for an eight-year-old.

Anastasia: It seems to me that Anya was an adult from birth. She always clearly formulates what she wants, makes a decision and then builds a strategy on how to achieve what she wants.

Nastya, are you the same?

Anastasia: No. She knows how to wait, but I can't. Cossack blood flows in me, and if something is not for me - a saber bald! The decision has been made, which means it must be implemented immediately.

Is your son also patient, like Anya?

Anastasia: Mike is also patient, calm, balanced, but I look at him and understand that he is completely and completely cast from me: I was the same at his age. This is probably why I understand him much easier than Anya. I feel all his worries, doubts, or, conversely, joy.

Are you a strict mom?

Anastasia: Maybe also due to the fact that all the load and responsibility for the children lay on me, I held them very rigidly. I could have pulled it over. At some point, Petya helped (Peter Chernyshev, the husband of the actress. - Approx. OK!). Anya and I periodically had some kind of nervous situations, once she announced that she would stay with a friend, and I was categorically against it ... In general, Petya took me to ride around Moscow at night, and when my Cossack fervor cooled down, I exhaled , calmed down and returned home in a more or less calm state.

And they let go of your friend Anya?

Anastasia: Under pressure from Petit, I told Anya that she could stay with a friend. But as soon as I gave her permission, she immediately changed her mind and returned home.

Anna: I felt like an already formed person, I wanted some kind of freedom. And my mother thought I was little. Although, of course, I was still like that. And Petya really helped my mother and me with this. He smoothed out our conflicts, explained to my mother that there is nothing wrong with children growing up.

Anastasia: As a result, I realized that my children do not tolerate a harsh method. I don't know if this is right or not. For example, Paganini's father forced him to study the violin for many hours in a row, and a good deal came out of him. I didn't dare to put such pressure on my children.

You once said that parenting problems can be solved by loosening the leash.

Anastasia: Yes, as soon as the fruit ceases to be forbidden, there is no sense in fighting for it ... I have always taken conversations with children seriously. It is very important not only to listen to them, but also to hear them.

Anna: Mom is always very loyal to us, always gives us the right to choose and never puts pressure on us. She guides us on the right path, gives us advice, but nevertheless never limits us in anything.

They say little kids are little trouble, big kids are big trouble. Was there a lot of trouble as a teenager?

Anastasia: Probably, I am one of the happiest mothers. With Anya, we had two or three difficult situations... Yes, I was nervous, but in principle, we survived everything. I've heard it gets worse. I hope that Mike will be just as good. We have an interesting young man, he plays the guitar for six hours a day. The lessons are not very good, really, but everything is fine.

But grades are not the most important thing.

Anastasia: There are no triplets, thank God. I say, "Let's finish without the Cs." - "Okay, come on." Now, since we have moved to live outside the city, we have transferred Mike to a school, which is right next to the house. Recently I came there, the teacher says to me: “You have such a wonderful young man. He is so well brought up, so intelligent and considerate. We are so happy when he comes to lessons ... ”The main thing is that the problem was presented to me so delicately. ( Laughs.)

And the son has already decided on future profession?

Anastasia: B recent times we are discussing this topic more and more often. He comes up to me and says: "Mom, talk to me, I am worried about how and what I will do." By the way, his acting abilities are observed. But I probably would not really want him to choose this path.

Why?

Anastasia: I would like him to stand stronger on his feet. Our profession is very shaky, much depends on the case. Not even from your abilities, aspirations or talent, but from chance. Therefore, I do not put pressure on him.

Nastya, and when Anya was offered to try herself in the role of a TV presenter, did you mind?

Anastasia: I was shocked. It was a complete surprise for me. At first I didn't believe it, I thought it was a joke. The producer called us and explained that this was no joke - they really want to invite her to host the program.

Anna: I was invited to the casting. I arrived, I was just insanely worried. I scribbled the entire text so that it bounced off my teeth. And in fact, they took me.

Anastasia: When Anya was approved, I came to them, I said: “Why are you taking her? She is 16 years old, she can’t do anything. Now she will be disgraced, you and me will have to blush. " But they didn’t listen to me. ( Smiling.)

Nastya, but everything worked out.

In general, it worked out.

Anya, did your mother criticize you?

Anna: Of course! We watched the programs together and analyzed everything thoroughly.

