Male and female host Julia Baranovskaya. Yulia Baranovskaya spoke frankly about her divorce from Andrei Arshavin. – You have one global dream

In 2012, news appeared that the former captain of our football team, Andrei Arshavin, after nine years of relationship, broke up with his common-law wife, Yulia Baranovskaya. She with two children, in the fifth month of pregnancy was left alone. Here, perhaps, and all that was known.

Editor-in-Chief HELLO! - Svetlana Bondarchuk - met with Julia to hear for the first time a story that had never been voiced before.

former civil wife Andrey Arshavin Yulia Baranovskaya

Julia, you were silent for almost two years, did not give a single comment. What made you decide to be interviewed?

Everything that was written in the press these two years is an absolute fiction, not a word of truth. I learned a lot about myself and my husband. For nine years they wrote what a wonderful friendly family we have, and then completely different publications went: he allegedly cheated on me right and left, changed girls like gloves, we didn’t have a marriage as such, I was suddenly recorded as a cohabitant. Today's conversation costs me incredible efforts, but I would like to dot the "and". Whatever happens to Andrei and me, my family does not deserve these slanders, I want to defend the honor of the family. I lived absolutely happy nine years with Andrey. What happened next is hard to explain. At one point, Andrei ceased to be the person whom I had known all these years. Now the most difficult stage for me has already passed, but I can’t say that everything has completely subsided in my soul. Maybe it will take a lifetime.

editor-in-chief of HELLO! Svetlana Bondarchuk

I know that you lived with Andrei for many years, you gave birth to children for him, but your relationship was not officially registered. Why did it happen?

Last year my friends threw me a party in London for my birthday. Of course, they congratulated, wished ... And that's what I thought then: when we lived with Andrei, I was very skeptical about all these toasts and wishes. I didn't need them, I already had everything. I had enough of everything, I was absolutely confident in the person who was next to me. And I didn’t think for a second that at some point something could change dramatically, I didn’t think how to make sure. It wasn't naivety, it was internal installation. I felt married! I still don't like the prenuptial agreement. Since the marriage contract is like a preparation for divorce. What's the point of living with someone you don't fully trust? But this is my position.

You felt like you were married.

Absolutely. Andrey and I built a family, a life, a fortune from scratch. I didn’t come and live in his luxurious house, I didn’t get a car with a driver and a lot of money in the accounts. When we met, his future at Zenit looked very uncertain. He mostly sat on the bench. I came to the match, then to the second one, and even, I remember, without any mockery, somehow Andrey asked: “Why am I sitting here and watching for 90 minutes how some men run, chasing the ball? You don’t care for the last three minutes on you’re leaving for a replacement, so maybe I’ll come up at the end?

No, we started everything together, slowly, step by step ... He himself called me his wife. I realized that there was no marriage only when we separated. Now I think that a formal marriage is necessary. It helps with the crisis of relationships, which happens to everyone, everyone.

Julia Baranovskaya

That is, do you think that if you had an official marriage and there was such a situation that happened, you would end up together?

I think it was much easier to leave without a formal marriage. I got up, took my suitcase and left. No litigation, division, showdown - everything is very simple. An official marriage holds, imposes certain obligations. For me, in fact, official marriage and civil marriage differ only in the ease of parting. Something tells me that, being in an official marriage, Andrei would not behave like that. Relationships are the work and private affair of only two people. And the most correct thing is to leave all the problems within the family. But, unfortunately, when you are a public person and behave the way Andrei did, it quickly becomes public knowledge, an occasion for dirty gossip. But, despite the fact that our relationship was not registered, I still believe that he had no right to do this in relation to his family.

When we first started living together, Andrei really wanted us to have a child. And over time, I got pregnant. Andrei started talking about the wedding, about the number of guests, about where to celebrate and how to celebrate, since the registration of our relationship seemed to him a settled issue. But I said: "What is the wedding now? I want a real wedding!"

Yulia Baranovskaya with children - Artem, Yana and ArsenyIt is clear that every girl dreams of a beautiful wedding.

I didn't really want to get married pregnant. And this moment was missed, and then it was no longer up to it: a child appears, then a second, then moving to London. We return to this topic less and less often. The question has never been acute. "Why aren't we getting married? No, I don't want to marry you! I won't marry you" - there have never been such conversations. "Will we get married?" - "Well, yes, someday we will definitely get married" - this was discussed in passing, in some very light form. Over time, you get used to this situation, and this is not right.

I understand that it's hard for you to talk about this, but come on - about the essence of the problem. Andrei had a relationship with another woman. Couldn't you forgive?

I believe that everything can be forgiven, in principle, if a person repents. To forgive, it is enough that he sincerely repents of what he has done.

