Hello, dear ladies! Very often I hear from girls such phrases as "I'm boring", "I can't be alone for a long time", "I'm not fun to be with" and so on. The main problem is that women do not understand how to become interesting to themselves. Today I would like to talk about this and find out what needs to be done in a similar situation. How not to turn into a jester, not to go crazy with loneliness and find inner harmony.

Why do you need it

Let's start by finding out why you want to become interesting. And even better - for whom.

There are two options: for yourself and for others. The fact is that for a good result, you will have to use a different approach, depending on the answer to the question why.

If you are doing this for yourself, then we will talk about internal development, communication with yourself, finding activities that will develop potential. Here the path lies through self-knowledge and self-study. In this case, it doesn’t matter at all to the opinions of others, to their attitude towards you. And often, the attitude of others even hurts in a similar situation.

In the case when you want to become interesting to others, things are completely different. This is where other people's opinions and attitudes are very important. In this case, the concept of the soul of the company will be very important. After all, these are the people who are most popular.

In any case, there are some general principles and provisions that can be applied in both options. Thus, you can become interesting both for yourself and in the company to be cheerful, sociable and entertaining.

My own mistress

The first thing I would like to talk about is self-sufficiency. This quality will be useful to you in both cases. If you want to learn how to be at peace with yourself, then you certainly need to acquire a similar trait of character.

The bottom line is that you should not do something for a man, for a girlfriend, for your mother, for your son, or anyone else. Your life is in your hands. You have your own thoughts, your own attitude to things. You and only you are responsible for your actions. You do not depend on others and their opinions about you, but at the same time you treat everyone with respect and dignity. That's where the harmony is.

If you want to be the soul of the company, then you need self-sufficiency to perfectly understand the difference between useful and important tips surrounding and simple envy and hypocrisy. This quality will teach you to listen to the opinions of friends and draw conclusions. Do not blindly trust all the words.

I have already raised the issue of this quality in the article "". I'm sure it will be extremely helpful to you. Be sure to read.

Work and hobby

Another very important point- that's what you do. Your work or hobby should bring you tremendous pleasure. You yourself should experience enthusiasm and interest from your occupation. The girl who sits at home all day and scrolls through the news feed in in social networks She will not be interested in herself or others.

Have you noticed how the eyes of people who have found their favorite thing glow? And how do they know how to infect everyone around with their positive and positive energy? You can do it too! It's worth just getting started. It could be absolutely anything. You know yourself well. Remember your childhood, look into your dreams, shake your fantasy.

If you think that your work is completely uninteresting, boring, monotonous and no one will hear about it, then you simply do not know how to talk beautifully. A friend of mine worked as a completely ordinary bank clerk. Loans, financial schemes, numbers, papers and nothing spectacular. But he spoke with such rapture about the work that everyone sat with their mouths open and did not blink while he talked about his work.

Try to look at your work differently. Find what is interesting about her, why you love her, what delights and inspires you. Learn new facets of your occupation, expand your knowledge, improve your skills. Grow and learn.

If you are currently sitting at home and cannot find suitable job, then the article "" will be very useful for you. Remember that nothing is impossible in the world.

Don't lose your self

On this path, it is very important not to lose yourself and not become the generally accepted template of an “interesting person”. It is always important to be yourself and not betray your principles. A lot of people in an attempt to become interesting and not be boring lose their zest. That is why I spoke about self-sufficiency in the first place.

The more versatile you are, the broader your views of the world are, the more interesting it will be to talk with you. After all, when a person is very fixated on one thing with him and there is nothing special to talk about. For development, read more books, watch movies from different eras, study art, pay attention to the exact sciences.

Moreover, a sense of humor will help you a lot along the way. Agree, it is a pleasure to be in a company where there is a person who knows how to joke. I don't often meet girls with a good sense of humor, but it's not their fault. In the world it is believed that a woman does not know how to joke. Therefore, the young ladies do not even try to learn this. But jokes, like mathematical formulas, can be learned. Everything depends on you.

