Tatyana Skorokhodova personal life. Why did Maryanov contact his ex-wife before the tragedy? Details are known. How do you remember him

Tatyana, you live outside the city. Many people know about your amazing, large and hospitable house. But life outside the city does not bring difficulties? How is your day structured?
- I now have three schoolchildren, so the schedule is very dependent on them. Without a city apartment, of course, it became difficult. After all, children grow up, and besides school, they still have a lot to do. It happens that our whole family arrives in the city at eight in the morning and leaves at nine in the evening.
- In some sense, your life is subordinated to the schedule of your children?
- (Smiling.) Yes, not in any way, but absolutely in direct. It's not their fault that we live so far away.
- And what kind of mother are you? How do you bring up children?
- Love and trust. (Smiles.) True, when another child begins a transitional age, every time it seems to me that I do not understand anything about upbringing. Of course, we try to explain in any quarrels between children that this is their brother or sister, in childhood everyone quarrels, then you will be the closest people to each other. The younger ones swear for five whole minutes after the quarrel that this is absolutely impossible in their case!.. Well, the main principle, which I consider basic and, perhaps, even sufficient, is Camus's statement: "The freedom of one ends where the freedom of another begins."
- How was your childhood? Tell about your parents.
- With pleasure. My dad was an engineer. Thank you very much, he was a born teacher. Thanks to him, I am well versed in all technical disciplines. And she easily passed the notorious sopromat, studying at one of her many institutes. Dad quite simply, literally on his fingers, could tell about everyone physical processes occurring in the world. My mom is very creative person. How she got into medicine is a big mystery to me! At one time, apparently, she simply had nowhere to turn around. But she more than makes up for it at home events. (laughs) Because family holidays we have so much fun! Recently celebrated the anniversary of my grandmother - ninety years. It was such a wonderful holiday, an amazing home concert. Everyone was so passionate about it that my aunt even jokingly got a little upset - after all, the guests didn’t eat anything, everyone was passionate about the show. Mom loves to arrange theatrical performances and herself performs in many roles. She now lives in Irkutsk. And before, my parents and I lived in the Far North, in Yakutia. One of the most vivid childhood memories is how we went for snowdrops with our parents in the spring. I also remember the puppet theater performances that we often staged at home.
- Tatyana, how did they let you, your beloved daughter, go to Moscow to enter theater university? After all, many parents have a certain stereotype about this profession.
- (Smiling.) You could say they pushed me out! Although for some reason dad thought that I would enter the biological faculty in Irkutsk. Why? For me it remains a mystery. And he was very surprised when he found out that my mother and I had already bought tickets to Moscow and I was flying to the exams at the theater. Mom, apparently, took revenge for her non-theatrical career. WITH High school prom I returned at six in the morning, and at eight we had already flown to Moscow. At four in the morning we arrived, and at eight we were already at the Shchepkinsky school.
- The release of the first film with your participation for your parents, of course, has become a very significant event.
- Yes. But it so happened that they also visited me on the set, my father often flew on business trips, and my mother flew in, they came with pleasure to film set.
- Tatyana, are you probably fed up with the questions of journalists and in general the topic of your acting past?
- Yes, to be honest, it's nice to remember it only sometimes. So as not to forget. I live for today, in another present. Friends of the actors remained, we communicate with pleasure. Edik Radzyukevich, Sasha Zhigalkin, Dima Maryanov. We correspond with Maria Poroshina, but we still don’t match in Moscow.
- And in Irkutsk you found for yourself interesting activity. Were a TV presenter, starred in commercials. Started teaching etiquette courses.
- I have not taught yet, because the group has not been recruited. But as soon as - I'm immediately ready to start this work. I was approached by representatives of one training center, who organizes and conducts various courses, was asked if I would like to try. It seemed to me very interesting, although officially I do not own it. But the direction is interesting, in connection with the general illiteracy of the population. Not in the truest sense of the word, of course.
- Then about the level of our culture. Here you are, for example, walking down the street, you see people, their communication, dialogues. Are there moments that you don't like downright creepy?
- In general, everything is changing, of course, for the better. Ten years ago, when I first came to Irkutsk, when Andrei brought me here and said: “Let's live here,” I was a little confused. We arrived, I went for a walk around the city, went to several places, looked, returned all in tears and said: “I can’t live here.” The first thing that shocked me was the rudeness. Moreover, Andrey asked me to directly tell in detail what, for example, they told me in the store and how I answered. After listening, he laughed for a long time and said: “No one was rude to you, they just talk like that here.” I didn’t believe it: “And the tone in which it was said? ..” Then I realized that this was really just a local manner, such an intonation in the voice, as if they were running over you. I don't know why, maybe because of the difficult living conditions. And Andrei told me: the people here are very kind, just a little rude. I also don't like the general unwillingness to restrain oneself. The other day, in one courtyard at the playground, I watched a picture of how one young mother scolded children riding a carousel. After all, nowhere is it written on the playgrounds that children, say, older than eleven or twelve years old are forbidden to play there. And this woman, in front of her own small child, in the most unrestrained, rude form, began to make remarks to these big children: “What are you doing here? You don't belong here." I had a question inside me: who said that they do not belong here? If they respect the rules of courtesy, behave neatly, why should they not be on the playground? These are trifles, of course, but I notice such moments, and I think that in this direction the field is simply unplowed.