This is very wise words. Girls are more typical of a different position: "I will never forgive betrayal!"

Relationships are work. Big job. I do not think that betrayal is something tragic, out of the ordinary. But betrayal is something else entirely. What happened to me, I do not regard as treason. I regard this as a betrayal. Because in such a weak, unprotected position, in which I was, there is no other way to call it. It was the fifth month of pregnancy ...

Julia with Arseny
How did you find out that Andrei had an affair? From the press?

In January 2012, Andrei received several offers from various football clubs to go play in Russia. Ahead was the European Championship, he did not have any success in the London Arsenal. Andrei categorically refused a long business trip, in football slang this is called "rent". He said he couldn't take the kids in the middle school year from school, but does not want to leave me alone. Like, such a load - two small children, I am pregnant, in a foreign country. But I saw that he needed this work like air, otherwise the European Championship would be held without him.

In the end, he signed a contract with Zenit. He left and I stayed. Every day he called many times, asking how we live. In April, we came with the children to St. Petersburg for the holidays. In the two weeks that we were there, Andrei and I did not part for a second. You could say we had the perfect honeymoon. We made plans for the future, even signed a contract with a designer who was supposed to design a new house.

I returned with the children to London, and a week later I learned from friends that he had been seen with another girl. For me it was like thunder among clear sky. I still don't understand how things could have changed so suddenly. I suspect that the girl was trying to be as "noticeable" as possible, specifically so that their relationship "surfaced" as quickly as possible. That's all. I don't know what it's like to take a man away from a family, I don't know what it's like to fight for a man, because it disgusts me.

90 percent of my friends asked: "Have you talked to her?" I sincerely do not understand what I should talk to her about, honestly. I have friends, relatives, friends, I can talk to them. Maybe this is not the position wise woman, but rivalry, the struggle for a man, cunning, intrigue - this is not about me.

Yulia Baranovskaya with children

We have another example before our eyes - Victoria Beckham, in whose family, obviously, everything was not always perfect either. Before the birth of his daughter, David was also convicted of treason. But Victoria was able to survive this crisis as if it did not exist at all.

I have always admired one quality in her - how beautifully she came out of all situations. Family was more important than all this dirt. A lot of nonsense and untruths were also written about us. And I decided not to react to it in any way, not to wash dirty linen in public. After all, you can’t prove anything to people, you just need to be able to ignore all this noise.

If you are a wise man you just don't read it. You don’t build a tragedy out of this, you don’t make a scandal at home, and indeed, if something happened, you know how to forgive. Here I absolutely agree with you: betrayal, probably, you need to learn to forgive, but betrayal - no.

I think both are always to blame in a relationship. 50 to 50. But no matter what happens, you need to leave like a human being. Everyone has the right to love - we are not each other's slaves. And it doesn’t matter how many children, years of life behind you, if you decide to leave and you think that this is your new way, you can do it. But human and beautiful, not mean.

I don't want to take the "dirty laundry" out. I still want to keep it all between us. You need to be able to respect your past, be grateful to it, and only then a good future awaits you.

Artemy Arshavin How did your friends and acquaintances react to what happened? Did someone take someone's position, or did they try to remain neutral?

In our history, the choice was obvious to everyone. Even Andrey's friends in a harsh form, absolutely openly expressed their position to him. And he, it seems to me, was even offended. Sincerely not understanding why they changed their attitude towards him.

You will laugh, but it's me. This is not my opinion, everyone who knows us told me about it. He always consulted with me, we made all decisions together. We knew everything about each other. But in this story, I could not advise him: "Andrey, you must do this and that" ...

Julia Baranovskaya and Yana Arshavin

Of course I tried. It was very hard. I don’t know if it’s worth talking about it, but in fact, in fact, he didn’t leave. You know, being a wife for nine years, it is very difficult to understand and accept in one week that you have been turned into a mistress. At some point, a terrible thing happened to me. Like, Stockholm syndrome - you know, when the victim falls in love with his tormentor. When she no longer realizes where is normal, where is abnormal. At some point, I got lost. I have not seen what is right, what is right. And it was too much already. It seems to me: another six months, and I would have ended up in the hospital with a nervous breakdown. In the film "Twilight" there was such an episode: the heroine, left alone, sits on the couch. The weather changes outside the window, and she sits, staring at one point and flipping through the pages of the diary. November is a blank page, December is a blank page... This moment touched me to the depths of my soul and frightened me, because the months go by, and they are empty, there is nothing. A year later, I was even more frightened, because this situation had already happened to me. It seems to have lived, but it feels like nothing, emptiness.

You were pregnant and already long enough. In this very complex and very important point for a woman, when you want to be looked after, helped, blow off dust particles every second, how did you find the strength to live, give birth?