Dear women, I am sure that you will definitely succeed in what you have planned. I would advise you to first learn to be interesting to yourself. Then it will not be so difficult to become interesting to others.

I would love to hear your stories. Have you ever done something to be the center of attention? Do you have a friend who is the "life of the party"? And what do you think makes her different from others?

“I was hungry for fellowship—I wanted to talk to someone. Over time, I began to realize that I needed to do something to counter loneliness. If I continued to be alone in silence, I would simply go crazy. These words belong to a man who spent five years in solitary confinement and was deprived of one of the most important human needs - communication.

Indeed, it is very important to speak! Everyone is so arranged. It is an irreplaceable way of expressing feelings. For example, if you want your spouse to know how important they are to you, you need to talk about your feelings. But for many, communication is not an easy task, a lot of work, which is often avoided.

What obstacles can arise on the way to the art of interesting conversation or communication? How to become interesting interlocutor?

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Barriers to conversation

1. Shyness

One of the most difficult problems on the way to communication. Shy people shut themselves off from others. Why? Perhaps they were brought up in, in which they did not really communicate with each other, but, on the contrary, separated from others.

2. Self-doubt

Many people may experience years of fear of looking stupid or fear of being caught in a downpour of criticism. Therefore, they find it much easier to avoid talking to others.

3. Inferiority complex

This is the case when a person does not mind talking, but considers himself an "incapable loser", so he prefers to suffer in silence.

There is another side to the coin: many people feel free to communicate, but when another person speaks, they tend to interrupt, thereby depriving their interlocutors of the joy of intimate communication.

How to overcome these difficulties and learn to talk with others interestingly and with warmth?

Listen, be interested, be attentive

If you're at a loss as to what to say, don't despair. In fact, you know a lot more than you think.

And if you often catch yourself thinking that no one wants to listen to you or that you are not interested, analyze how well you know how to listen. You don't have to keep talking to keep a conversation going.

Both interlocutors should speak. In this case, you need to be guided by the principle: "Take care not only of your own needs, but also of the needs of another."

For this:

  • take an interest in those around you state of mind. Get into the habit, before talking about yourself or asking for anything, ask about the affairs of the interlocutor, for example: “How are you feeling?” or “Is there anything I can do to help?”;
  • pay attention to the facial expressions of the interlocutor - it speaks about the feelings of the other more than his words.

A taciturn interlocutor can lead to despair, a talkative - to a crime.
Don Aminado

But what to do if you are talking to someone who is not strong in conversation?

Still, give the other person the opportunity to express their feelings. To do this, ask tactful questions. Suppose you are talking to an elderly person.

Ask him about how the world has changed or family life since his youth. In addition to learning a lot yourself, you will make your interlocutor happy.

How to become an interesting person and develop charisma

In society, and especially among public figures, there are very often people who do not have a spectacular appearance or high status, and in general, at first glance, you cannot say that such a person can be in demand in a team, have many friends and acquaintances. However, from the first minutes of meeting it becomes clear that this person is incredibly interesting person, which attracts people with its charm. In such cases, it is customary to say that a person is very charismatic.

It is widely believed that charisma cannot be developed as a skill, and that this feature character is given to people by nature. There is a certain amount of truth in this, a predisposition to charismatic behavior allows a person to behave more confidently, naturally and naturally, but this does not mean at all that the unfortunate people deprived of this gift are doomed to vegetate outside the social circle.

In order to take the first step towards becoming, you need to perform one simple action, which, despite its simplicity, is stubbornly ignored by many people. It's about about developing a respectful attitude towards ourselves, it is necessary to love yourself, accept all shortcomings and weak sides and then try to focus on the benefits.

In self-love, you should not look for selfish motives, because this is absolutely natural. Loving yourself does not mean exalting yourself above everyone around you, it is necessary to understand that a person who is not able to love himself has no chance of earning the love of another person.

Only by beginning to respect himself, a person becomes open to accepting love from outside.