- And when you left the capital after your husband, what did he promise you?
He didn't promise me anything. We generally once said to each other: never say "never" or "forever". Because we are living people, time flows around us, and everything changes. We decided we'd be together as long as we're good together, that's all. Andrey just got sad in Moscow after a while. Everything was wonderful with him there, he is open, good man combined with the fact that he is also a professional in his field. And it's just amazing for people. Anyone who works with him at least once, can no longer refuse him. In the future, everything would have turned out well for him in Moscow in terms of work, but he was downright homesick. All the time he said that he wanted to come here, both fishing and hunting. And at that moment I was faced with a choice: either I stay in Moscow without Andrey, or I go to Siberia with him.
- Your choice, for sure, shocked colleagues and acquaintances.
Everyone is still surprised. After all, objectively, this decision can not be called smart. Because Irkutsk is a place where people were exiled for a long time, the climate here is difficult for life. Nevertheless, love, personal happiness were in the first place for me. After some established career, it seemed to me that I could afford to be led by my feelings.
- Your husband is in demand in his profession and in Irkutsk. The premiere of “Satisfaction”, a film by Anna Mathison, in which you and Andrei participated, will soon take place.
- Yes, Andrey was involved as a cameraman, and I was a line producer. By the way, this film was included in the program of the last Kinotavr.
- Tatyana, what can you say about Russian cinema in general? Do you like it?
- From what I watched recently, I really liked the film "Wild Field" by Mikhail Kalatozishvili. We cannot compete with Hollywood in the production of blockbusters, and you can do without it, shoot your own movie, in a different way. And this “different way” in the “Wild Field” took me to the soul so much ... I advise you to look. The film, as Andrey said, is a cameraman's dream, the plans are so slow and long. Beautiful landscapes, mountains. Somewhere even with my northern childhood echoes. And a bunch of beautiful acting work, lively and unexpected scenes.
- It turns out now to watch a movie just as a spectator, and not a professional? Or always through the eyes of an actress?
- All my life, I always watch movies as a simple spectator. If I really liked the film, I can watch it a second time and even a third time, and then yes, I will watch with interest, note some moments for myself. And for the first time I look as a spectator and nothing more - crying, laughing. (Smiling.) I cry, by the way, where it is supposed to and not supposed to.
- What are your plans for the summer?
- This summer will be such a "non-resting". (Smiling.) There are working plans. We have our own room in which we want to open something. But for this, much more needs to be done. It's too early to talk about the details, but this is a creative project related to children. I hope it finds a response in the hearts of people. Trips, trips have been postponed for the time being, because business comes first. By September, we should already put something into operation, bring it into desired view. And so I will rest at home, in our country it turns out very well.
- Your intra-family project - "Family Motor Race", a trip to the cities of Russia through Kazakhstan, with a bunch of children. When you repeat and again set an example for families with children, how should you relax?
- In general, this event is organizationally difficult and financially difficult too. But my family and I would certainly like to do something in this spirit. Then we did fifteen thousand kilometers. The start was in Irkutsk, further along the route were Kazakhstan, Volgograd. We planned to go to the Crimea, but after Kazakhstan they did not want to go there, various border measures stopped us. And we stayed near Gelendzhik, three meters from the sea we parked the car, a scarf and rested. Then we went to Moscow, but my friend from Minsk called and we decided to visit her. Then it turned out that they forgot things in Gelendzhik, phoned the guys with whom they rested there, and went to pick up things in Smolensk. From there to Moscow. The plans were to visit St. Petersburg with a museum program in order to introduce children to cultural heritage. (Laughs.) But the children begged for mercy. Indeed, everyone is tired. We lived in Moscow for another week and then went home. We made a film about our trip, almost all the time we had a video camera turned on. In general, now we need to start with Peter.
What can you say about roads?
- The roads are bad, but I think something has changed in four years, perhaps they have become better. Here in Belarus simply gorgeous roads. And when will we have good roads, hard to say. After all, this requires a large number of Money in the budget. And not to steal. But I am an optimist and still believe that it is possible.
- What is the place of money and material values ​​in your life?