Don't know. It seems to me that only the Lord God helped me. Honestly. I got up in the morning, went to church, stood a service, which I had never done before. It got easier. She left. By the evening I could feel bad again. I went to church again, there was an evening service. I didn't have a chance to cry out. I could not give vent to emotions: sob, bang my head against the wall. I also couldn't take sedative pills. I was in a terrible state, in a terrible state. Among other things, it was the third C-section, and I was diagnosed with "complete placenta previa". In this situation, any stress is dangerous for the child. In addition, on the same days I found out that my mother was seriously ill. I couldn't say anything to my mom, I didn't want to. Mom went through chemotherapy and, thank God, got better. At some point they wanted to put me on antidepressants, but I could not afford it. I understood that time will pass, and my wound will heal, but the child will remain, and if something is wrong with him through my fault, I will not be able to forgive myself for this.

children of Andrei Arshavin and Yulia Baranovskaya with their mother

Was there someone close to you who was the most helpful? The person about whom you can now say that he directly saved me?

I can't single out one. There were a lot of people around me, friends. And everyone, absolutely everyone, made his own contribution, some kind of contribution. If I now start listing the names of the people who were nearby and how they helped, we will not have enough magazine with you, honestly. I am very grateful to everyone.

Did the kids understand what was going on?

No. I didn't want to tell them anything. We lived in London, and Andrei - in St. Petersburg. I told the children: "Daddy plays football." All. They didn't have any questions. I simply understood that the birth of another child for the elders would already be stressful, and I felt sorry for them, I did not want to burden them with this.

Do you receive financial support from Andrey? How did the trial end with which you're trying to secure alimony?

He categorically did not want to share, he constantly scared that he would block the cards. I got tired of enduring it and filed a British court. We didn't speak for three months. Communicated through lawyers. The situation worked out quite well for me. Then Andrei flew to London, and we met face to face, without lawyers. I will not go into the details of our meeting, but I agreed to sign a settlement agreement. And it became mine big mistake. True, unfortunately, I realized this too late - two weeks after the signing of the contract, when the arrest was lifted from his accounts, he refused to fulfill the terms of the agreement. Then he partially started again, then refused again. And so it went on for several months. So now I had to sue for the second time, already in Russia. Andrew left me no other choice. He had a million chances to solve everything humanly and peacefully, but he did not want to.

It is completely incomprehensible to me how this can be - left without providing for their own three children.

Me too.

It is unlikely that children still do not ask any questions. Perhaps they had to explain everything already?

Now they are dedicated. The elder even jokes about it. Artem watches the news and says: “Mom, you know, Prince Harry is not married. I will write a letter to the queen, I can, I write well, I speak beautifully. I will tell the queen what a beautiful, good, smart mother I have, and that she gave us an audience so that you could get to know each other." (Smiling.)

It's so touching, it's amazing.

It is very funny. The elder does not exclude dad from life. But at the same time, he gives me the right to happiness. I would say so. And I didn't explain it to him, believe me. True, then he watched the news, and it turned out that Prince Harry had a girlfriend. But, in addition to jokes, when I leave home on business, it happens that the children look at me incredulously and ask: "Are you sure you will return?" Because dad left to play football at Zenit, in St. Petersburg. And he had to return. And did not return.

Tell me, please, you now mostly live with your children in London. Although initially this city was not so close, I did not really like it. Why did you make such a choice?

There are two main reasons. The eldest son has been going to school here for three years, and he is used to it. The second reason is that the father of the children is a public person. I did not want to move to St. Petersburg for this reason. Because whatever one may say, Andrey's recognition in St. Petersburg is 10 out of 10, I'm not exaggerating. Everyone knows him. And to bear such a surname on oneself is a lot of work.

Yes, the Arshavins will come to class - conversations are inevitable. By the way, do they have their father's last name?

Yes, sure. Children say what they think. And they say what they hear at home. And I can't be held responsible for everyone who says something cruel to them.

So you want the kids to grow up here until they reach a more conscious age?

I would very much like this to happen, but I think I won’t be able to pull it off financially for a long time.

Maybe, leaving you without security, in this way he wants to return you to St. Petersburg?

Yes, it's probably convenient when you live, and around the corner there is also a family, children. So, just in case, at hand.

On March 8, your debut as a TV presenter will take place - the show "The Bachelor" starts on the TNT channel. This is absolutely accurate - the beginning of a new life, because now you are becoming a public person, no longer as the wife of a famous athlete, but a separate creative unit. Your own career begins. Tell me, how did you make this decision?