The next step follows directly from the previous one. Self-respect automatically increases self-esteem, and this is very important for successful interaction with others. It is impossible to become a charismatic person if numerous complexes, fears and other consequences of low self-esteem get in the way. Next to a charismatic and sociable person, others also begin to feel more relaxed, relaxed and at ease.

A closed person, by his behavior, makes others feel uncomfortable, and as a result, they try to stop communication with such a clamped person as soon as possible. There is no need to try to be someone else, because it is impossible to pretend all your life, but you cannot run away from yourself. It is much easier to be yourself, stop being ashamed of your shortcomings, and this big job, which can be done only with considerable effort.

As you know, any skill develops in the process of training. It is impossible to learn how to cook well, play a musical instrument, understand technology, only on the basis of theoretical knowledge. The same applies to the ability to communicate and win over others. To develop this skill, you need to communicate a lot with different people, preferably with strangers. Such training will help to form the ability to quickly navigate the conversation, and the appearance of new acquaintances, and maybe friends, will be a pleasant bonus.

It is much easier for smart and well-read interlocutors to maintain any conversation, therefore, it is more pleasant to communicate with such people. It is necessary to read a lot of literature on a variety of topics, people very subtly feel a well-read person and respect such a person.

Thus, we involuntarily transfer a worthy and fair attitude towards ourselves to the people around us. If the relationship is positive, then the return on interaction will be positive. It is necessary to follow the golden rule and treat people as best as possible in order to get the same in return, then there will be no problems.

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10 tips on how to become an interesting person and conversationalist

Pay attention to the people who belong to your social circle. Agree that some of your acquaintances attract more attention, they are listened to more, they are sympathized with, while others go unnoticed, even if they make attempts to be in the spotlight.

It is obvious that few people will be pleased with the company of a boring, constant whining, behind-the-scenes person. After all, the interlocutor in the process of communication wants not only to speak out himself, but also to draw for himself interesting information, energize from a partner.

In order for people to like you, you need to be an interesting conversationalist yourself. Following our advice, you will feel that your life is filled with colors, saturated with events, experience is accumulating, the circle of acquaintances is expanding.

1. Become a good conversationalist

  • Learn to listen carefully;
  • Ask questions to the interlocutor, so you will demonstrate that his story really interests you;
  • Express your feelings about what you hear. For example: “I am outraged by his act ...”, “how did you manage to do this ...”, “it’s so wonderful that you succeeded ...”;
  • Keep up the conversation interesting facts from life, books, articles;
  • No ridicule, over the feelings of the interlocutor;
  • Do not teach, do not insist, but advise and recommend.
There will be something to talk about with friends.

3. Have your own hobbies

When you are passionate about something, your eyes burn, you are overwhelmed by emotions, you are full of energy that is transmitted to others.

4. Experiment and share your results and experiences

It will be useful for others, you will be grateful.

5. Stay home

visit more various events(exhibitions, concerts, lectures, meetings, sports competitions). There you will definitely see something interesting, meet friends, maybe meet someone. You will have many topics to discuss with your friends.

6. Register on social networks

Connect to your friends more people, even if you are not familiar with them, find groups of your like-minded hobbyists.

Post to your page interesting photos, enter into discussions, express your opinion.

7. Connect with a variety of people

Don't be afraid to meet new people. Know that if you are active, other people are interested in you. They want to listen to you, your opinion and experience are valuable and useful, no doubt.

8. Be confident

Remember that you, with your own characteristics, with your “cockroaches in your head”, are unique, and therefore interesting to others. If all people on earth were the same, we would all die of boredom.

9. Go in for sports

Yes, it is not easy, especially if you have never even done exercises before. But it is not necessary to exhaust yourself with simulators if you don’t like it and can’t afford it. You can start with brisk walking or running.

People who go in for sports are always more self-confident, more energetic.

10. Look after yourself

The first thing that catches your eye is the appearance of a person. Keep track of clothes, shoes, hair, make-up. Try not to be old-fashioned or dress insipidly.

If you don't like today's fashion, you need to learn the rules for choosing a classic wardrobe and follow them.