Anastasia: I am a very strict critic and I always tell Anya where something went wrong: where she was lazy, where she fell short. She gave advice. To which she answered me: "Our producer tells me everything in the same way as you, only even better." Then I told her: "That's it, I'm retreating, talk to the producer." But I told her about the behavior on set explained that there can be no whims, that in our profession we must either give our best one hundred percent, or leave it.

Anya, did you take offense at your mother's criticism?

Anna: No.

Anastasia: Because she knows that this is how I work myself. After the first shooting, she said to me: “I was so worried ...” And I am amazed: “Then why didn't your knees tremble? Didn't your voice break? You didn't say any nonsense out of confusion? How were your experiences expressed? "

Anya, have you tried acting in films?

Anastasia: Her name is often called, but she does not want to.

Anna: There are no projects that would interest me.

Anastasia: Maybe the children, looking at me, realized how difficult it all is. By the way, in one episode of "My Fair Nanny" Anya still starred. She played my heroine as a child. And it was possible to persuade only by offering her a serious fee. ( Smiling.)

Anna: I've always been very calculating. ( Smiling.)

Anastasia: I myself played in the same episode. And I was so nervous that I forgot the entire text. In the end, the director stopped filming: "Nastya, your daughter looks much more professional than you!" But then my daughter also spoke, telling me: “Stop being nervous. Get a hold of yourself". I had to calm down.

Anna: I just learned my lyrics and my mother's. And she swore very much that she did not remember her words. I told her. Probably, from the outside it looked funny: the child teaches an already accomplished actress how to play. ( Laughs.) But my mother listened to me.

Nastya, have you taught your daughter not to pay attention to gossip?

Anastasia: When they used to write something bad about my family, the children reassured me and said: “You never know what they wrote. We know that this is all nonsense. " Therefore, it seemed to me that Anya, if anything, would be able to cope with it. But it turned out that even this kind of preparation does not work here. Once a girl took a picture naked, signed the picture "Anya Zavorotnyuk" and posted it on the Internet. At that moment, Petya and Mike, I were in America for the premiere of the film "Moms". Anya called: “Mom, there’s such a story ...” When I arrived, they told me that my daughter, a man of incredible self-control, just cried and said: “Why? What have I done wrong to them? "

Anna: Indeed, at first there were tears, nerves, it was hard to teach myself not to react to all this.

Anastasia: But we talked and came to the conclusion that one should not pay attention to such things. They constantly write about me and my family, including bad things, gossip and fables are circulated. Well now, go crazy because of this? And no matter what they say about us, you cannot make excuses: firstly, no one will believe anyway, and secondly, here you just have to start - and you will have to devote your whole life to making excuses. We try to protect ourselves from this. At some point, I gathered my relatives and asked them not to read all these publications anymore.

Nastya, now that Anna and Mike are already grown up, do you have any guilt that when they were little you did not pay enough attention to them?

Anastasia: When Nanny was there, I worked 15-19 hours a day, seven days a week. She came, kissed their heels and went to bed, and left in the morning - they were still asleep. For them to run and frolic around me - this was not the case. And if it suddenly happened, then I just lay there and looked at them in silence.

Anna: I didn't have the feeling that I was a neglected child. My brother and I always feel great love from my mother and understand: everything she does is only for us. But I really missed it. I remember the times when we saw my mother once a week, because my mother left when we were still asleep and came back when we were already asleep. Only on TV, in fact, they watched her.

Anastasia: It was a difficult year, then it became easier, and that's it free time I tried to spend with children. This is still the case.

You have so many filming now. Probably, you rarely manage to escape to your daughter?

Anastasia: Yes, so far there is absolutely no free time. Now I am filming in several projects for one of the federal channels, soon the series "Provocateur" directed by Stas Shmelev is to be released on the TV channel "Russia", in which we, together with Andrey Chadov, are fighting corruption. The series "Division" is also being released on NTV, it was shot by the talented director Vladimir Nakhabtsev - there I try on the role of a police major, an investigator. Recently, the program "The Invisible Man" was filmed on TV-3, it will be released in April. This is also a rather interesting project, where I first encountered people with unusual abilities. And on March 7, I had the premiere of the entrepreneurial performance "The Extra One". I have been thinking about working on stage for a long time and finally decided on it. In the near future I have a tour - in Belarus, Kazakhstan, Israel, and then I will definitely go to visit Anya.