In the show "The Bachelor" one man chooses his bride from 25 women. I'm not surprised that I was offered to be an expert on this show. In the format of the show, there is a discussion of the girls who are dropping out, a kind of "analysis of mistakes". We invite them to the studio and find out together with them what they did wrong, that they were kicked out and he did not give them a chance to stay on. These "mistakes" dictate the theme of the show.

I can say that I am an ideal expert, because I have tremendous experience. Usually someone is faced with one problem - divorce, financial collapse, infidelity, pregnancy, three children without a father, I experienced it all in one period of time. And I want to somehow guide young girls, correctly point out mistakes. I want to inspire them, to say that no matter what the tragedy, life does not end there, and you can continue to live. It seems to me that the most important thing is not to fall into a psychological trap, not to make an obligatory pattern out of the experienced situation. I hate this phrase: "All men are the same." They are completely different!

But do you believe that tomorrow you will meet a man, fall in love with him, and you will have complete confidence in him?

I had a difficult story, but I honestly tell you: I have not hardened, I know that for sure.

You know, I think that very soon you will certainly meet a strong true love which will make you forget all the grievances. Paradoxically, but it is stories like yours that cause not pity, but admiration. Today it is really no longer you who need to help, but you can help many.

I know what they say about me: "It's a pity for the girl, three children, who needs her?" But believe me, I absolutely happy man, I have three children from one man and a new interesting career on TV. Not for a second did I have a thought: “My God, I have three children, what will I do, how will I live?” I already have the main thing - a family, my children. I always have all the places at the dinner table will be occupied. And in 15 years there will be three times more people at the table. I'm very happy. And now, thinking about a new relationship, I'm not looking for a father to my children. If the man who will be with me at some point wants to become one, great. But it will be his personal choice.

She was born into an ordinary St. Petersburg family. The marriage of her parents broke up when the girl was only ten years old. Yulia's mother remarried, but Baranovskaya's relationship with her father remained tense for a long time.

Yulia dreamed of entering the faculty of journalism after graduating from school, but her mother dissuaded her daughter and insisted on studying in the specialty "Management". Nevertheless, it was not possible to complete the education of Baranovskaya: a chance meeting intervened in the matter, which changed her whole life.

It was a sunny summer day in 2003, Yulia and her friend went for a walk along Nevsky Prospekt. It was here that the acquaintance of the then just beginning football player Andrei Arshavin and Yulia Baranovskaya took place.

Development: all for the sake of children

Relations between young people developed very rapidly and very soon the couple began to live together. In 2005, Yulia became a mother for the first time: a boy was born, who was named Artem. Baranovskaya had to forget about her studies, because Small child constantly demanded her attention.

Three years later, another joyful event happened in the life of the lovers and Julia gave Andrei a daughter, Yana. Of course, the presence of two children did not leave any hope for the completion of education.

In 2009, the life of this couple changed dramatically: Arshavin was invited to play in England at the Arsenal football club. The footballer simply could not refuse such an advantageous offer, and the family moved to London in full force.

In numerous interviews, Yulia more than once had to answer questions about why the relationship with the father of her children was not officially registered. Baranovskaya repeatedly answered that at that time she did not see any need to register a marriage, because they were always together, lived like a real family, and she herself felt married. Andrey Arshavin He called marriage an empty formality.

“I lived an absolutely happy 9 years. No fear, no procrastination. I gave birth to three children, not being officially married, without having anything recorded on myself - am I completely crazy? Fallen from the moon? I was just completely sure that it was forever. I had no idea that this could happen, ”says Yulia.

The family lived in London until 2012, until Arshavin's contract ended and he had to return to Russia to the Zenit team. The first time in London was very difficult for Yulia: after all, she practically did not know the language and was essentially alone in a foreign country with small children. Nevertheless, even then one could notice the steel character of this fragile girl, who was able to adapt to a new place in a fairly short time, establish relations with the beloved Arshavin colleagues at Arsenal and make friends in foggy Albion.

Climax: low blow

When Andrei Arshavin returned to St. Petersburg, Yulia decided to stay with her two children in London so as not to suddenly tear them away from their studies, beloved friends and familiar surroundings. At first, everything went well and it seemed that nothing had changed in the life of the family.

Yulia and her children came to Russia for the holidays, and the family again happily spent time together, enjoying every day. Another addition is expected very soon: Julia Baranovskaya was in her fifth month of pregnancy, when suddenly everything in the life of this family changed dramatically in just one second.

Andrey Arshavin left his civil spouse despite nine years life together and two children, announcing his decision simply during a telephone conversation. Later, in an interview, the football player commented on this act as follows: “I just met a woman and realized that I want to live with her.”