Remember that by trying to become interesting to others, you will first of all become interesting to yourself. As a result, your self-esteem will increase, you will no longer be visited by sad thoughts, due to the variety of interests and being busy with exciting things, you will have no time to cry, and there is no need to. Life will be filled with colors and meaning.

Conclusion

Remember that no matter how difficult it is for you to communicate with others today, you can always fix it. Don't forget that the best conversation stimuli are friendliness, tact and a good sense of humor.

Develop these qualities in yourself, and it will be much more interesting to communicate with you!

How to interest the interlocutor? How to become interesting in a conversation? How to attract people and be able to communicate with any interlocutor? We will talk about all this in our article.

If you want to be interesting to the interlocutor - talk to him about what he is interested in, copy his demeanor and be like him. After all, people like interlocutors who have similar interests - this is a simple theory that everyone can understand. And really, what's so difficult about that?

But, as often happens, in theory one thing comes out, but in practice - quite another. Not all people can find common interests and common topics for communication, and simply do not always understand the topic that the interlocutor is talking about. Therefore, if you suddenly have such a problem, below are a few practical advice in order not to be a boring person and to interest the interlocutor in a conversation.

1. Your interlocutor's area of ​​interest consists of several categories: "people", "place", "time", "values", "process", "things". Usually people have a few favorite things they like to talk about, and the rest are not of particular interest to them.

2. In order to be interesting to the interlocutor, it will be useful to determine those categories that are of interest to him. To do this, listen to what the interlocutor is saying if you have not started a conversation yet, or alternatively, unobtrusively take an interest in his interests, try to prove to him your similarities and find common ground.

3. In a conversation, try to determine the character of your interlocutor (just do not succumb to first impressions) and his mood at the current moment. This will help you avoid conflicts and making yourself look bad.

4. It is better to imagine your shortcomings as a continuation of your virtues, emphasizing them unobtrusively, even with humor. This will help you not to scare away a person and create a positive image of you as a person who does not hide his shortcomings, but does not flaunt them either.

5. For a better understanding in practice, it is also worth getting to know each type of people individually in order to determine the type of interlocutor in time and adapt to it.

So let's go:

1. An interlocutor who is interested in people will first of all talk about the environment, some personalities. It is important for him who he communicates with, how they communicate with him and what his environment is like. He likes to express opinions about other people.

2. An interlocutor who is interested in a place is primarily interested in the space in which he is, and the things that surround him. He may have traveled a lot and likes to talk about his favorite sights and places in your city.

3. An interlocutor who is interested in time will, oddly enough, be interested in time and timing. Everything related to the passage of time is his forte. Can you hear it in conversation last story about how he left the house late and almost missed work, or nostalgia for the old times in which he lived.

4. An interlocutor who is interested in values ​​will tell you about his view of the world and, perhaps, compare them with others. He can both act in his own way, if he values ​​\u200b\u200bpersonal freedom, and do unpleasant work because "it is necessary." Usually such people look at the world pragmatically, looking for some benefit in everything, for themselves and, perhaps, others.

5. An interlocutor who is interested in the execution process and the sequence of execution will ask you not about what he needs to do, but HOW he should do it. He can have good collation and analysis skills, and sort things out step by step. In addition, keep in mind that for most people, the pleasure and emotions received from doing a task also matter.

6. An interlocutor who is interested in objects will pay attention to the objects around him. He will certainly pay attention to where the TV is and what kind of TV it is, in his speech you can often hear the names of any things, perhaps not only material, but also spiritual.

It is worth noting that the interests of people can be combinations, and you will not find a completely pure type anywhere.

And the main advice that can be given in this article is more practice and own experience. Use the theoretical knowledge you get, but draw your own conclusions.

To support any conversation, to supplement the dialogue with facts, to decorate speech with successful verbal turns and quotations - this is a whole art that a person learns with early childhood. We learn to listen to the interlocutor, catch the thought and support him, using the information that we receive daily from the means mass media. It is very important to be able to correctly build your thoughts and express them during a conversation. Oratory makes us charismatic, knowledgeable and wise man. Let's find out how to become an interesting conversationalist and what you need to do for this.