- I never thought about money, because somehow they always were - not a lot and not a little, but just right, so as not to demand close attention to themselves. Now, of course, we have to think about them, because the children have already grown up, but have not grown up yet. As a child in my family, my dad earned enough, and we could afford everything, within reason. Mom very rarely could say no. When I was a student and lived in Moscow, I also never felt an acute shortage of money. There was a scholarship, parents sent a little. I went to thrift stores, looked for something special for a long time - and as a result I looked what I needed. The worst period of my life in terms of image came at a time when I was fabulously, indecently rich. Now, when I look at photographs of those years, I understand this. I just went to the then-opened boutique on Kievskaya, bought the first suit I came across for crazy money. I think: “Why should I suffer, go looking, invent?” The things in my wardrobe were very expensive. (Smiling.) But now I look at the photo and understand that it was not very tasteful at that time.
- Moment of self-criticism - is it acceptable for you?
- Absolutely necessary! I have to learn from my mistakes so that I don't make them again.
- Tatyana, what can you call your interests, hobbies? Someone collects stamps, someone is fond of dancing. Is there something like this in your life?
- The hobby is not original: I play the piano. Once I graduated from a music school, then for fifteen years, if not more, I did not approach the instrument. And then I suddenly wanted to play so much, I suddenly realized what an outlet it was for me. Now I'm learning Chopin's nocturne - very, very difficult, fingers can be broken. People rest in different ways. (Smiling.) Well, don't watch TV, after all! I have three TVs in my house and I spend most of my time at home turning them off.
- Why is there such a dislike for TV?
- What's good there? It seems to me that television splashes out a lot of evil and bad things. During pregnancy, for example, I could not watch the news at all. She forbade bringing newspapers home. Not all, of course. There is a list that you can. When I kindle the fireplace, I take a newspaper, and even if I accidentally come across some bad news, I go then sick some days. I mean news that relate to some kind of incidents, terrible cases related to children, and so on and so forth. And that's why I don't watch TV. You know, a long time ago, a journalist acquaintance of mine, an American, said about his compatriots: “I can’t stand them!” I was so surprised and ask: why? He answered me: because they are all lazy, not interested in anything, they do not care about anything except what is happening on their street. I then supported him. Indeed, how can it be so limited? And now I understand them, because if you want to help someone, you have the strength, the spiritual impulse - look around, and you will find who needs your help. And when you find out about someone's grief on TV or in the newspaper, you, as a rule, cannot help. When I see that grief is happening somewhere in the world, and I cannot help, I really suffer from it. Maybe I'm exaggerating in some way.
- And the Internet?
- He is kinder to people. Of course, there are floating windows, but they can be dealt with. But in general, you yourself choose what to watch and read on the Internet.
Do household chores take up a lot of your time?
- Household by the standards of a private house, we have reduced to a minimum. Of course, this is mainly cleaning. There are many children in the house, they help, some are assigned the first floor, others the second.
- What about the garden?
I don't force anyone to do anything there. Because it's disgusting to be forced to. If children want raspberries or sorrel, they themselves ask in the spring: “Where will sorrel grow in our country?” I say: "Now, if you dig this bed, there will be sorrel." They will dig up. Or they ask: what about peas? I say: it is overgrown with grass. They'll go weeding...
- Flowers?
- Not much. (Smiling.) Horses live with us, and they have already eaten flowers many times. The fact is that our plot is quite large, and in order to have a beautiful, flawless lawn, I let them out, and they carefully eat all the excess grass. I don't like a lawn mower, we have one, but I can't when it smells like gasoline. And when the horses come out, I cover a few flowers with a blanket so that they do not eat. And the rest on the site - trees, pines, cedars, various shrubs.
- What is the secret of your popularity among journalists, the public? After all, you haven’t acted for a long time, but still from time to time you appear both on TV and on the pages of magazines and newspapers.
- (Laughs.) For me, this is a big mystery. Sometimes I wonder what I am spreading around me. I've been thinking about this recently. Each person has his own mission on earth. It may be such a big word, but I'm not ashamed of it. Someone has a mission to become president and work for the good of their country. For some, the mission is to build a beautiful shopping and entertainment center. Someone needs to save people or be a doctor. When I thought about my mission, I realized that this is definitely not shooting in a dozen films. Yes, it was not bad, interesting, but you can’t call it a mission. Whom did these films change, someone's destiny? Maybe I was just unlucky, and in my career there were no such tapes. But after our “Family Motor Race” trip, for two years people came up to me on the street and asked: are these you, those same people? And they said: “Thank you! We decided to have another child. We were so afraid, it seemed to us that it was impossible and we could not cope. But let's see how easy it is for you to cope." And there were not even five or ten such people, but much more. (Smiles) You could say I improved my fertility rate and showed people how happy you become when you have big family.