“From Petersburg, he constantly called me. We were in touch all the time. Then I flew to St. Petersburg with the children for the holidays. For two weeks we did not part for one second. He just trained without me. Then we signed a contract with the designers to renovate the house. I flew to London, and a week later he said he was leaving. The next day I found out that my mother was sick. The child is in the stomach, the husband said he was leaving, the mother is sick. It was scary. God forbid that someone go through this, ”later Yulia recalled this time in this way.

Of course, this situation is not uncommon in modern world, however, most often, women have to experience one thing. This may be the departure of a loved one, the departure of a husband from his wife and children, care during pregnancy, or refusal to pay alimony. Julia had a chance to face all this at once and at one moment. To everything else, the mother’s serious illness was added, which the girl found out just after Arshavin left.

Betrayal of a once beloved person, father of three children, absence financial assistance and support during pregnancy - all this fell on the shoulders of Baranovskaya in a foreign country. Probably, many people in Yulia's place would simply be lost and would not know what to do next. However, for the sake of the children and the future baby, who has not yet been born, Julia Baranovskaya found the strength to live on and not just live, but live a truly happy, rich and fulfilling life.

Decoupling: a breath of air

Spring 2014 Julia Baranovskaya appeared in Andrey Malakhov's program “Let them talk”: it was here that she spoke frankly for the first time in detail about the break with Arshavin.

Julia did not blame the father of her children for anything, however, she described his act as a betrayal, not wanting anyone to face this: “I could not even imagine that he would leave. I lived and did not think to control it. I trusted him, after all, we lived together for so many years.

Yulia describes the first time after Andrey's departure as " blank pages", But then these pages begin to gradually fill up again, and soon a real breakthrough happens: Baranovskaya becomes a TV presenter.

It all started with the show "The Bachelor" on TNT, then there was the program "Girls" on channel Russia 1, and since the fall of 2014, Yulia has become co-host of Alexander Gordon in the program "Male / Female".

The former common-law wife of Arshavin moved the children from London to Moscow, they had to get used to a new life in home country, and Yulia - to learn to combine the work and education of Artem, Yana and Arseniy. Alexander Gordon He repeatedly emphasized that he could not discuss the advantages and disadvantages of Baranovskaya after he met her three children.

In addition to building a career and realizing that she was left alone, Yulia had to go through another impartial act of the father of her children. For a long time, the couple could not agree on the payment of alimony, because the marriage was not officially concluded, and even despite having three children, it was very difficult for Yulia to prove their rights to her father's financial support.

“This is what scares a civil marriage, that a woman is not financially protected. It’s very unpleasant when you have to sue the father of your children!” Baranovskaya says.

Nevertheless, an end was put in this conflict: the court of St. Petersburg ruled that Andrei Arshavin was obliged to pay Baranovskaya half of his income every month.

If you look at Julia's microblog on Instagram, it becomes clear that now she is a truly happy and self-sufficient woman, in whose life there is a unique balance between a career and caring for children.

Yulia Baranovskaya had a lot of trials that she was able to pass with dignity and, of course, come out of them as a winner, because she has three beloved children who are always with their mother and one look at them is enough to forget about everything and get a new one. breath of air.

The famous presenter Yulia Baranovskaya was not always famous person. In Russia and in European countries she was glorified by a fateful meeting with Andrei Arshavin, who, after scandalous divorce went to the journalist Alisa Kazmina, leaving the pregnant Baranovskaya with two children. Julia did not despair - she gave birth to her third child and made a dizzying career as a TV presenter. Now Yulia Baranovskaya lives with her children and is immensely happy.

TV presenter's childhood

By nationality, Yulia and her parents are Russian. Mom, Natalya Brattseva, taught labor lessons at school, and her father, Gennady Baranovsky, worked at the plant as an engineer. Julia went to an ordinary St. Petersburg school. Since childhood, the girl was distinguished by the following qualities:

• responsibility;
• punctuality;
• performance.

At school, she was always unanimously elected head boy.

When the age of Yulia Baranovskaya reached the ten-year threshold, she knew her first loss. The father left the family. This date became for her a black day of the calendar. Julia was very painful about the divorce and did not see her father for fifteen years.

After some time, Natalia Bratseva got married and gave birth to two daughters. So Yulia got two sisters - Sasha and Ksyusha, with whom she still maintains a warm relationship.

At the end of school, the girl dreamed of entering the faculty of journalism. But her mother dissuaded her from this and convinced her to apply to the University of Aerospace Instrumentation. There were no problems with admission and Yulia was enrolled in the Faculty of Management. But she was not destined to get an education at this university. After the academic leave, Yulia did not return to her studies.

Meet the soccer star

In 2003, one unexpected meeting changed the personal life of Yulia Baranovskaya and her biography. Julia still remembers that day every minute.