Fighting the inner self

If at least one complex sits inside you, then it can make you a squeezed and insecure person. An interesting interlocutor is, first of all, one who was able to carefully work on himself. If you are a shy, modest, cowardly and unlucky person, then this article is for you. Try to spend little experiment: take a sheet of paper and mentally draw a line in the center. In the first column, write down all your positive traits and hobbies, in the second - all their fears and complexes. Take a look at the list and be surprised: after all, the first column will indicate at least 5 interests that make you partly happy. Each hobby can develop into something bigger and grandiose, which will eventually defeat your complexes.

Right Society

You will not learn how to become an interesting conversationalist if you try to please everyone and everyone. Sometimes you do not notice that you are surrounded by people whose hobbies are fundamentally different from your inner "I". This can manifest itself as ignoring the interlocutor or comments addressed to you that listening to you is uninteresting and boring.

First of all, analyze how your worldview coincides with the surrounding society. Then just change your social circle. Don't know where to find it? Attend concerts, museums, sporting events, poetry evenings, needlework classes, or foreign languages. Turning your interests into reality, developing them, you will begin to notice how your environment is changing, new people appear in it. amazing people who want and will listen to you with rapture.

If your partner is a man

Men love smart people, they like it when the interlocutor can support any conversation. There is no need to limit yourself to the fact that men are the stronger sex who are only interested in sports, fishing and cars. First of all, the male part of the earth is the same representatives human race who are fond of cooking, and cinema, and literature, and animals. To be an interesting conversationalist for the male half of the population, you should not pretend that you enjoy the dialogue, and do not try to pull out any convoluted facts from yourself. It is enough to be open, win over a partner and not be shy about sharing your hobbies. Remembering this simple advice, you will know the truth of how to become an interesting conversationalist for a man.

If your partner is a girl

Girls are the perfect sex. They are mysterious and romantic, dreamy and fragile. Girls, as a rule, love with their ears, so for such an interlocutor you must find a certain approach. First, listen carefully to each story. If you are bored in the middle of a story, then this may not be your partner. Secondly, not all girls love fashion, animals and photography. Many are fond of fishing, hunting, engineering, and someone much better than men repairs household appliances. Here the principle is simple: to learn how to become an interesting interlocutor for a girl, you need to be literate and well-read. You can hit a girl only with facts, knowledge and non-standard thinking, and not just with beauty, strength and strong character.

Books for self-development

Many start small and wonder: "What books to read to become an interesting conversationalist?" It is enough to understand that you must develop constantly, and for this you need to read literature, and watch scientific programs, and attend interesting events, and travel, and communicate with different people. Literature in this case will help to know only the theoretical part. oratory, but not more. After reading books, you need communication to learn how to hone your skills. We present to your attention the top 10 literary masterpieces that will help you to know human nature and look from the outside at ideal interlocutors:

What does it take to be an interesting conversationalist? Become more open. You won't be able to attract attention if you are closed in your cocoon. Open up to people, learn to trust them, don't be afraid to talk about your hobbies, desires and dreams. But no one talks about being pushy and trying to win the hearts of everyone around.

If you don’t know how to become an interesting conversationalist, then you will have to learn how to talk about yourself. If you are squeezed and closed in yourself, then an easy exercise will help you: write out the stories from your life on a piece of paper, read it carefully. Try putting down on paper the thoughts and feelings that you can't say out loud.

Do not be afraid to express your opinion and defend a personal point of view, do not be afraid to ask about the affairs of the interlocutor and give advice if you are asked. Be confident and proud, never lower your eyes and head. Feel free to compliment and call the interlocutor by name. By following all these tips, you will learn how to become an interesting conversationalist.

There are no boundaries for perfection. For this reason, people are interested in how to become better. They seek to improve their character, acquire new skills, and desire to devote attention to spiritual development.