After a hard and exhausting session, she and her friend went to the beach. They were so carried away by conversations that they didn’t even notice how pretty they were tanned. Upon returning from the beach, Julia saw that her car was scratched and was very upset. To distract the girl from this annoying thought, a friend invited Yulia for a walk along Nevsky Prospekt.

This is where the very acquaintance with the budding player of Zenit happened - Andrey Arshavin which turned the life of Baranovskaya.

The romance of Andrei and Yulia was very fast-paced. And two months later they began to live together. And two years later, the first-born son Artyom was born to the young couple. Julia left her studies and completely immersed herself in motherhood.

The relationship between Baranovskaya and Arshavin was not formalized. According to Yulia, Andrey offered to play a wedding, talked about all the possible places for the celebration, and about how many guests he would like to see. But she herself refused to marry, because she did not want to marry pregnant.

Worries about the baby dragged on the young mother, and the wedding was again postponed indefinitely.

Three years later, Julia gave birth to Arshavin's daughter, Yana. After the birth of the baby, the question of the wedding was no longer raised.

In 2009, Arshavin signed a contract with the London club Arsenal. and the whole family moved to live in the capital of Great Britain.

For Julia, the move was quite difficult. She did not know the language, there were no relatives and friends nearby, and her husband spent all the time in training and training camps. Therefore, Baranovskaya spent all the time with her children and equipped a new family home.

During the first publication, Arshavin's common-law wife admitted to the press that she did not admire the UK, and the British seemed rude and closed to her. For this reason, the English media began to track every step of Yulia and, if possible, write sharp articles about her.

But over time, life began to improve. Julia increasingly began to communicate with the wives of other players, and the press left her alone.

As her popularity increased, Yulia began to be invited to various events. At the Russian Maslenitsa festival, she was the host for a long time.

The life of the Arshavin family would have continued so calmly if in 2012 Andrei had not been called back to his native Zenit.

The football player easily agreed to return to Russia. But for his wife, this was problematic, since Yulia was expecting her third child, and the older children had already begun studying at a British school. Therefore, Arshavin moved to St. Petersburg, and the family remained to live in London.

After some time, Andrei confessed to his wife that he was leaving her and the children for new sweetheart. At one point, the pregnant Julia was left alone with two children, and this was at the moment when her mother fell ill and ended up in the hospital. Baranovskaya endured these events very hard. She had to stay in the hospital for a long time.

Several times the ex-wife tried to return the football player to the family, but all attempts were in vain.

Julia gathered her courage and gave birth to a healthy baby - Arsenia. After recovering a little from the birth, she filed for alimony in the London court, as she lived there. But the court refused.

Then Baranovskaya went to court at the place of residence of the ex-spouse. Litigation lasted for a long time, as the spouses were not scheduled. But a year later, the St. Petersburg court ordered Arshavin to pay half of his income ex-wife and children, as well as the footballer left the children a three-room apartment and a car.

Life after the departure of Arshavin

After parting with a famous football player, journalists began to observe the life of a mother of many children even more carefully. And every time I saw a TV presenter with a man, rumors spread about Yulia Baranovskaya and her new boyfriend on social networks.

Some time after the divorce, she was repeatedly seen in society with Andrey Chadov. Young people often appeared together at film premieres and social events. Their joint photos have repeatedly appeared on the Instagram network. But the couple denies any romantic relationship. Both claim they are just good friends.

Over time, Yulia and her children moved to Moscow. In the spring of 2015, Arshavin's ex-wife appeared at a fashion show with stylist Yevgeny Sedym. The couple kept a low profile, and besides, there were children with Baranovskaya. And the press again spread rumors about her new romance.

In the winter of 2017, Instagram once again stirred up new pictures of Baranovskaya and the soloist of the Ivanushki International group Andrei Grigoriev-Appolonov. famous families vacationing in Bali. Subscribers noted that Julia is in a great physical form and looks great.

It is currently unknown who Yulia Baranovskaya is dating. Only one thing is clear - the TV presenter is not trying to return ex-spouse. She raises wonderful children and is a wonderful mother.

TV star career

As you know, Julia has always dreamed of a career as a journalist. And after the divorce, she did not even have to learn this profession. To interview the ex-wife of the famous football player, the press lined up. Julia easily and freely talked about the breakup with her husband. A little later, she was called to the talk show of Andrei Malakhov. There, Baranovskaya for the first time told everything in detail, which aroused even greater interest among the public.

And at one of the secular parties, she was introduced to producer Peter Sheksheev. It was he who helped the future TV star get on the screens.

Baranovskaya participated in such well-known projects:

• "What do men want?" post-show "The Bachelor";
• "Masculine and feminine".

Now Yulia Baranovskaya, whose name is well known throughout the country, is often invited to various programs, actively maintains her blog on Instagram, is raising three wonderful children and believes that she will definitely meet the man of her life.

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Once a strong family successful football player Andrey Arshavin and Yulia Baranovskaya, famous TV presenter, broke up after 9 years of a happy life together. They did not stop the spouses, even if they were living in a civil marriage, even three children. Despite the fact that all the details of their lives were discussed by the fans very actively, how they met and how their relationship developed, as well as the nuances of the scandalous parting, are of interest to the numerous followers of these media people to this day. Of course, the fans are also interested in the actual details of their life after the sensational breakup.

Julia

The future popular TV presenter and wife of a successful football player Andrei Arshavin was born in the city on the Neva, St. Petersburg. True, on June 3, 1985, when this happened, he was still Leningrad.

An unremarkable ordinary family (father is an engineer, mother is a teacher) broke up when Yulia was 10 years old. The girl stayed with her mother. The relationship between the girl and her father ceased for almost 15 years after the divorce, and even after their reconciliation, they remained strained for a long time. It was difficult for the girl to understand why he left and left her mother and her. This, according to Julia herself, was a heavy blow for her.

Later, my mother remarried, and in this marriage two sisters of Yulia were born - Ksenia and Alexandra. She's like elder sister took an active part in their education. Today she calls them her own real family. Sisters and mother are the real hope and support of the famous Russian TV presenter.

Probably, such an experience of family relationships helped her in the future. But she hardly thought about it then.

At school, she studied very diligently and successfully. She was even elected more than once. All school achievements were Yulia's personal merit. Mom worked as a teacher, but in another school, and could not influence such a development of events.

After school, Julia, as a successful student, easily entered the university at the Faculty of Management. It was also her personal choice, but not very successful. The creative nature did not find a way out, it turned out that management is absolutely not for her. However, graduating from high school and getting a diploma of higher education she failed not because she did not like the profession she had chosen, but for a completely different reason. Everything changed His Majesty the case.

Acquaintance of Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin

One summer day in 2003, after passing the next exam, Yulia and her friend went for a walk. And on Nevsky Prospekt they met. He - then still a beginner and unknown to anyone, but a promising football player of St. Petersburg "Zenith" - won the heart of the beauty and made her forget about everything, dissolving in her beloved.

Their relationship developed very rapidly, even about formalization there was no time to really think about marriage ties. And indeed, when? She is a student, he has career ambitions. She was in seventh heaven with love and happiness, and like any girl in love, she thought that it was forever. For him, the stamp in the passport also did not seem to be an obligatory attribute of a happy family life.

Andrei, we must give him his due, wanted to legitimize the relationship, but Yulia wanted a real wedding with a beautiful dress and many guests, flowers and other attributes of the celebration and refused several times, and then this issue disappeared by itself. In general, everything went on as usual, there was not even a hint of an early end.

Birth of the first child

And Yulia Baranovskaya almost immediately began to live together. And already in 2005 for the first time became parents. They named their firstborn Artyom. The young mother was forced to leave her studies for a while, because caring for the baby did not give enough free time for this. Julia took an academic leave, however, she did not come out of it later.

Replenishment in the family

A little later, after 3 years, a beautiful daughter was born. They named her Yana. Second pregnancy and childbirth. Of course, two children made the young mother completely forget about continuing her education and diploma.

Then the story of Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin resembled the story of many young families: modest incomes, the need to earn money, caring for two small children. But one day everything changed. Andrei Arshavin was invited to Arsenal, one of the most famous football clubs in Foggy Albion and around the world. To play in this professional English FC is an honor for modern sportsmen.

"I will move to London..."

The choice was easy. Deciding to move to the capital of a European state, mindful of the opportunities presented, is not difficult. The terms of the contract were more than attractive, and the young family, without thinking twice, moved to London.

But the reality somewhat did not live up to expectations, mainly the wife of Andrei Arshavin, Yulia Baranovskaya. Julia can tell you a lot about what it's like to come to a country whose language is familiar to you only at the level of the Soviet high school, and you are responsible for arranging the life of a rather big family already. Children must be identified kindergarten and a school where they also speak English language. And the husband is always in training, championships and rarely appears at home. At the same time, you do not have the opportunity to relax, because there are no grandmothers or girlfriends nearby with whom you could just talk and cry.

The English press for a long time savored any of their appearance "in the light." The appearance of the four Arshavins in society became an occasion for jokes. Perhaps the reason for this was that she once said that she did not feel sympathy for this foreign country. Despite everything, in the photo, Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin simply glow with happiness during their life in London. They were a really beautiful couple.

Only after some time they managed to cope with all the difficulties and inconveniences. Julia even thought of organizing a club for young women who, just like her, moved to England. The purpose of such a club, according to her plan, was to help them at first. However, it was not possible to realize grandiose plans, and, ironically, again through the fault of Andrey.