I note that this task is feasible for everyone. Help with this step by step recommendations. The main thing is desire and perseverance. Otherwise, the result will not be expected.

  • Make a list of the traits you want to fix. It is guaranteed that there will be qualities of character and external flaws that do not suit you. I advise you to start with the little things that burn nerve cells.
  • It does not hurt to analyze everything and communicate with people of different generations. Feel free to ask for advice. Only in this way make the only and correct decision.
  • Make a plan of action focused on correcting the shortcomings. If you identify the problem, you're half done. Do not forget about the existence of the second half, because achieving the goal depends on how well you act.
  • Ready Plan do it step by step. Write the steps on different sheets of paper and use them one by one. This will relieve psychological stress and allow you to concentrate on the goal.
  • By starting with simple things, you will overcome the resistance created by the body. It will appear every time you want to leave your comfort zone. For example, the body will not like it if you replace travel in transport with walking.
  • Be sure to track your results. Keeping a diary will help with this. After each achievement, be sure to praise yourself to strengthen your willpower.
  • During the experiments, I do not recommend overloading with other activities. Otherwise, you will fail, and the work done will be in vain.
  • In no case do not forget about pampering and praise. If you have not eaten sweets for three days, treat yourself to a hot bath using aromatic oils. Such self-hypnosis will show that you are moving in the right direction.
  • Having fixed the success, switch to a more serious goal. Try not to shock the psyche, otherwise old habits will return.

The process of self-improvement is not easy, but it is more difficult to do nothing. Don't wait until life forces you to change. Try to find faults on your own and do everything possible to eliminate them.

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How to be better at everything

People who want to become the best in everything are considered naive and narcissistic individuals. Such an opinion has the right to exist, but it is not entirely correct. If a person wants this, it means that he strives to work on himself. And this is the approach of a creative, energetic and strong personality.

  1. Define goals. Getting better at everything is unrealistic and you understand that. Achieve the top in areas that are important and interesting to you. Select them and write them down.
  2. It is impossible to set goals correctly without good motivation. Weight loss is needed to improve the figure, and not to acquire an elegant dress. A clear presentation of the result of the work will not allow you to stop halfway and will contribute to success.
  3. For each individual goal, make a plan. To do this, study the area in which you intend to succeed. Determine how to achieve the result and the resources that will be needed.
  4. Once this issue is resolved, make a plan. First, sketch out a draft and break it down into stages. Then review the plan.
  5. I do not recommend planning what you cannot implement. To find out how Chinese New Year is celebrated, a visit to this country is required. If this is not possible, remove the item from the plan.
  6. Do not spray under any circumstances. If you want to improve in several areas, approach the issue wisely. Sometimes you combine achieving goals, but in some cases, strive for one thing.
  7. Take small steps towards your goal. This will allow you to act in several directions without straining. You should not count on a quick result, since working on yourself involves the expenditure of effort, time and patience.
  8. Start your plan with priority goals. Be sure to evaluate the achievement of what goal will require the largest number time and start from there.
  9. Highlight in one category areas related to everyday life, health, nutrition and personal life. Do them daily. Make this work a habit.

If something doesn't work, don't give up. Remember, no one is immune from failure. Take them as manifestations of life. Celebrating your successes will keep you enthusiastic, and each praise for your next achievement will ensure that you feel like you are getting better.

Getting better on the outside

Everyone wants to be beautiful and young. People have been looking for the "elixir of youth" for a long time. To achieve the goal, they spend a lot of time, effort and money. But, as practice shows, all works are unsuccessful.

Eliminate defects in appearance allow plastic surgery, but not every person is ready to go for it, and pleasure cannot be called affordable. Therefore, people are interested in the issue of improving appearance through sports and healthy eating at home.

Without significant time and effort to get well-groomed skin and beautiful figure impossible. It is recommended to improve the appearance completely. This will help small tricks, which I will devote the next section of the story.

Now we will become better externally using improvised means and with minimal effort. Perhaps you have certain doubts about this, but I will try to dispel them.