Beginning of the End

In 2012, by the time the contract with Arsenal ended, Arshavin was offered to return to his native Zenit. Probably, he could not refuse and decided to leave for Russia.

But the mother of two children could not afford to simply snatch the already grown-up children from their familiar environment and the school to which they had already gone overnight. She had to stay in London for a while. Perhaps the separation was the indirect reason for their separation.

New novel by Andrei Arshavin

Yulia Baranovskaya and the children lived in London. And the head of the family did not waste time in vain. Very soon he found himself a new passion. The choice fell on Well, well, they say only 5% of men are polygamous, and Andrei Arshavin was no exception. His wife Yulia Baranovskaya was expecting her third child at that time. By the way, Alice did not suddenly appear, they met when Andrei and Yulia were all right.

Scandalous divorce

The story of the separation of Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin was not at all like a fairy tale. An outstanding athlete behaved unpredictably. He simply left the life of the family by calling and telling his pregnant wife that he had another woman. This happened in 2013.

Rumors that Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin reconciled periodically appeared in the press. However, there could be no talk of any reconciliation.

Returning from the capital of Great Britain, Julia had to live with three children on rented apartment. The father did not take part in the upbringing and maintenance of the children. Quite rightly, Julia decided to sue. Despite the fact that their marriage was not officially registered, according to the law, the father is responsible for his children.

By court decision, Arshavin pays half of the income to his family.

About this, as well as about many other things from life with Andrei Arshavin, ex-wife Yulia Baranovskaya will later write in her book.

Julia does not blame her husband, on the contrary, she is grateful to him for the almost 10 happy years that they lived together. She loved him, felt him from a distance. She shares details of their personal lives in the book, recalling that she could guess his thoughts and get through to him when no one could.

Andrei Arshavin's wife Yulia Baranovskaya looks at the situation with optimism. She believes that if they had not divorced, she would not have become what she is now. She would stay forever mother of many children and the wife of a successful football player.

The only thing she says she can't forgive him for is that he doesn't see his kids. As Julia says, dad is a holiday for them. She never turned them against their father, and if he ever comes to them, they will simply be delighted and hug him. And now they are too busy to worry about his constant absence.

Arshavin: life after divorce

A few years after breaking up with his first wife, Arshavin finally married his chosen one. They officially signed in 2016. In February 2017, the couple had a son, and in October they already announced a divorce. Moreover, according to eyewitnesses, Alice acted as the initiator.

Arshavin is widely known to viewers and fans for his explosive nature. Who does not remember his sharp statements after another devastating defeat of the Russian national football team?

Various compromising information often appears in the press. For example, that Arshavin hides his income in order to reduce child support payments.

After Arshavin

According to Yulia Baranovskaya, Andrei Arshavin taught her a lot. The experience that gave ex-husband, plays great value in her real life. It is thanks to communication with him that it is easy for her to build relationships with Alexander Gordon, co-host of the Male / Female program, as Yulia says jokingly.

It may seem that the divorce between Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin does not matter to her and did not excite her. However, this is not the case. She fearfully recalls severe depression, when it seemed that the ground was slipping from under her feet, and long nights in tears.

Today, Yulia Baranovskaya is a popular TV presenter and writer, whose advice is followed by many women who find themselves in a difficult life situation.

Personal life

As for personal life, here, apparently, everything is fine.

In 2015, Yulia could be seen at social events and film screenings, accompanied by the famous stylist Yevgeny Sedoy. The couple did not hide from the lenses of the ubiquitous photographers, and soon rumors about their romance spread in the press.

IN Lately Julia can often be seen in the company of the famous Russian film actor Alexei Chadov ("9th Company", "Heat"). True, as Yulia Baranovskaya herself says, only friendship connects them with Alexei. Although in the media you can see a lot of them joint photo that hint at something more. Moreover, they often appear together at social events and parties.

Recall that in the past he was married to actress Agniya Detkovskite. The couple has a son.

Career takeoff

After the hype associated with the divorce, Yulia became interesting to numerous organizers of various shows and correspondents of popular publications. To get hot firsthand information, they just lined up. Then Baranovskaya in the role ex-wife Arshavina took part in Andrey Malakhov's program "Let them talk". After filming, Yulia was invited to various events, where she met producer Peter Sheksheev. It was he who helped the future presenter to appear on television not as a guest.

She was the host of several popular programs on different channels: TNT-"Reboot", "Russia 1" - "Girls". Now she, along with Alexander Gordon, hosts the famous talk show "Male / Female" on Channel One.

You can discuss for a long time why Yulia Baranovskaya and Andrei Arshavin divorced. However, it is clear that, as always, time puts everything in its place.