  • Did you know that cucumber is a cosmetic product that relieves puffiness? Before you paint your eyes on closed eyelids, put thin slices of cucumber. Additionally, prepare a mask from a vegetable.
  • Effectively deal with oily hair allows baby powder, sprinkled on a brush. This product absorbs grease.
  • You can restore softness to your lips with a soft toothbrush. Apply a balm on it, which will provide a peeling effect.
  • I recommend shaving your legs after a bath. This will make the skin of the legs smooth. Hair, "steamed" in hot water, become soft and the procedure for removing "unwanted vegetation" will be more pleasant.
  • Most people have rough skin on their elbows and knees. A gentle scrub will help smooth it out.
  • Want to make your teeth whiter? It is not necessary to go to the dentist. Use a bluish tint.
  • To bring the eyebrows in order and give them shape, I recommend using a hair gel. But I don’t advise you to overdo it with tweezers, otherwise you will be left without eyebrows.
  • Take a shower with scented gel. As a result, the body will remain fragrant for longer. If possible, purchase a set consisting of perfume, gel and eau de toilette.
  • Stop using hairspray. Style with a hair dryer and comb. Without skills it will be difficult, but over time you will get used to it.
  • Use hair conditioner several times a week. This cosmetic product will take care of the condition of the ends of the hair.

Agree, none of the tips involves the use of expensive or abstruse means. All this is present in the home arsenal of every person. Recommendations will make you look younger and more beautiful. Most importantly, don't stop. Only Full time job over appearance will provide results and lasting effect.

How to become better than others

Some people consider themselves charming, beautiful and smart. At the same time, they refuse to notice flaws, and they are present in everyone. Some individuals are so confident in their own exclusivity and superiority that sometimes titanic efforts are made to return them to earth.

I hope that your conceit is in order and that you are aware of your weaknesses and strengths. If you are ready to work on yourself, I will help you.

  1. First of all, decide who you want to "jump". A goal is required to achieve a goal. The area can be any: career, leisure, hobbies, hobbies.
  2. Do you want to become an interesting conversationalist? You will need to acquire an enviable store of knowledge. Communicate with limited and empty-headed personalities, which will allow you to stand out from their crowd. But this is not enough.
  3. I dare to suggest that you are interested in communicating with erudite interlocutors who support the conversation. In this matter, do not overdo it, otherwise the environment will consider you a “bore”.
  4. Strive for benevolence and find in people good qualities. If people notice this, they will be drawn to you. Therefore, splash out the negative less often.
  5. Constantly show attention and be interested in the things your friends are doing. If necessary, I recommend helping a friend. Again, act carefully, otherwise attentiveness will turn into importunity.
  6. Learn to listen and express your opinion. The person with whom you are talking will understand that you can be relied upon at any moment, and will appreciate this quality.
  7. Everyone has complexes and shortcomings. Coping with shortcomings is not easy, but you can say goodbye to the complexes. That is why keep a close eye on the shortcomings and try to eliminate them.
  8. It is no secret that often the cause of deficiencies is physical qualities. It's impossible to deal with them. For example, if you have a small height, it is unrealistic to grow. Come to terms with this.
  9. Don't hide your personality. Try to show your imagination and feelings more often. Everyone has an intuition. Use it to define your style. He may not be to everyone's liking, but a true friend will accept you for who you are.
  10. You will be better than others by taking the initiative. Not everyone is able to be the first to start a conversation with a stranger. Don't be afraid of it. So make acquaintances, find a girl or a guy.

Listen to the advice and remember that the key to success is a sincere smile. She will help to conquer peaks and do impossible things.

If you frown and throw lightning at passers-by with your eyes, nothing will work, and the environment will turn away. I think you don’t need this, because life alone is gloomy and uninteresting.

Life requires an all-round pursuit of excellence. This will take a lot of time and effort, but it's worth it. In addition, the occupation is very useful, because a person who is engaged in self-improvement moves forward, develops, competes with himself and achieves success.